Was talking to a fellow colleague today and somehow kinks/fetish got brought up , I tried my best to get out of the convo because I knew she would eventually ask me , my heart was pounding at the start of the conversation she asked the question that I dreaded my entire life and I said feck it this is the day and told her I had the fetish and...she just accepted it no weird looks no judgement, I Couldn’t believe it after hiding it my entire life from friends and family being ashamed and scared of what people will think of me it was just a normal thing to her. She joked and tickled my sides for a second and we went on with work , I feel such a heavy burden lifted off my chest and realised this burden I hid all my life really wasn't that big of a deal and shouldnt have been ashamed all these year's, i dont know about you guys but my confidence has skyrocket , just wanted to share it with someone