everytime we get together for thanksgiving or christmas, my 5 cousins on this side of the family have this ritual, where since all but me and my 26 year old cousin Alex, are married, and after the huge meal, we all go out on our grandparent's porch for a smoke break and ever since my first cousin got married, they'd sit down and the male spouse would massage the feet of their wife. so, since me and my cousin alex haven't been married yet, i have to massage her feet, which she proptly apologizes for, but i laugh at it, since, hello, i have no problem with feet (they don't know that) and i must massage her feet, which are really soft and cute, even for being in the Marines. she laughs and giggles the entire time and she enjoys it. it's really just fun for all.