YouNeverKnow175
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I've been thinking about this same question a lot, too. Here's what comes to mind:
1) It's a way of directing one's sexual energy and interest toward the person they're committed to. I think a lot of fetishes evolve subtly over time, and sometimes it may become more exciting not to just tickle your wife, or see her feet, but to tickle your wife and tell stories about it, or to share a picture of her feet. This actually seems like a really sane and healthy way to stay monogamous.
2) This is different than "boasting" I think - it has to do with telling or showing others something that only they can appreciate. For me, there's something really exciting about sharing a tickle story about my gf (I haven't shared any pictures before), because I want other people who UNDERSTAND how crazy she drives me with her ticklishness to appreciate it. I've been taking a lot of pictures of her feet lately and while I'm not taking them intending to show them, I do take them to capture their gorgeousness in that moment, because I feel like they're too sexy not to be captured. Sharing is just one step further.
3) The third person fantasy is definitely something I have too. It's pretty simple, in some ways, I think - we don't get to actually SEE our wife GET tickled that often. Yes, we're doing it, but it's different to get to witness it. I know for me, I'd only be comfortable if it were a woman...but...let's just say I'd be VERY, VERY comfortable if it were a woman 🙂
1) It's a way of directing one's sexual energy and interest toward the person they're committed to. I think a lot of fetishes evolve subtly over time, and sometimes it may become more exciting not to just tickle your wife, or see her feet, but to tickle your wife and tell stories about it, or to share a picture of her feet. This actually seems like a really sane and healthy way to stay monogamous.
2) This is different than "boasting" I think - it has to do with telling or showing others something that only they can appreciate. For me, there's something really exciting about sharing a tickle story about my gf (I haven't shared any pictures before), because I want other people who UNDERSTAND how crazy she drives me with her ticklishness to appreciate it. I've been taking a lot of pictures of her feet lately and while I'm not taking them intending to show them, I do take them to capture their gorgeousness in that moment, because I feel like they're too sexy not to be captured. Sharing is just one step further.
3) The third person fantasy is definitely something I have too. It's pretty simple, in some ways, I think - we don't get to actually SEE our wife GET tickled that often. Yes, we're doing it, but it's different to get to witness it. I know for me, I'd only be comfortable if it were a woman...but...let's just say I'd be VERY, VERY comfortable if it were a woman 🙂



