Hi everyone,
I have read this thread, and I figured I would throw in my two cents worth...
I have been a member on the TMF for quite some time, and this thread is indicative of why many good folks have left the TMF for other sites like Tickle Theater, etc.
I for one have had nothing but good experiences with most folks on here and have made some great friends over the years. I can still remember the early days when there were very few clips to be had. If you know me or read any of my posts or stories, you know that tickling is very sexual for me. In fact, I will probably rub one out in the next 15 minutes. That's why I come here. The OP did nothing wrong by posting his question. I hope he receives a PM from a nice lady who wants to share her thoughts. Lord knows that nobody will open up now on this thread.
Many times people are chastised for making a simple comment or asking a simple question. I know it has been said before, but it seems that a lot of us can be very judgemental of anything that doesn't fit into our kink. Don't get me wrong. I don't feel anyone was that harsh in this thread. I am referring to the TMF overall.
I am reminded of many posts where people jump a producers ass for not putting enough description in the headline as to whether a clip is F/M, M/F, M/M, etc. Christ, how fucking spoon-fed do some people need to be. I can click my back button as quickly as any link, and I can certainly be patient enough to wait 2 seconds to click the next link to find something that gets me off. You would think there would be a little gratitude to any producer creating material and sharing samples with forum, not constant criticism.
Heaven forbid someone bring up tickling someone until the lose bladder control. They get bombarded with how gross and disgusting it is. I for one think that it is the ultimate expression of a lee that you are in control. I could go into more detail, but what would be the point.
I guess without rambling to much more, I am trying to say, to each his own. I am for one an not offended by anything on this forum. Why? ... because I am an adult who has lived life long enough and experienced enough hardship to know what really matters. I am a thick guy with even thicker skin.
I would just urge folks to think where OP's of any question or comment are coming from... you never know how a negative comment can affect someone, but you always know how positive responses affect people. I have taken the time to send quick PM's to people just to let them know their comment or their demeanor somehow brightened my day. Then of course, I whack the hell out of it if I get some kind of reply. 😉
Take care,
Luvs