first time tickled..

[ttx]

hello to everyone..
i'm a male,and i'm tickler..or,i was tickler untill today.the reason i had never been tickle tortured was that i didn't believe that i could stand it.suddenly it changed when 2 female friends of mine tied me up when i was sleeping and woke me up by tickling me softly..as you understand,when i woke up for good,the torture began.they tickled the fuck out of me,with their fingers,tongues,brushes,pens etc..i could never imagine my self begging like i did.i promised them anything to make the tickling to stop.they made me say things like ''i'm a pig'',''i'm laughing like a little girl'',''please humiliate me more''etc..things that i would never allow myself to say,but during the tickling,i couldn't control my mouth and i was saying anything they wanted.i've tickle tortured girls many times and every single time i made my ticklee saying things because i love feeling that i can make my victim promising anything to me.but for first time i tasted my own medicine and even if i felt turned on when it was over,i felt humiliated too.i'm too selfish to allow my self being at my tickler's mercy and when they stopped tickling me and i look at them,i was feeling a bit uncomfortably.
anyone feeling the same with me??

 

[Deleted member 66627]

No.

And, you might want to put some spaces between your sentence break and your new sentence. It's terribly hard to read.

P.S: What's up with your signature?? 😵

 

[ttx]

Yeah,you are right..sorry!
So,how does an usual ticklee feel while he/she is begging?For me,that's very humiliating,even if deeply in my heart i think i like it 🙂

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Yeah,you are right..sorry!
So,how does an usual ticklee feel while he/she is begging?

Like the ler is doing their job

 

[Excess]

lol Sucks to be you. I am a ler but I've no interest in humiliation or any of that so I guess I wouldn't know.

Btw your post made my eyes hurt. Do work on that won't you?

 

[feetandtickling]

Ha ha

No.

And, you might want to put some spaces between your sentence break and your new sentence. It's terribly hard to read.

P.S: What's up with your signature?? 😵

Jo you are too cute! (NO!)..... This made me laugh.

 

[lemoncake]

I'm kind of confused as to what the original question was.

 

[Master feathers]

no comment on everyone's messages ...if you have nothing good to say ,I was told ,don't say anything

 

[Adam]

The man is asking whether or not, as a tickler, you'd feel humiliated submitting to being a ticklee. That's how I read it, anyway. Me? I'm really not sure. I'm pretty sure I'd 'lee for the right person, but I haven't done so just yet. I don't know how I'd react, and that's really what's stopping me. If I were to react with shame or anger, that would ruin the whole experience. The thing about a lot of ticklers seems to be that we're control junkies. To give up control is the exact opposite of our personalities. But you know, if it's with someone you trust, I'm sure it can be a pleasurable experience if dominant types are introduced to the submissive side with kid gloves.

 

[milagros317]

There's nothing wrong at all with enjoying both roles, ler and lee. You have nothing to be ashamed of. Go ahead and have fun both ways. 😀

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

The thing about a lot of ticklers seems to be that we're control junkies. To give up control is the exact opposite of our personalities.

I suspect that this may be the case for many lees as well. I know it is for me. I'm a super control freak. Giving up that control (or having it taken from me as I prefer to be the case) is exhilarating.

 

[venray]

I have always been a switch,,,

I like the best of both worlds giving and receiving...

 

[Aimee]

I have always been a switch,,,

I like the best of both worlds giving and receiving...

Sounds naughty 😉

 

[venray]

Sounds naughty 😉

ROFLMAO!

That's what I LOVE about you!

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

And you being a switch is part of what we love about you! lol

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

Actually, I suppose I should respond to the OP.

There are times when I can get into the ler side. But, I'm primarily a lee...always have been. I'm not necessarily a masochist, however...though there are certain times when I can be in that kind of mood. Normally, I absolutely love being tickled. Still, if the ler is doing a good job, you can find me begging for it to stop. I generally find myself wishing they hadn't done so quite so soon if they actually do, though.

OK, so maybe I have more of the masochist in me than I like to admit. 😉

While I love the mind games that can go with tickle fun with my hubby or another trusted friend, I don't get into the humiliation side of things or creating genuine fear, etc. I'm more into the suspense and being kept on edge.

I think we each have our own very unique combinations of things that work for us. Anything more or less just doesn't feel quite right at times. It sounds as if this is one of those times for you. But, that's cool. Sometimes, one of the best ways to discover what we like is to find out what we don't like. It's all good because it's all a part of self-discovery.

 

[Adam]

I suspect that this may be the case for many lees as well. I know it is for me. I'm a super control freak. Giving up that control (or having it taken from me as I prefer to be the case) is exhilarating.

Never really thought about it that way, but you make an excellent point. I hope more folks share some thoughts in this thread. I'd be interested to read more points of view.