I'm of the school of thought that a guy should bring nothing to a first date except 3 things:
- good hygiene,
- a sense of humor,
- and his wallet.
I think that bringing any sort of gift conveys that you're trying too hard and also puts the other person in an awkward position by making them feel obliged. Which brings me to the topic.
I have a friend who is meeting a girl for the first time through an online dating site. He's chatted with this girl for less than a month. He plans on bringing her a dozen roses, a box of chocolates, and a hand-written poem. I can't convince him that this is a bad idea. So I'm just curious- is he being just a tad too chivalrous? Or perhaps even downright creepy? Or for that matter do I lack game? Because I'm pretty sure the girls I've dated would have put a restraining order on me if I showed up with an armful of gifts on the first date.
- good hygiene,
- a sense of humor,
- and his wallet.
I think that bringing any sort of gift conveys that you're trying too hard and also puts the other person in an awkward position by making them feel obliged. Which brings me to the topic.
I have a friend who is meeting a girl for the first time through an online dating site. He's chatted with this girl for less than a month. He plans on bringing her a dozen roses, a box of chocolates, and a hand-written poem. I can't convince him that this is a bad idea. So I'm just curious- is he being just a tad too chivalrous? Or perhaps even downright creepy? Or for that matter do I lack game? Because I'm pretty sure the girls I've dated would have put a restraining order on me if I showed up with an armful of gifts on the first date.