Feet..?

[Azrael]

What, exactly, is it, about foot guys?

As I've said on... well, many an occasion... I'm definitely into a girl's feet. I don't exactly make the way her feet look, or whether or not they are ticklish, a primary consideration with regards to whether or not I will associate with / date her, but if I'm with a girl (romantically speaking) I like paying attention to her feet.

I don't believe there's any harm in that, is there? Even the most vanilla girl will appreciate a foot massage delivered at the right moment. It's easy enough to slip a few strategically placed kisses into that sort of thing, and perhaps spark a giggle or two. If not... it's still all good; there's more to a relationship than feet, or tickling, of course.

But... damn.

What is it about some of the foot guys? I mean, they're making the rest of us look really, really vile. Is the line "I love to tickle girls' feet!" really appropriate in a signature, even here? If one goes to a "normal" pornographic Site, are there regulars on the forums that say things like "BOOBS BOOBS BOOBS YEAHHHH BOOBS!!!" on a more or less consistant basis..?

Or, for that matter, "Ohhhh I love to suck a girl's nipples ohhhh and feel her breasts... ohhhh yeah while I f@#$ her brains out, yeahhhhh..."

Honestly. How can anyone, even a deluded teenage nutjob, think that's in any way attractive or acceptable behavior? In any way at all?

The foot-fetish equivalent to such statements is broadcast on this Site, and on a regular basis, particularly in the chatroom.

Conversations like, "Are your feet ticklish?" "I'm not into feet." "I didn't ask THAT!" are a regular occurence.

Call me self-righteous, but this kind of thing bothers me. I'm at a tickling Website, and I feel like I can't even bring up tickling a girl's feet, because the subject has been----not just 'mentioned,' but----beaten to death, raped, and slobbered over by 1,378,498 guys before me.

 

[CurtWild]

"BOOBS BOOBS BOOBS YEAHHHH BOOBS!!!" on a more or less consistant basis..?

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sorry....anyway

i`m not sure what your issue is with peoples sigs saying they like to tickle feet.they are just being honest and straightforward.i`m not so sure why THAT would bug you.

i guess i agree with some of what you have said although i am a "foot fetishist" myself.some people to go overboard i suppose.

you seem to have quite a bit of anger towards the foot people. 😀

 

[babinsky]

And you might want to add......
As soon as you tell a girl that you've seen her post on the TMF,
you can almost hear the door slamming. "Oh no...A guy from the forum."
Which tells me that alot of women here, have been harrassed to death from
the "clods" around here. Just because you meet a woman who's into "this"
doesn't mean she's going to let just anybody in to her personal space..
Run up to a woman in a parking lot and ask her if she's ticklish..Its about the same deal as it is here..Hop on over to Myspace and check out the women who are into tickling..If they recognise your name from the TMF, you're shouting into an empty canyon...

 

[dcbahr]

I will agree, there are those who can go overboard, but that's just the way it is. I like feet, I like tickling them and all the other stuff, I don't advertise it in my sig cause well...I just don't, but if others want to, that's up to them. There's always gonna be someone who doesn't like something, and if it helps by complaining about it, then go right ahead, but I say, if ya don't like it, don't pay attention to it. I'm not in to m/m tickling but I haven't written a post that says, "damn what is it with all the m/m stories in the stories section?" I just ignore it and go on my way.

Dave

 

[Soda83pop]

What, exactly, is it, about foot guys

The same thing that it is about ticklephiles...most are cool, some are dicks...has nothing to with it being feet.

 

[Ace Riley]

"BOOBS BOOBS BOOBS YEAHHHH BOOBS!!!"

Must...resist the urge...to make this...my new sig... AUUUGH!!!

Sorry Az. 🙁 Forgive me!

 

[Flatfoot]

Perhaps some feel so repressed in their desires that they utilize this place to "let loose" with their feelings because they feel they cannot do so publicly--strike that, in their personal lives, and have the benefit of anonymity here.

I'm also thinkin' a lot of the members who are very blatant about the interest act in such a manner because they want it so much that they are focusing on it to the point where it becomes an unhealthy "need".

