Finally tied and tickled my girlfriend!!! somewhat graphic

[Private Tickle]

Ok so first off let me start by explaining, my girlfriend and I had done the whole tying each other up thing before. So it is not uncommon for us to just break out the ropes for fun. ANYWAY!!! the other evening I tied her face down to the bed, completely naked. I covered her eyes and began to rub and ice cube up and down her body. I also ran it over the soles of her feet, which made her toes curl and made her squeal. Shortly after that, I started rubbing her with my hands and without trying I hit a spot that made her laugh. She responded "OMG that tickles so bad!!" So I said well "what about your favorite spot" which is her most ticklish spot right where her groin meets her leg. I reached under and began to tickle. she went crazy!! I ran my fingers up her sides and under into her armpits, she squirmed and laughed but never said stop. A little while after that I had her flip over and tied her spread eagle face up and used a vibrator briefly whch I had done in the past with her and she loves it. especially tied up. while doing that I began running my fingers around her nipples to her armpits and over her stomach. She began giggling and her nipples instantly became hard and still never told me to stop. I also noticed before using the vibrator she was extremely wet! after all that we had sex, I was so turned on it was amazing. I still have not come out to her about my fetish, all of this merely happened in a playful foreplay manor but I am sure she could tell I enjoyed it and it seems she does as well. I just need to sit down and tell her about my tickling and foot fetish. I feel a lot better about it happening soon.

questions or comments welcome!!!!!!

ps sorry for the sexual details I just couldn't wait to share my story with this community!!

 

[The_Kev]

Holy cow! Congrats on you guys discovery!

I love hearing about a fantasy come true and people discovering that they enjoy something they may never have tried!

I can't tell you how many times my significant others have discovered that they were lee's let's dom's and sub's just by little introductions like this. That is so great, I am so happy for you.

You have a GREAT technique btw, mixing sensations of vibrator + nipples and armpits is just evil! ( in a good way 😉)

Awesome! 😊

 

[Private Tickle]

Holy cow! Congrats on you guys discovery!

I love hearing about a fantasy come true and people discovering that they enjoy something they may never have tried!

I can't tell you how many times my significant others have discovered that they were lee's let's dom's and sub's just by little introductions like this. That is so great, I am so happy for you.

You have a GREAT technique btw, mixing sensations of vibrator + nipples and armpits is just evil! ( in a good way �&#56841😉

Awesome! ��

Thank you very much! I have had a lot of time to view what techniques work best.

 

[milagros317]

It is great that she enjoyed it so much.
Do tell her about your erotic interests. I would advise you not to use the word "fetish" and not to make a big deal out of it. Just tell her that tickling her really turns you on and so does playing with her feet.

 

[OmahaTickler]

You may not have to tell her you have the fetish outright. Actions speak louder than words. Look, you tickled her how you wanted to tickle her to turn YOU on, and at the same time, it turned HER on. So if it ain't broke, don't fix it. Women generally cling to the notion that their partner should be, ahem, in touch with her "needs," a big one of which is that "he know how I like to be touched," and frankly, any way to touch/tickle her that gets her hot/wet/horny/orgasmic is fulfilling those needs and thus needs no fetish explanation.

 

[cryptohero]

You may not have to tell her you have the fetish outright. Actions speak louder than words. Look, you tickled her how you wanted to tickle her to turn YOU on, and at the same time, it turned HER on. So if it ain't broke, don't fix it. Women generally cling to the notion that their partner should be, ahem, in touch with her "needs," a big one of which is that "he know how I like to be touched," and frankly, any way to touch/tickle her that gets her hot/wet/horny/orgasmic is fulfilling those needs and thus needs no fetish explanation.

THIS! X Infinity + 1,000,000

Best post. OmahaTickler wins the internets. End of thread.

- Crypto

 

[Torturer]

Now you can enjoy your tickling and foot fetishes with your gf... lucky guy! have many nice times!

 

[helplessandhappy]

I really think you should just tell her. Being 100 percent honest will make it easier to take your play to whatever level you truly want. If she's open to allowing what's happened so far, she will be open to hearing about your fetishes. Congrats and good luck! 🙂 Having someone you can share your sexuality with is an amazing gift.

 

[OmahaTickler]

How are his actions not honest already? Lust and love and attraction aren't always conducive to verbal explanation. If both are happy, consulting adults, mutually turned on by their actions, what does he really need to reveal?

 

[bassman34472]

Since you mentioned the vibrator, I would suggest next time to curl her toes around the vibrating ball and hold them there with your hand. This technique will drive her insane!!

 

[helplessandhappy]

How are his actions not honest already? Lust and love and attraction aren't always conducive to verbal explanation. If both are happy, consulting adults, mutually turned on by their actions, what does he really need to reveal?

It's not that he's being dishonest, but he is holding back. I would want a partner I could talk to fully about my fetish, which includes my past experiences/shame about it, how far I've come with it, my hopes and fantasies involving it, and a wide variety of other aspects. I personally would have a difficult time talking about that stuff if I was beating around the bush. Plus if he ever wants to take it to an extreme level (say a prolonged session of hardcore torturous tickling), it will be a LOT easier to bring up if he has been open about the fetish already. Everyone's relationship is different, but considering he said:

I just need to sit down and tell her about my tickling and foot fetish. I feel a lot better about it happening soon.

...I'd say he feels the need to talk about it.