Foot Fetish: A pain in the ass?

[gonevart]

Has your foot fetish cause instances where you become embarassed?
Ex. No. 1: Where seeing feet causing you to get aroused in class when you were in school.
Ex. No. 2: Telling someone and they tell everyone. (Yes I screwed up.)
Ex. No. 3: Not seeing feet for a long time makes you a little desprate.

Share some stories of times similar to my disasters.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

Ex. No. 1: Where seeing feet causing you to get aroused in class when you were in school.

That happens to a lot of dudes at school, feet or not.

Ex. No. 2: Telling someone and they tell everyone. (Yes I screwed up.)

I told people, but I told them like a smartass, so they probably didn't take me too seriously anyway.

Ex. No. 3: Not seeing feet for a long time makes you a little desprate.

I'm more of an ass man myself... so I haven't gotten too desperate for feet.


:super_hap

 

[Relent<]

If you have an outlet (ex. gf, internet, etc.) its not so hard (I mean that in the least perverted sense)
Yes, Highschool was hell for two reasons in the summer: the faulty AC and the girls wearing flip flops to show of their pedicured and what-have-you. Good thing those were the days of baggy jeans, and it you could maneuver it down your leg, you were in the clear 😀

 

[GuldenVleugel]

I just say particular women have attractive feet, but I compliment them enough on other assets the fetish thing doesn't really shows. Also, people who say feet are ugly are weirdos in my eyes.

Nope, if you don't fixate on only feet mainstream people are more likely to accept you. I mean, breasts, hips, butts, bellies, etc.. still are VERY attractive in a lady.
Over here in Belgium they rarely frown upon me; my tastes are my own business. I have never freaked out a girlfriend with it neither.

Why the desperation? The nervosity? Or why the self-repression? Feet are attractive things to a woman, as the rest of her whole body is. I think your own making a big deal out of this makes you look like a freak, that and of course the foot-fanatics who cannot refrain from it for one measly second.

The freak-level tends to get high at sexually oriented forums, for obvious reasons (the content which can be found here is pretty arrousing). Know that outside these forums your general tickling lover is a normal person who isn't sexually handicapped. Only if you use the right approach you can talk many women into this. One hint is to pay attention for her needs too and don't highlight the tickling/feet TOO MUCH. Sex is more than just the missionary position, it's also more than tickling. Know that.

 

[morgandee]

cheer up emo kid

 

[gilmourwaters]

1) yep i got aroused inscholl seeing a girl dip or with her shoes off....never felt embarrassed though

2) never had to worry about someone telling anyone about my fetishes...i told them myself

3)hard NOT see feet in a long preiod of time...just look down at any girl and there they are! 😀

 

[GuldenVleugel]

Who're you're referring to? 😉

Anyway, the existence of forums like TMF or Tickletheater, sure add to my self-esteem about my fetishes. It's great when you learn you're not alone.

OFF TOPIC:
One thing that bothers me of Tickletheater. There was once one person who was banned for insulting other members (in response to harass-pms), in response another member went threatening her like some would-be serial rapist stalker ("you need SOME tickling", he said, in a violent way), and he got protected by the mods here. That made me freak out of these forums more than of TMF, which I consider slightly more normal (a reason some people may have left these forums also).

 

[CheshireCatNY]

Its funny you should bring this up now. I'm currently working in an office right now and one of my co-workers has been driving me insane on a daily basis. She's this blond Tara Reid lookalike who always comes in wearing the strappy heeled sandals and is ALWAYS dangling them, repositioning her feet and even unintentionally calling to me by smacking the heel of her shoe against the heel of her foot while dangling.......her feet are nearly perfect with the type of long toes that can actually reach over and grip the front of the sandal.....and its like slow torture!!!

In that way, yes it is a pain in the ass....like if any other "normal" guy had to work across from some chesty girl in a bikini....

Other than that I am full comfortable with it as a part of who I am and a majority of my friends know about it and are cool with it. One of them (female) even lets me indulge once in a while.....and I agree with Relent on having an outlet does indeed help periods of "low exposure"...

 

[MistressValerie1]

OFF TOPIC:
One thing that bothers me of Tickletheater. There was once one person who was banned for insulting other members (in response to harass-pms), in response another member went threatening her like some would-be serial rapist stalker ("you need SOME tickling", he said, in a violent way), and he got protected by the mods here. That made me freak out of these forums more than of TMF, which I consider slightly more normal (a reason some people may have left these forums also).

I don't recall this incident, but if you remember specifics, please send me the details by PM and I'll look into what happened.

 

[cosquillero1]

Who're you're referring to? 😉
...There was once one person who was banned for insulting other members (in response to harass-pms)...

I remember a banned member for insulting other members (including me), but i didn't know about him did some pms, perhaps is the same guy, but i don't know it. Anyway, that happened a long time ago.

 

[GuldenVleugel]

Well, the actual banning of that member is not the thing I question here. The way that member got insulted by other members was wrong IMO, but that was YEARS ago. 😉 I won't tell the name of that person here because it's not worth the discussion nor the headache of some moderator.

 

[gonevart]

Damn. My first non-request thread gets that many replys in only a couple of days? Damn....again.

 

[Yersinia]

I'd say it has pros and cons. Yes it can be awkward, and it can make relationships harder, and it can be an embarrasment, but you are much more likely to see bare feet than, say, breasts in a normal situation.

 

[Cavum]

Ex. No. 1: Where seeing feet causing you to get aroused in class when you were in school.

Things like that happends to anyone, so don't worrie man 🙂

Ex. No. 2: Telling someone and they tell everyone. (Yes I screwed up.)

Your wrong man. You didn't screw up. The ones you told screwed up. That really shows that they ain't the friends you taught they where. Making fun of someones fetish or lifestyle is just idiotic, but there is allways people that will do that. But don't be afraid of telling people. But if you want to be a bit secret about it, then share it with the friends you have close and can trust. Belive me...moust girls LOVE foot fetish guys (unless you act creepy). My best girl friend love the fact that she get all the foot masage she wants.....and yeah...I also sometimes (ehem..often) tickle the living crap out of her as well. haha.

Ex. No. 3: Not seeing feet for a long time makes you a little desprate.

Know that feeling and it ain't fun. Myself I get more desperate during summer when I see all the feet all over the place. The "only see, do not touch" thing can make you go crazy. But then just mastrubate. It helps alot in the desperate situations.

Share some stories of times similar to my disasters.

I don't have any disaster stories about my foot fetish. I love my foot fetish.
But take my advice and share your fetish with the girls you have as close friends. Have some sence of humor with it and don't take it so serious. I often kid around with my fetish to the girls I know and it's just positive. Like I sayd above. Moust of them dig the fact that they get all the foot masage they want. Some girls I know sometimes try to make be go a little crazy, so they send pictures to me of theyre feet and such...I don't mind that at all. haha. 😉

So don't worrie dude. I know it sucks when people make fun of a thing like this, but hang in there. I don't know how old you are, but I guess your young cause you sayd school and that people tell everyone. Need to talk about the frustration or something...don't be afraid to send me a PM or something. The worst thing about having a fetish is to think you don't have anyone to talk with about it.