First NEST Experience — Finally! 🎉

[Anthdawg90]

After being part of the community and living in the area (NY/NJ) for years, I’m finally going to NEST for the first time and I’m honestly so hyped. I’ve heard so many great things about it from people over the years, so I’m really excited to see what it’s like in person.

Most of my experiences have been one-on-one, so getting to experience this in a group setting with others in the community is something I’ve been wanting to try for a long time. Looking forward to meeting folks, sharing laughs, and seeing what it’s all about! 🤘

 

[Sadisticler]

I’m attending as well. I’m looking forward to it I hope you have fun.

 

[Im_a_dragon]

I will never go to NEST. Ew.

From what I’ve gathered over years of research, this event is super clique-y. Better to start at a smaller event unless you 1) already know people, 2) are a female lee, or 3) are REALLY willing to put yourself out there, and you’re socially capable of doing so. Otherwise it’s most likely going to be a disappointing/miserable experience.

 

[Sadisticler]

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I will never go to NEST. Ew.

From what I’ve gathered over years of research, this event is super clique-y. Better to start at a smaller event unless you 1) already know people, 2) are a female lee, or 3) are REALLY willing to put yourself out there, and you’re socially capable of doing so. Otherwise it’s most likely going to be a disappointing/miserable experience.

I have a couple friends going so I’m hoping to have fun. Unless I’ve experienced it for myself I’m not gonna judge.

 

[Im_a_dragon]

I have

I have a couple friends going so I’m hoping to have fun. Unless I’ve experienced it for myself I’m not gonna judge.

If you’re going with friends, that’s great. Enjoy

 

[Anthdawg90]

I will never go to NEST. Ew.

From what I’ve gathered over years of research, this event is super clique-y. Better to start at a smaller event unless you 1) already know people, 2) are a female lee, or 3) are REALLY willing to put yourself out there, and you’re socially capable of doing so. Otherwise it’s most likely going to be a disappointing/miserable experience.

Not gonna lie, this was a concern of mine too and honestly one of the main reasons I held off on going for so long. I’d already met enough local people to satisfy what I was looking for, so I never really felt the push. But now I know a few folks who attend now, and it also feels like a great opportunity to possibly session with people I’ve interacted and wanted to meet with over the 10+ years I’ve been part of this community.

That said, I do think if you’re brand new to the fetish and don’t know anyone at all, there’s a chance it could feel overwhelming or not as fun, even with the best newbie-friendly efforts NEST might offer. I’ll definitely report back with how it goes, though!