Finding out a girl is not ticklish.

[LoveSoles81]

How many of you get to tickle a women, and you find out she isn't ticklish? Doesn't make you mad?

 

[featherfingers]

Mad? No way, Jose! I've found that most of the ladies I tickle are so relaxed and enjoy the feel of my fingers caressing their soles that the fact that they're not thrashing around and laughing their butts off is a plus...I can tickle them for hours with a gentle relaxing touch. If they were too ticklish they might not last ten minutes.

 

[LoveSoles81]

I guess I never looked at it that way. Good Point

 

[TickledToDeath]

Disappointed yes. Mad? No.
Frustrated if she tickles the hell out of me and I cannot ever get her back? A bit.
Not fair. 🙁

TTD

 

[unclebill]

Sometimes when I find a woman who is not ticklish I will have her lay on her front and give her a massage. As I work my way down to her feet instead of rubbing them, I will run my tounge up and down her soles or nibble on her toes. Let me tell you mister I have made many women giggle and scream like little schoolgirls.

 

[vegasfootboy]

lying about it,,,

what i hate most is when a girl lies about being ticklish,, its happened a few times and it tottaly sucks! she says she is extremely ticklish then you meet and she isnt ticklish not one bit!,, why do people lie about being ticklish?? any ideas?

 

[Armpit_licker]

I have tickled about 100 girls and never, EVER met a girl who was not ticklish at least in some spot. I have had more then my fair share tell me they are not that ticklish or not ticklish at all but I always find a spot or two that makes them go nuts.. Just happend to me tonight.

 

[Knox The Hatter]

My last gf, the one before I met the mizzus, was ticklish in her groin area, on either side of the lips, and nowhere else. Let's just say that while other people are around, that area's inappropriate as well as inaccessable. I have to say, if she was ticklish in all the places that I LIKE, we'd still be together, I'd have gone out of my way to keep that woman. But then, I would never question the ways of God.

Ah, finding out that a very sexy gal's not ticklish...disappointing, indeed. A very deflating feeling. However, on the plus side, there were times when I felt very relieved, because it immediately lanced all the sexual tension with the girl, and I would look at her in a different way. One time, I actually told this woman I had a great desire for, "that's a crime, with laughter like yours." She then told me that it wasn't the first time someone offered that opinion...
There are a lot more of us out there than are on this board, gang.

 

[Luv2Tickle69]

How many of you get to tickle a women, and you find out she isn't ticklish? Doesn't make you mad?

Oh no!! Not at all!! I think I'd made an allusion to this end already, but some years ago, a girl that hung out with the group I hung out with was one of those girls who no matter how you'd try, you just COULDN'T get her to even hitch her breath or giggle whenever you'd tickle her feet. She had RE-EE-EEALY cute feet too!!! Whenever we hung out together (her and I), she'd always be barefoot...the first time I tickled them was when she stretched her feet out onto my lap. Much to my surprise, my tickling didn't get anything more than her to say, "Ohh....mmmm.....that feels so nice!!" For her, having her feet tickled was really nothing more than an enhanced massage! But she loved how it felt, and would just make little contented noises and sounds as I did it. To be perfectly honest, I wished she was a little ticklish, but in the same breath, it excited me much the same way to tickle her feet even with knowing she WASN'T...touching her feet was quite heavenly!!!

...and believe you me....she LOVED knowing my feet were as ticklish as they are, and made no mistake about wanting to do that!!! 😀

 

[magic fingers]

Similar to luv2tickle69, one of the best relationships I ever had was w/a girl who was sweet and beautiful, but was not ticklish anywhere. No matter where I tried - feet, armpits, stomach, ribs, knees, legs - no response at all. But she loved the fact that I was extremely ticklish, and she tickled me all the time, knowing I couldn't get her back. Since I've always been a 'lee, and it was always tough getting a girl to tickle me, it was actually kind of fun always being on the receiving end.

 

[Neutron]

If It Makes You Mad..

You have serious issues.

Also the correct word is angry, not mad.

