First Tickling "Session": What went well / What didn't go well

[Nextrend2011]

As a tickling fanatic, I've always been interested in having a legitimate "session" tying up a girl who trusts me and engaging in some tickle play, but always wondered whether I'd be good at it, whether she'd enjoy it, what techniques to use, etc....which led me to the curiosity:

For those of you who've experienced a "first time session," whether it be with a rack, tied up, cuffed, etc, etc.....how was it for you as the ler / lee? I have a really close girl-friend of mine of which I'm dating that is interested in slowly learning about this fetish of mine and wondered what everyone else's first time experiences were like 🙂

 

[ticklemepls]

my legit first time actually acting out this whole fetish and it not being 1/2 assed?? a few years ago when I flew to Dallas for the first time to meet femfttickler21.... our situation is slightly different than yours, since we're both from this site and so on and so forth... however, first is a first and let me tell you i was scare shitless 😛 i considered not getting on the plane, lol.. had nothing to do with adam, but everything to do with my nerves of what was going to happen.... in any case, it all worked in the end- we drove to his house and I ended up (within minutes of walking through the door) in a hog-tied position (if memory serves me correctly)... it was my real first taste with an actual ler, and I loved every second of it... it was the best (ok ONE of the best) weeks ever... and had (and still have) many more to come... course now we're dating and turn-about is fair play 😉 SO with that said:

first time actually as the ler with him? hmm we did it once while he was in TX, but I think my favorite was when I really got to go all out while he was in maine bringing up one of the dogs to me.... by then he really relaxed and we were able to do so much more... it was fantastic to have him tied and me to be able to tickle him as much as i wanted 🙂 needless to say, it was great to switch it up, now, I know im more 'lee, and he is more 'ler- but switching it up is indeed fun for us and we both enjoy it!

good luck with your girlfriend, hope all goes well! 😀

 

[Destrucity]

Last Summer I finally, fully, indulged my fetish and went to Passive Arts in Los Angeles. Paid for a session with two girls for a trio of double team tickles in the Elizabethan Room. Tied the first lady up to the throne, strapped the second down to the padded table and then they chained me to the rack to get their revenge. Was a great day...

 

[milagros317]

My first full-fledged session of tickling with bondage went very well indeed.

Of course, it was in 1999 with Mistress Zara, who is now retired as a Domme, so I can't say it is a current recommendation.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

My first session was very excellent. I was super nervous, so the bondage was very light - my wrists or ankles were tied together, but not tied TO anything. The ler was gentle, attentive and playful. It started off very mild and he slowly worked his way up in intensity, because neither of us were sure how I was going to feel about it - and I've had a tickling fetish forever! Take it easy and introduce her gently and your patience is likely to pay off. 🙂 Good luck!

 

[Em Es]

I had "two" first sessions

My first-ever bondage & tickling session was with a New York City dominatrix, a switch encounter that went great in part because she was a generous playmate with keen observation and communication skills. I only mention it because picking up on nonverbal communication is what matters as much as anything - in tickling situations and all other interactions.

Which leads to my first civilian bondage & tickling session, an m/f set-up with a woman I met through this great web site. I tickled her for something like three hours and from my point of view, it was a home run. But not as observant as my dominatrix friend, I did not pick up on my ticklee's unspoken displeasure about a couple of moves I made. She said nothing at the time - but later she e-mailed me to say she would not invite me back because of what I did.

Nextrend2011 , as you know the girl you mentioned, you are already on third base as far as reading one another goes. Assuming that understanding lends itself to the tickling session, the logistics of pullling it off will come to you. If you want practical advice on how to restrain one another, send me a private message.

 

[TropicThunder]

My first tickling session was amazing.

We spent a good amount of time play tickle-fighting beforehand. It was on a beach, at about 2am with a wedding party going on at the bar nearby. I only had my wrists tied to a tree but it was still effective enough. I remember it so well. We ended up switching, so I got my turn to ler too. And even after being introduced to the tickling community at gatherings and such, this guy is still the most ticklish guy I've ever met.

I really would't reccomend the beach scenario, but it was definitely fun to come in here and recall a special moment.

Good luck. Everyone's given good solid advice.

 

[porcelaindoll2]

My first session was last summer if I am remember correctly. One of the things that was great about it is I got to switch roles my very first session. I went first he went second. It was at my sister's house when my sister and bother in law were gone. I had the house to myself and I was cat sitting. I had started talking to a guy off of the forum and I invited him down. My sister had an awesome bed with a headboard that you could easily use to tie hands above the head. He had bought a pair of leather cuffs for the wrist and we used nylon rope for the ankles. The only thing that was bad is we were both new and didn't know about safe words. I was tickled for about two hours straight. I was getting faint and I remember asking in a pitiful sounded when he was going to stop? He said all I needed to have done was ask. Then we took a break and I got him back, but I didn't tickle him as long, which I guess in a way was a good thing.

 

[Vega199]

My first session went pretty well all things considered. She was the one that suggested it even though she HATED being tickled. She knew about my kink but wouldn't let me tickle her. She realized one day that she was being a bit unfair especially when I was treating her so well so she offered a session. It went great. I tickled her slowly at first as to not put her off and then eased my way into tickling her faster. She had fun but still hated being tickle. I worshiped her feet as well and she absolutely loved that.