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[wishfoot88]

hi
as most of you know, i recently outed myself. and that one of the people i outed myself to, shouted it around the place.

now i thought that this would be a problem.....
so i met up with them today, and other people heard what he shouted.
my closest friends now know about my "secret" (as it is now known).
one of them was really freaked out. he was the one that always gets tickled in the sides, and he thought that my "secret" was because of him.
so i had to politely outline it that it was the other way around, that i was the one getting tickled.
he was still freaked out, but who cares. if is is too narrow minded that he cannot accept this then he can fuck off.

anyway, now that most people know, i decided to take your advice.
when asked i simply replied "yes".
this confused most people as they were expecting me to deny it.
i simply said that it was something that i liked and that i am not ashamed.

i still got the usual teasing; "i know your secret!" kinda stuff and the fact that they now think that i (quote, sorry for how crude this phrase it) "wank over tickling".
but i can laugh that off.
most of them now know that i am a ticklee.

since it is no longer a secret, i don't have to worry about being outed😀

 

[DownUnder]

Well done. It's one thing to "out" yourself once; it's another thing to be completely comfortable with your lifestyle choices.

It takes courage to say "yes" when you are pressed for it, and be comfortable with it. Well done buddy.

 

[-Hari-]

See dude, doesnt it feel nice that you dont have to worry about people finding out cause they already know?

And its great that you feel confident enuf to just hold your hands up and say "yes" instead of having to hide or try and justify it, people who take the mik will soon get bored when they dont get a reaction out of you, tis how they work.

good for you dude



Hari

 

[wishfoot88]

thanks guys, apart from that one ignorant twat, they all just accepted it.
it was your advice that helped me simply admit it so thanks again!!😀

 

[DownUnder]

thanks guys, apart from that one ignorant twat, they all just accepted it.
it was your advice that helped me simply admit it so thanks again!!😀

That guy is not only ignorant, but is judgemental and narrow-minded. Dont' worry about them! They're not worth your time and friendship!

 

[jk666uk]

hi
as most of you know, i recently outed myself. and that one of the people i outed myself to, shouted it around the place.

now i thought that this would be a problem.....
so i met up with them today, and other people heard what he shouted.
my closest friends now know about my "secret" (as it is now known).
one of them was really freaked out. he was the one that always gets tickled in the sides, and he thought that my "secret" was because of him.
so i had to politely outline it that it was the other way around, that i was the one getting tickled.
he was still freaked out, but who cares. if is is too narrow minded that he cannot accept this then he can fuck off.

anyway, now that most people know, i decided to take your advice.
when asked i simply replied "yes".
this confused most people as they were expecting me to deny it.
i simply said that it was something that i liked and that i am not ashamed.

i still got the usual teasing; "i know your secret!" kinda stuff and the fact that they now think that i (quote, sorry for how crude this phrase it) "wank over tickling".
but i can laugh that off.
most of them now know that i am a ticklee.

since it is no longer a secret, i don't have to worry about being outed😀

why did you want to come out anyway ?
p.s just a question 🙂

 

[wishfoot88]

why did you want to come out anyway ?
p.s just a question 🙂

i wanted someone who i could trust and i knew would understand.
one of my initial 2 people who i told was true to this to other wasnt.
i just wanted someone to know....... so that i wasn't burdened with the work of keeping it a secret.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Congrats to you. Even though it wasn't under the best circumstances, I'm glad you're glad 🙂