I've withheld til now... My gf - now my wife of 37+ yrs - is also not into tickling. She knows I am (from the mags of the 90's, as well as my attempts at tickling her in the years before). Talk to her about your interest in it... how it turns you on, and that you only want to do it with her. Have her tie me and tickle me? Tried that too, several times, to no avail. Guess it's just that we had other interests that bonded us more. Oh, and many of the friends at college thought we'd be divorced within two years. And, have I thought of going outside for tickling? H - E - double hockey sticks, yes, several times. Have I? No. Guess you can call me chicken dumplings or whatever. You just gotta decide what is most important in your relationship. Ramble, ramble. Still, best of luck to ya.