First-timer needing advice.

[CJD1]

Hey there. First of all I have to say that I am an extremely lucky man. I have an amazing fiance whom I will marry 12.30.06. We are saving ourselves for marriage but are very open to talk about sex and have a very good idea of each others turn-ons so she knows that I love her feet and really enjoy tickling her (shes very ticklish by the way). She even told me that she has always wanted to be tied up (how did I get so lucky??)

My question is, I have obviously never had a girl tied up before and need advice. I know the are several well-seasoned veterans of the tickle world and am basically asking for any tips, techniques and advice of what to do more importantly what NOT to do. Any help is greatly appreicated.

 

[Snail Shell]

Tips on tying her up:

Find something to tie her to that is sturdy and well-made (most beds I know). Metal handcuffs can damage the skin and leave marks. Most adult stores will have a good set of nylon/leather/neoprene restrains that work very well. Try them first, some people are allergic to neoprene.

Tips on tickling:

If she's never done it before, use a safeword. That way she's got a way out if she needs it. Implements of choice include but are not limited to toothbrush, hair brush, paintbrush, feather, electric toothbrush and fork. A silicone-based gel or lubricant will also toss her sensitivity through the roof.

Hope that helps.

Snail Shell

 

[CJD1]

Thanks snail. I plan on buying some quality restraints. The lubricant is a great idea to make her more ticklish. I know hairbrushes work wonderfully on her ticklish soles.

 

[gilmourwaters]

astroglide...the ultimate lubrication for tickling!