Girl question 2 - Why do you kiss us after we tickle you?!

[The Internet]

Ok, this is something I've ALWAYS wanted to know....since my first girlfriend.

And I hope you know....this ain't a complaint!!! It's super endearing and beautiful!

Sometimes, I've been tickling a girl and when I'm done.....instead of, like, pushing me away "Get offa me!".....instead she brings me closer and kisses me! Now why do you guys do that?!!!

The first time I noticed this was with my very first girlfriend....her mother was taking a shower, so we were in my girl's room and we'd do this thing....she'd stand at the edge of the bed and I'd be right in front of her, and push her down and as soon as she landed, I'd pounce, usually under her arms, and tickle the f**k out of her. She'd be hysterical and writhing under me, and when I'd stop.....instead of scrunching her arms against the side of her body, she'd elongate them and wrap them around my neck and plant a smooch right on my kisser. And then say "do it again! do it again!". And we'd get up, get her in position at the edge of the bed....and do it over and over again. (it started when I backed her into it....)


Since then, it's happened millions of times, and I've seen it happen, I've even seen it happen on the street, I've even seen it in a few videos....

So, what's the psychology? I mean, this girl did not have "the fetish"! Neither did another one that I'm thinking of, where I can vividly remember sitting with her, tickling her sides, and her giggling and squirming around, and suddenly she said, through a flirty giggle, just before her lips kissed mine...."don't tickle me....." and it was definitely not an order. I could feel her smile on my mouth which turned into a kiss, so hot. Do you kiss to distract the tickler? This girl was practically kissing me THROUGH the tickling, it's what got me to stop!

I asked a girl once (not a TMF member) and she immediately smiled and almost blushed, and struggled to answer...."I don't know.....I guess....it's because they're being spontaneous"...it was so cute....."That's a good question, I don't know why I do that!"

 

[porcelaindoll2]

Ok, this is something I've ALWAYS wanted to know....since my first girlfriend.

And I hope you know....this ain't a complaint!!! It's super endearing and beautiful!

Sometimes, I've been tickling a girl and when I'm done.....instead of, like, pushing me away "Get offa me!".....instead she brings me closer and kisses me! Now why do you guys do that?!!!

The first time I noticed this was with my very first girlfriend....her mother was taking a shower, so we were in my girl's room and we'd do this thing....she'd stand at the edge of the bed and I'd be right in front of her, and push her down and as soon as she landed, I'd pounce, usually under her arms, and tickle the f**k out of her. She'd be hysterical and writhing under me, and when I'd stop.....instead of scrunching her arms against the side of her body, she'd elongate them and wrap them around my neck and plant a smooch right on my kisser. And then say "do it again! do it again!". And we'd get up, get her in position at the edge of the bed....and do it over and over again. (it started when I backed her into it....)


Since then, it's happened millions of times, and I've seen it happen, I've even seen it happen on the street, I've even seen it in a few videos....

So, what's the psychology? I mean, this girl did not have "the fetish"! Neither did another one that I'm thinking of, where I can vividly remember sitting with her, tickling her sides, and her giggling and squirming around, and suddenly she said, through a flirty giggle, just before her lips kissed mine...."don't tickle me....." and it was definitely not an order. I could feel her smile on my mouth which turned into a kiss, so hot. Do you kiss to distract the tickler? This girl was practically kissing me THROUGH the tickling, it's what got me to stop!

I asked a girl once (not a TMF member) and she immediately smiled and almost blushed, and struggled to answer...."I don't know.....I guess....it's because they're being spontaneous"...it was so cute....."That's a good question, I don't know why I do that!"

I normally don't kiss people after they tickle me(This applies to play partners I play with personally for free and people I see for paid sessions professionally.). I normally only kiss my husband and it is usually because I am about do something sexual. It's normally when I am in a lust filled rage for his cock to be in my mouth. When my husband tickles me he is normally helping me get off while I am using our Hitachi or we sometimes have a heavier play session where he tickles me when I am in bondage, blindfolded, maybe gagged, and he either uses the Hitachi on me or has sex with me when he wants to end the session. He will sometimes kiss my forehead after we play, but that is about it.

 

[chicago]

Never thought about it. Honestly, I'm a bit of a mouth breather and the first thought I have after being tickled is to catch my breath lol

 

[Wolf]

"If you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything." -- Marilyn Monroe

 

[The Internet]

"If you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything." -- Marilyn Monroe

Wolf, that is the quote of all time.

So sorry, I forgot, I guess most people in this part of the forum are all doms and people who go to doms....it seems people's only frame of reference are paid sessions! I've never seen the word "session" used so much in one place!

Obviously a dom is probably not going to kiss her client on the lips, yeah, I figured that's a given and that it was obvious I was referring to, you know, foreplay, flirting, stuff like that.....but hey, a cock in the mouth, that's an act of endearment too, more power to you, and your happy husband!

Yeah, Chicago, it's something I noticed some girls do, not all....(and I guess maybe guys too, I don't know), but it comes up with enough frequency that I had to ask. I think it's sexy when the tickler and the ticklee kiss! It's like....you look so good being tickled, I just have to kiss you!

I just wanted to understand the psychology when it's the other way around, when it's the ticklee initiating the kiss......I just know both times it caught me by surprise and was a really hot moment...enough to stick in my mind years later, when the sex and the rest of it all are but hazy memories...

