I wasnt gonna comment on this but what the hell.I would not recommend waiting til' marriage, like aurora said ''what if you never get married.''Dont rush it but if someone special comes along do your thing.Just be smart about it.Life is too short to wait on things to happen.Believe me,I know where you are coming from first hand.Things dont always work out the way we would plan them to.Just keep that in mind.
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Feeling like I'm missing out...
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I lost my V as my sister would put it when I was 19. Part of it was my twin sister lost hers and I felt left out. I dont regret what I did. I was originally going to wait till I was married but things change. I did end up marrying the second guy I was with and let me tell you about my wedding night.... it felt like any old night. We kinda felt weird about the whole "consumation thing". Our honeymoon was fun (we stayed at a B&B with a dungon) but that first night was SOOOOO ordinary. I dont regret having sex with him before we got married. It just wasnt the romantic wedding night I had always thought I would have.
Virgins and non-virgins alike feel there missing out on many things in life!!! So what?! I don't mean that to sound harsh, just don't let your feelings dictate your actions!! The problem can easily be solved by having sex, but then will you feel you've sold out!! See solving one problem can very quickly bring about many more problems that now despite the fact you feel your "missing out" doesn't mean you are!!!! It's your descision so whatever you decide remember no one has to live with the decision but YOU!!!
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Well I do admire you for waiting until marriage to have sex but it's not for me. I mean I didn't have sex until my sophmore year of college because I didn't have an exactly normal teenage years. Anyway, it's good that I didn't wait until I got married because with my horrible luck in love, I don't think I'll ever get married 
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I do respect your decision to wait until marriage.
. I do respect your decision to wait until marriage.
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First off, thank you to everyone who've responded and shared your personal experiences. I truly appreciate the straightforward candor.
When I made that promise, it was partly because of my faith as a Christian and partly because of stories I either heard or read, about STDs and pregnancy. As I got older, the promise I made to myself grew to mainly be that I'm not ready for this. Having had no boyfriends during high school, I didn't feel any pressure.
It wasn't until lately that I had been questioning myself and I needed to basically spill my guts, and it's helped a lot to know that I'm not alone on this. I'm feeling more secure in what I want. I still want to wait until marriage, but if and when I'm with someone whom I love and feel in my heart that it's right, I won't beat myself up for taking the plunge.
Thank you all for helping.
When I made that promise, it was partly because of my faith as a Christian and partly because of stories I either heard or read, about STDs and pregnancy. As I got older, the promise I made to myself grew to mainly be that I'm not ready for this. Having had no boyfriends during high school, I didn't feel any pressure.
It wasn't until lately that I had been questioning myself and I needed to basically spill my guts, and it's helped a lot to know that I'm not alone on this. I'm feeling more secure in what I want. I still want to wait until marriage, but if and when I'm with someone whom I love and feel in my heart that it's right, I won't beat myself up for taking the plunge.
Thank you all for helping.