 

[OnnaOtaku]

And you might want to add......
As soon as you tell a girl that you've seen her post on the TMF,
you can almost hear the door slamming. "Oh no...A guy from the forum."
Which tells me that alot of women here, have been harrassed to death from
the "clods" around here. Just because you meet a woman who's into "this"
doesn't mean she's going to let just anybody in to her personal space..
Run up to a woman in a parking lot and ask her if she's ticklish..Its about the same deal as it is here..Hop on over to Myspace and check out the women who are into tickling..If they recognise your name from the TMF, you're shouting into an empty canyon...

I can't tell you how many times I've gotten messages on MySpace starting out with, "Hey, I saw you on the TMF...."

And you're right, my response is, "Oh great....". I usually brush it off to being a person that is only interested in my feet or someone who just wants to tickle me. And that is a huge (non-sexual) turn off.

There was one occasion, ONLY ONE! Where a guy from the forum messaged me on MySpace. He was actually quite humorous, interesting and entertaining. Here's why -- he wrote me a message that included more than two sentences, didn't include that he wanted to tickle me, cracked a few genuinely funny jokes and told me a little about himself. It consisted of proper spelling and punctuation and was a very well written paragraph or more. Upon viewing his page, I learned that he also had a life outside of tickling and feet. Now, don't get me wrong as I have some friends here who openly display feet and tickling images on their pages.

I am more accepting of anyone with any type of fetish as long as they try to be my friend first. Most find that after getting to know me, they can open up to me and tell me anything.

Anyways, I'm a little off topic, but like I've said a million times around here, it's all about the approach. Approach me or anyone as a person not a pair of feet or a fetish and you're already on the right track. I've come to realize that if you can find some common ground between you and another that doesn't include feet, tickling, etc. you will also have a better chance. Most people don't like to talk about feet every second of their life. Same goes for tickling, etc.. A lot of people do have other interests and other things going on in their lives. Find common ground somewhere else because you can only ask how ticklish their feet are so many times before you run out of things to say.

Also, keep in mind that cybering is not a type of conversation by any means.

 

[venray]

"BOOBS BOOBS BOOBS YEAHHHH BOOBS!!!"

 

[isabeau]

when i receive a pm from someone, asking for pictures of my feet, and i haven't a clue as to who the person is...i always say i never show my feet in a first pm...

tsk tsk Venray lol...

 

[GuldenVleugel]

As soon as you tell a girl that you've seen her post on the TMF,
you can almost hear the door slamming. "Oh no...A guy from the forum."

So true! Fetish forums tend to be full of losers who lack subtetly. Personally I don't feel too sorry for these virtual harrassers with sheer hopes. They deserve a lifetime of masturbation for having the guts to shamelesly show their state of frustration.

No, a fetish mostly is best lived when it's outside any community and when it's not called like that. It's best for people to meet each other spontanuously.
Why these idiots get excited once they get the idea someone of the other sex is into the same they are, is beyond me.
Go outside for Heaven's sake! It's full of different people with enough potential to spend great times with.

I just wonder, just to get a picture of it, how often the females in these forums get spammed by these pathetic losers? These same losers who make me partly share the opinion of those who judge this forum as a place full of sick minds.

They're actually right, just look at the tickle art: one week ago I nearly had to vomit for the almost mutophilic fantasy of one artist who drew a western slavegirl being locked up by what appear to be Ottomans with a goon, a monster, who was torturing her till true insanity. The one Ottoman explains the other one past slavegirl got her toes bunched up by the monster's skills resulting in her being unable to wear shoes during the rest of her life. The same victim went insane from it, like a person who gets traumatized, you know the image of one broken person trying to hide himself/herself in a tiny corner, shivering and lacking hygiene because of low self-esteem.

This is ONE EXAMPLE of the fantasies of ONE TYPICAL MALE of this forum! Allow me to be disgusted! Yuk yuk yuk!

 

[Knox The Hatter]

I'm in agreement with this above post, for the most part

I'm also with Azzie on this one. I guess sharing cyberspace with the mutants is a necessary evil.

 

[Soda83pop]

You know what I cant understand...why out of the all of the forums I am a member of or a mod of including everything from feet to bdsm to sports....this is the only forum I am a member of that goes out of its way to continuously segment and divide itself.

