Finally having a session

[luchomartiniano]

Hi to all the TMF. I dón´t usually post much here but this time I have big news: My gf finally agreed to be tied up and be tickled merciless.
It will be the first time we do this, and I´d appreciate some advice about what to do and what don´t.
Places to tickle and tickle tactics will also be welcome.
Thanks!

 

[Marquis De Sade]

Be safe for starters. Don't make her uncomfortable or cut off her circulation when tying her up. Look up some how-to videos depending on what you're using for restraint (like if it's rope you're using - also, be careful of rope burn). Establishing a safeword might a good idea. Discuss anything she might be nervous about beforehand and don't go there. Listen, pay attention to her body and react accordingly during - as in, make sure you don't get too carried away. Have fun, make sure she's having fun and don't break her trust in you. 🙂

 

[stockytickler]

CONGRATULATIONS!! That's awesome, and best of luck to you both.

Well, you've almost certainly got some ideas of what you'd like to try. You've been fantasizing about it, surely. Gauge her responses to your tickles. It's your first time so have a safeword and RESPECT IT. It might get annoying if she seems to overuse it but you don't know what her physiological responses are and what's registering as overwhelming, and she'll trust you so much more if she knows you're considering her safety and comfort in this enterprise.

Also, see this as the first step in a journey you're taking together. There's no need to run through the entire Tickle Sutra in your first session. And if you do it right, you'll have opportunities to arrange more and more complicated scenarios as your relationship progresses.

P.S. -- there's a way to do rope cuffs that are super comfortable and won't leave rope burns. Most basic is to bind the rope in such a way as it forms a cylinder around her wrists, probably 10-12 times around .. pull the loose end between the third and fourth wrap, run the long end through the third of fourth wrap from the other end and tie the loose end to the long rope to secure it. The cuff should be comfortable and secure, and then you can tie the long end to the bedpost. My thanks to Kazuki Wolf for sharing his expertise on this. He's at http://kazukiwolf.tumblr.com/.

 

[-Hari-]

ease her into it dude, take it slow and gentle, and maybe even keep it that way for a first session, if you go all out and drive her crazy then she may not want to do it again.

Your priority on a first session if you want to have more after is to ensure the lee enjoys it 🙂

 

[robmic]

First, make sure she is comfortable in her bondage. If the binds are hurting her, she's not going to feel the ticklishness as much and will want to end things sooner than if she were comfortable. Second, like mentioned above, use a safeword. Third, PAY ATTENTION TO HER REACTIONS, not just on her ticklishness, but to make sure she isn't under duress from the tickling. (Breathing, cramps, etc.)Remember, if she has a bad experience from your session, don't expect her to be too eager to repeat it anytime soon, if ever. Then, last but not least, if you're at that point in your relationship, make sure she has a happy ending. 😉

 

[FLBowler]

Definitely have a safe word and even if she doesn't say it, give her short breaks

 

[3xPIN]

I will keep this short: As for what to do, Keep it slow and simple and communicate before you begin. As for what not to do, don't make it all about you.

 

[rhiannon]

Cut back on the merciless if it's her first time. Give her a safeword and respect it! If she gives you the safeword, stop immediately.

 

[MrTicklefeet]

One thing I'm surprised that no body has mentioned, for safety, is to keep a pair of scissors within reach in case of emergencies, so she can be cut out quickly. Like earthquakes, fires, or the unexpected visit from the crazy ex stalker.

 

[Marquis De Sade]

One thing I'm surprised that no body has mentioned, for safety, is to keep a pair of scissors within reach in case of emergencies, so she can be cut out quickly. Like earthquakes, fires, or the unexpected visit from the crazy ex stalker.

I KNEW I forgot something!!! *facepalm*

 

[luchomartiniano]

=)

Thank you all! I will put into practice all of your advices.
And I already have my electric toothbrush and the baby lotion.
I will post the results of the session when it´s over.