I have found fet life to be a pretty good place. Just started to use it though. Seems like most females are already spoken for so I find it a bit tough to find someone to play with that is female, single and just looking to "play". But definitely a broader degree of topics on Fet Life. I have been a member here since 2005 but just started to take part in chat room and have met some pretty cool people. Many of them seem to already know one another. But had some good chats with people here.
I'm in the same city and finally closed my account. If you're a male who wants to give or receive spankings FL is the place to be. Beyond that, Houston seems to be more lively for the tickling.