It is always something...f/m versus f/f, or m/f versus m/m. Does m/m enjoyment mean your gay?

Maybe its the fact that Im not into tickling like the majority of you. But I have just never been a member of any other group that on one hand is fearful of being shunned due to something they enjoy...to shunning others in the group or in the close proximity for the same reason.

The PM's not withstanding (because frankly, I think guys who continuously PM people for the same shit over and over are tools and should be ridiculed to highest degree just for the level annoyance they reach)...what difference does it make what a person enjoys about sharing this love you guys share as long as you share it?

As for why some people care about shoe size...besides the obvious fact that it indicates how big or small a person's feet are...its no different than then 200 threads I have seen on the most unusual ticklish spot. Truth be told, I enjoy those threads, but I can see where people who arent into tickling would view it the same as the shoe size questions.

 

[Azrael]

I posted this, specifically, out of total bewilderment over the very people you stated should be "ridiculed to the highest degree," actually. As I said I'm a foot man myself, though I don't think I've been turned off by any other body part in particular. I'll talk to anyone about tickling, in general, or specifics regarding their particular preferences.

I simply get turned off, thoroughly, by those who get so into it (openly) that one can't help but imagine their keyboards shorting out from the drooling as they read the word 'foot' on their screens. Nor do they appear to have been humbled or humiliated into silence, exactly. I picked 'feet' because it seems to be more prevalent with that.

Regarding f/f, m/m, f/m, or whatever... I haven't paid much attention to it, so I can't honestly speak for myself regarding any polarization. I haven't noticed "conflict." I'll typically watch f/f or m/f, and participate in the latter, or in f/m on that rare occasion, but if there's a m/m thread out there... I really couldn't mind it less. I just don't read it.

Regarding m/m making one a homosexual... Well, this is a sexually oriented site, focusing on those who find tickling to be sexually arousing. If tickling is purely sexual for you, and you're a guy into m/m, I'd say that makes you at least bi. Does it really matter? And, I realize it isn't "like that" for everyone, but I can't speak for everyone in that regard; I just know what tickling means to me, and what the TMF was established, primarily, to cater to.

 

[crydun]

I can't tell you how many times I've gotten messages on MySpace starting out with, "Hey, I saw you on the TMF...."

And you're right, my response is, "Oh great....". I usually brush it off to being a person that is only interested in my feet or someone who just wants to tickle me. And that is a huge (non-sexual) turn off.

There was one occasion, ONLY ONE! Where a guy from the forum messaged me on MySpace. He was actually quite humorous, interesting and entertaining. Here's why -- he wrote me a message that included more than two sentences, didn't include that he wanted to tickle me, cracked a few genuinely funny jokes and told me a little about himself. It consisted of proper spelling and punctuation and was a very well written paragraph or more. Upon viewing his page, I learned that he also had a life outside of tickling and feet. Now, don't get me wrong as I have some friends here who openly display feet and tickling images on their pages.

I am more accepting of anyone with any type of fetish as long as they try to be my friend first. Most find that after getting to know me, they can open up to me and tell me anything.

Anyways, I'm a little off topic, but like I've said a million times around here, it's all about the approach. Approach me or anyone as a person not a pair of feet or a fetish and you're already on the right track. I've come to realize that if you can find some common ground between you and another that doesn't include feet, tickling, etc. you will also have a better chance. Most people don't like to talk about feet every second of their life. Same goes for tickling, etc.. A lot of people do have other interests and other things going on in their lives. Find common ground somewhere else because you can only ask how ticklish their feet are so many times before you run out of things to say.

Also, keep in mind that cybering is not a type of conversation by any means.

I couldn't agree more with what you said, Girl! While I like to ler on-line, I also don't mind getting to know the person first. I wouldn't run up to a stranger on the street and just start tickling them without talking to them first and feeling them out. Same should apply on here.

 

[Headsnap]

What I don't get is what goes through the minds of these people as they're harrassing the female members. Are they hoping for some sort of result? "LOL I BET NOBODY'S EVER ASKED HER ABOUT HER FEET BEFORE, I BET I'LL BE THE FIRST AND SHE'LL LOVE ME AND WE'LL HAVE BEAUTIFUL KIDS AND I'LL TICKLE HER LOLOLOL". Grow a brain.