 

[TKLVR18]

Embarrassingly enough, I have an answer for this one.

Because I'm grateful.

I usually kiss my husband after he tickle-attacks me, especially when it's out of nowhere. I like it when he does it, and he knows it It's a bonding experience and it makes us women (and a lot of guys I'd imagine) feel closer to the 'ler, which often leads to things like a hug and a kiss (and in the case of us fetishists often more 😀 )

~K

 

[primetime]

My theory is...they were turned on by it. You probably tickled them in a playful manner (or at least they thought it was playful) and not the torture style, so their bodies reacted as a turn on, so they wanted to kiss. I have had this happened to me when I tickled a female friend of mine. The tickling turned them on. It is the main reason why I tickle anyway. To provide them erotic pleasure...

 

[The Internet]

Embarrassingly enough, I have an answer for this one.

Because I'm grateful.

I usually kiss my husband after he tickle-attacks me, especially when it's out of nowhere. I like it when he does it, and he knows it It's a bonding experience and it makes us women (and a lot of guys I'd imagine) feel closer to the 'ler, which often leads to things like a hug and a kiss (and in the case of us fetishists often more 😀 )

~K

Awwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!! So beautiful!!!

There's nothing to be embarrassed about! So sweet!

Thanks for articulating that so thoughtfully and so beautifully. That's a great answer and helps me understand!

 

[The Internet]

My theory is...they were turned on by it. You probably tickled them in a playful manner (or at least they thought it was playful) and not the torture style, so their bodies reacted as a turn on, so they wanted to kiss. I have had this happened to me when I tickled a female friend of mine. The tickling turned them on. It is the main reason why I tickle anyway. To provide them erotic pleasure...

Great insight. You're right.

The first girl I wrote about....it was a "game". I actually was "torturing" her, but it was part of the game. So yeah, that's playful.

The other girl, yeah, it was flirty and light, it was about getting to where it might get torture before she kissed me. Which by the way, that was our first kiss, before then, it was just the tension of attraction between us......

And now that you mention it, I remember being in college and being in the backseat, reaching into the front passenger seat and tickle torturing one of my friendgirls.......to which she immediately started shrieking...."No! No! You're gonna turn me on! You're gonna turn me on!" Ha!!!! The only time I got THAT reaction!!!

 

[ChicagoDavid]

I find that if I tickle a woman who isn’t normally into that, but I don’t overdo it, she has that love/hate feeling during, but after she feels happy and giggly (maybe due to endorphins). That feeling is what prompts the kiss. Plus, the tickling is an intense form of attention. (Anytime I’ve asked a former stripper what she liked and didn’t like about stripping, the “like” part was the same -- the money and the attention.)

 

[The Internet]

I find that if I tickle a woman who isn’t normally into that, but I don’t overdo it, she has that love/hate feeling during, but after she feels happy and giggly (maybe due to endorphins). That feeling is what prompts the kiss. Plus, the tickling is an intense form of attention. (Anytime I’ve asked a former stripper what she liked and didn’t like about stripping, the “like” part was the same -- the money and the attention.)

Great insight, David. I think you're totally right. Especially about the attention part. I always say that to a girl when I'm explaining it......."it's about maximum attention.....on you!" Though it's also about HER attention.....focusing it on where I'm touching her....ahhhhh, it's so effin' hot!!!!

We're so lucky we're into this!

Alot of people from Chicago on this board! I think Chicago should possibly be designated the capital city of the TMF!!!

 

[ChicagoDavid]

It has my vote! Though NY and LA are strongholds. Perhaps in THIS Chicago could be the first city?!

 

[ChicagoDavid]

Great insight, David. I think you're totally right. Especially about the attention part. I always say that to a girl when I'm explaining it......."it's about maximum attention.....on you!" Though it's also about HER attention.....focusing it on where I'm touching her..

Good point!

 

[Wade]

I was giving this some thought and realized it's something I've done myself after someone stops tickling me. The circumstances are usually as follows:
--I'm already in a romantic relationship with the woman (so these situations have never, for me, given rise to a first kiss); and
--it's always after a fairly quick tickle; after a prolonged, sustained tickling, I'm too discombobulated to think of giving anyone a kiss.
--It's instinctive, an action I perform without deciding to, without thinking about it, and before I even realize I'm doing it.

So why does this happen? It occurs to me -- and this is a little embarrassing to admit -- that on some level it's an acknowledgement of my vulnerability, an almost instinctive animal performance of submission. In the safe and playful context of our relationship, it's a way of saying "You could have kept tickling and destroyed me there; thank you for not doing that and I hope you don't do that so please don't."

 

[Wolf]

I was giving this some thought and realized it's something I've done myself after someone stops tickling me. The circumstances are usually as follows:
--I'm already in a romantic relationship with the woman (so these situations have never, for me, given rise to a first kiss); and
--it's always after a fairly quick tickle; after a prolonged, sustained tickling, I'm too discombobulated to think of giving anyone a kiss.
--It's instinctive, an action I perform without deciding to, without thinking about it, and before I even realize I'm doing it.
So why does this happen? It occurs to me -- and this is a little embarrassing to admit -- that on some level it's an acknowledgement of my vulnerability, an almost instinctive animal performance of submission. In the safe and playful context of our relationship, it's a way of saying "You could have kept tickling and destroyed me there; thank you for not doing that and I hope you don't do that so please don't."

That's very interesting; I hadn't considered the submissive behavior angle.