Tron

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

I dont get mad at all There is a girl Julie that I care for very much her feet are not ticklish at all but she does let me massage her feet occasionally and one time I wanted to tickle test her and after i tried for about 10 seconds she had said sorry my feet are not ticklish 🙁 but i like the way your fingers go up and down. So either way I was a happy camper and her feet felt better afterwards, so there is a downside and upside

Steve

 

[maniactickler]

I never get upset. i just lose interest in her and move on.

 

[chode]

I have had girls say they arent ticklish at all. I have to say that it is all a bunch of crap, there is always something you can do or a certain way to go about tickling any girl. You just have to be willing to try different things. I dated a gall that said her feet werent ticklish at all. So i nebbled em, she laughed her ass off. Just have to try stuff out.

 

[KoocheeKoo]

I've only found one female in my life who wasn't ticklish (a neighbor girl when I was 12-13 yrs old)...but if a girl or woman isn't ticklish, it's not her fault...and it would never make me angry. That would be as wrong as a woman being angry with me because I'm short...something I had no control over.

My girlfriend is a very ticklish woman....but I'd love her just as much if she weren't ticklish at all. I've never asked a girl if she was ticklish or not when asking her out. After we'd dated a time or two, I'd usually give her a playful test tickle under her arms; or give her a foot massage turned tickling (usually followed by a squeal and giggling), but if she didn't react, I wouldn't say "oh hell...you aren't ticklish....we can't date anymore" 😀

Look at it this way: what if you were dating or married to a very ticklish girl on her feet and legs, and she was tragically paralyzed from the waist down in an accident? Would you no longer love your wife because she was no longer ticklish? I love to tickle Traci...but my love for her goes FAR beyond tickling; she's my soulmate. If I learned in the morning that all her ticklishness was suddenly gone forever, I'd still love her just as much as I do tonight.

Also, why do women lie about being ticklish? The only women I know who ever lie....do so because they are extremely ticklish, and don't want to be tickled. I've never run across a lady yet who said she was ticklish but wasn't.

 

[Mitchell]

Having had my main ex gf, Jenny, not be ticklish, I have some experience with this issue. I remember feeling frustrated while watching the other guys hold down their girlfriends in college and tickle them, while causing hysterical laughter, and I couldnt do that with Jenny. Nonetheless, she was a good girlfriend for the time I knew her, and she had other qualities. (Her lack of ticklishness is not the reason we broke up, as at that time I was into feet and not tickle really) I would have married her, ticklish or not, had things worked out. I only recall two times in all my time with her when I saw her elicit some kind of reaction to tickling. One time she was in the pool, and a cousin got her in the ribs while backed up against the pool wall. She did laugh a little and grab her ribs, but when I tried it again, nothing. There was another time where she had her feet behind her while lying down, and her brother ran his finger down the sole of her foot. She kind of giggled a little and moved her foot away, but again, after that whether I surprised her or not, no tickling reaction.
I would love to find a very ticklish girl who enjoys being tickled, or is at least tolerant of it, but, if shes not ticklish or hates to be tickled, I'll deal with it if she has all the other qualities i'm looking for. I like tickling, but I'll say the same thing people say about sex, if she doesnt have the other qualities, who cares how ticklish she is, because what does one do the other 23 hrs and 45 mins of the day?

Mitch

 

[maniactickler]

maybe im in the minority, but if a woman is not extremely ticklish and doesnt enjoy tickling, then theres absolutely no way id be interested in her in any way, shape or form. regardless of how gorgeous or how incredible of a person she may be. i have a zero tolerence policy for non ticklish women.

 

[Ace Riley]

...oO

How completely sad, honestly. I feel bad. Women are beautiful beings. They are what make this world go round for me. I love tickling, I love ticklish girls even more...but the qualities that make a woman amazing aren't limited simply to her ticklishness...

...there are others things I can do to a girl other than tickling that can drive her up the wall. lol A bonus. ^^;;;

...I'm not trying to tell you what to think, I just find it sad you're missing out...lol.