I don't really expend much effort trying to get to know people from the TMF or any online communications hub, but it's kind of sad to know that if I were inclined to reach out and touch someone the very fact that I'm a male TMF member would count against me because of the harrassment squad. That said, knowing what the people around here are like and putting your MySpace address in your sig is sort of inviting spammy messages and friend requests, no?

 

[Soda83pop]

My apologies Az...maybe the thread should be titled 'people who PM about feet'...and I am in a 100% agreement with you on the whole harassment thing. The other things I mentioned were just little mini debates I see in here all the time...nothing specific. Im a live and let live kind of guy when it comes to what gets people's rocks off as long as kids arent involved and no ones raped.

 

[slap'n'ticklee]

Hmm another thread about feet, a good one to boot when I wear my size 5s hahaha (ok joking aside), great thread Az and about time someone addressed the issue with the foot guys 🙂

I got a lot of PMs when I first joined this forum and yeah you can guess right that mostly were from foot guys, just asking me if my feet were ticklish, like the rest of me doesn't exist. Now I've been here just over a year I still get the odd PM with guys asking me if my feet are ticklish... sheesh there's more to me than just feet, and this coming from a lass that loves having her feet played with etc. I shall say one more time...

MY FEET ARE TICKLISH and I have a personality to go with that, thank you very much (Ok not all foot guys are a bit in your face but a few here are).

 

[Ace Riley]

What's funny to me, is that every girl I know that has ticklish feet tends to be way more ticklish everywhere else.

Especially underarms. >)

I don't have any particular focus on any specific part. I have a fetish with tickling, and laughter is a neccesary ingredient.

Though I have to admit, this forum has broadened my sense of awareness for feet. Many men tend to ignore a woman's foot, and some I've seen in other forums even consider them unattractive.

I don't have a foot fetish, but on other sites I've been too, foot fetish folk get attacked pretty bad on their fetish sometimes. Harrassed even, called it a 'silly' fetish or even to go as far as to say it's 'gross'.

I tend to defend them there, even though here they seem in abundance, let's not forget the TMF is a sanctuary for us all. It's not easy for some of these people to travel the net. Worse yet when even they segment themselves further. Even if they find a foot fetish site, if they bring tickling into the mix they open themselves to pain.

Here they are a bit... well, free to express themselves more openly. Isn't that why we all came here?

Anyways, because of the TMF I notice the small things that women go out of their way for that most men ignore. Feet jewlery, or fancy shoes, ankle bracelets at the beach or exotic colors painted on a woman's toes. I don't think women go out of their way doing these things to have them ignored. Thanks to the TMF, I can appreciate this subtle flirtatious gesture to the world. One doesn't have to have a foot fetish to enjoy feet. So at least there are perks to being a part of the Foot clan. ^.~

 

[Musicroxmysox]

As everyone has agreed nothing is more annoying then getting a pm or an im, where the first thing they say is "So where are you ticklish?" Jeez how about Hi first, when you talk like that all you sound like is an obsessed on track, loser of a person.

Plus I agree, there is a whole body to explore above one's feet. And yes mine are nice and any foot person would like them I'm sure, but still, feet only comprise a small amount of me. There is another 5 feet of space above my feet.

 

[Cave In]

What's funny to me, is that every girl I know that has ticklish feet tends to be way more ticklish everywhere else.

Its a similar story for me.

I do cringe when all the foot folk gather round the new female members especially if they post pics and reveal themselves to be young and beautiful a recent one being the member "emogirl" who i suspect was a guy taking pics from someones myspace, but anyway. Person posted pics and some of the posts were pretty cringeworthy... Maybe its cause some of these people have never touched/tickled a female foot before i dunno.

Me personally I like tickling and I like female feet extending to tickling/massaging. But. I dont go out of my way to do these things. I dont harass female members on the forum asking "HI WOT SIZE R UR FEEET CAN ID LIKE TO TIKLE THEM LOL" because its just not cool. and some women come on here to discuss there fetish not be harassed by guys typing in one hand and jerking off in the other.

I tend to be reluctant to discuss things like feet etc because I dont want to be labelled a "foot guy" and fall into the same category as some of the oddballs on this forum.
I have a life and it doesnt revolve around tickling. Sadly for some it does though and its those i feel sorry for.

 

[Stugots]

What the fuck is it with men blaming their problems with women on other men?

It's so irrelevant to mention how a woman won't indulge your foot fetish quirks because of other men. You'll get further ahead in the game if you stop blaming other men for your failure with women and start figuring out why you're failing to have your foot fetish quirks met!

Get real! Quit being a coward and using other men's failures as an excuse for why your foot fetish can't succeed.

 

[AffectionateDan]

Here I am, a healthy, hyperticklish gal, and out of a total of 6' (most of it ticklish), a lot of people only want to know (or care) about the 2" or so below my ankles. So, the other 5'10" is just uninteresting? Does it even exist? Sometimes, based on some of the questions and responses I get, I feel like I could saw the damned things off and just send them UPS, and that would make them happy.
I've met all kinds of specialists on this forum; and while I have my own preferences (tummy and navel, especially), that doesn't rule out tickling anywhere else...including the feet....there are so many places to have fun, you know? And some other "specialists" do only want to talk about their favorite areas...it just seems some of the foot people are a little more determined than others.....

Don't despair, though... there are those of us out here who treasure every ticklish inch. We're just a little more subtle... okay, okay, a TON more subtle. But there's nothing like exploring all those ticklish inches, ladies. Find yourselves someone to savor and appreciate all of them. We're not all that hard to find.

MY FEET ARE TICKLISH and I have a personality to go with that, thank you very much (Ok not all foot guys are a bit in your face but a few here are).

As you've so aptly pointed out here, and as others have mentioned also, this is part of the criminal neglect we're all talking about in this thread. I've been to Gatherings where the foot-obsessed would be going to town on a restrained Lee's feet, but not even interacting with the lady who's done them the courtesy of ALLOWING them to touch and tickle her feet. It was bad enough on more than one occasion that I've banned watching tickling videos at Gatherings I host due to their insensitive watching of the videos WHILE TICKLING the gal who's playing, as if she's just some inanimate toy. How rude.

I'm sure a lot of it stems from their desparation, so they coccoon themselves in the safety and anonymity of the internet and behave poorly. That's not to say that ALL foot-fetishists are slobbering, one-track-minded skeeves. But as with every other kink that's under the sun, there are definitely those who give the rest a bad rep.

 

[crydun]

What's funny to me, is that every girl I know that has ticklish feet tends to be way more ticklish everywhere else.

Especially underarms. >)

I don't have any particular focus on any specific part. I have a fetish with tickling, and laughter is a neccesary ingredient.

Though I have to admit, this forum has broadened my sense of awareness for feet. Many men tend to ignore a woman's foot, and some I've seen in other forums even consider them unattractive.

I don't have a foot fetish, but on other sites I've been too, foot fetish folk get attacked pretty bad on their fetish sometimes. Harrassed even, called it a 'silly' fetish or even to go as far as to say it's 'gross'.

I tend to defend them there, even though here they seem in abundance, let's not forget the TMF is a sanctuary for us all. It's not easy for some of these people to travel the net. Worse yet when even they segment themselves further. Even if they find a foot fetish site, if they bring tickling into the mix they open themselves to pain.

Here they are a bit... well, free to express themselves more openly. Isn't that why we all came here?

Anyways, because of the TMF I notice the small things that women go out of their way for that most men ignore. Feet jewlery, or fancy shoes, ankle bracelets at the beach or exotic colors painted on a woman's toes. I don't think women go out of their way doing these things to have them ignored. Thanks to the TMF, I can appreciate this subtle flirtatious gesture to the world. One doesn't have to have a foot fetish to enjoy feet. So at least there are perks to being a part of the Foot clan. ^.~

ahhhh, we don't have to discuss armpits right now....

I used to be ashamed of my feet until I came here. Now, I realize that there are people(especially guys) that enjoy women's feet, even big feet. I now wear toe polish and take better care of my feet because of that. It's a good thing...

 

[Soda Bobinski]

Here's a question : since when was it that being a 'foot-guy' started being viewed as a bad thing? 😕