---Ace

 

[natural tickler]

Disappointed? Maybe. Mad? Heck no. Whenever I find out someone is not ticklish, it becomes a challenge for me to make them ticklish all over again. I have a secret to return them to their tcklish ways😛

 

[Ace Riley]

...

....grrr, curse you and your secr3ts! >< LoL ^^;;

--Ace

 

[natural tickler]

Now see Ace, I was gonna tell ya. Oh well, such is life😛

 

[Ace Riley]

X-@

*dies* ...gah, I have been dealt a mortal blow! lol ^.^

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My Wife is ticklish when she's in the right mood. ^^ I hear these stories about how alot of girls are 'broken' due to simple tickling skill, or lack of fortitude. I mean, there are people out there that can claim they ain't ticklish, and in fact not be ticklish at all, but get them by surprise, before the "iron curtain' pops up...and suddenly...*poot*, they're ticklish...and kicking you where no man should be kicked ><. :3

But try to tickle them when they don't want to, or are simply scared, or nervous about the situation, and you won't get a giggle. Hrm, the obvious solution to this is to not be a prick and make sure the enviroment is comfortable for the 'lee. I think the 'breaking' of a persons ticklish firewall, is something best left for fantasy...unless of course, that 'lee is willing to see just how far she/he can go. Maybe the term 'free'ing...would apply better in this scenario...^^

---Ace

 

[natural tickler]

Well, sometimes people can turn it off when certain people tries to tickle them. My sister does that good. When someone outside of family/friends tickles her, she shuts off completely, but when we tickle her, the floodgates opens. Some folks are baffled at that. But to me its a mind thing, sometimes😀

 

[Ace Riley]

^^

Well hate to keep back and forthing like this, this ain't a chatline. ^^ So one last thought lol.

I think that's so true. It's too bad there's a ridicolously low amount of research on tickling itself. As I find it amazing to see how different people react physically to different things despite body types...^^

I'm lucky enough to have a wife that as time goes by is growing fonder of the idea of tickling in life. Very lucky indeed, but tickling wasn't always a comfortable subject. Blame it on two really mean brothers, who have since redeemed themselves, but the damage was done. -.- It's taken a lot of time, when I first met her...she was like a wildcat when I tried tickling her... I thought I was going to lose a limb each time I tried! o-o lol...not because she was ticklish...honestly, it wasn;t...>< She just simply didn't like the idea. It was an attempt to hurt her, make her vulnerable. It made me an enemy. And that's not the goal of any tickler. Not any true one imo.

But as time has gone on, and her knowledge on how I enjoy tickling not as an act of hostilty, like young boys tend to do...but of love, maybe even passion...like all of us, perhaps started to look inside at the dark little vestiges that make us find pleasure in this world of ours. The fact we can all let go, and somehow still feel safe, while at the same time unpredictably out of control...is something that has actually made her reactions alot more noticible when I tickle her...it is in the mind, but also in the heart. Some people just aren't ticklish at all ever, but to these people who lock it out, it's all about where, and with who...and of course, how skillful the tickler. ^^

I'm a lucky guy. ^^ But to those that I've read up here that are worried about their girls not being ticklish in their relationships, maybe looking at yourself and what you really want, and learning more about the 98% other things about your significant other, and what she really wants, may not only make you a better lover...or even tickler. It just might make you a better person. :3 There may be stuff ya just don't know. Enjoy all of it. It's a beautiful thing.

---Ace

 

[stampstock]

I know the disappointment of which you(se) speak

When you have this great opportunity, like pouncing on her from the top of her cubicle when no one's looking, then scrambling away like Golum, (ahem, uh, sorry, just a flashback). Anyway, tweaking her sides or tickling her foot, and NOTHING. Like tickling a piece of wood. Sucks that anticipation right out of you. But, not everyone is 100% touch-me-and-make-me-laugh ticklish. Some may need exploration, and may not be willing to lend themselves to your experiments. Or mine. But others might be persuaded, and that's where your charm comes into play. But yeah, those great tickle opportunities where the unsuspecting 'lee laughs her head off, well--- thess are what makes those so special.