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Hard situations

Joe if I may ask a question and U don't have to answer. What's more important, the tickling sessions or her.
 
That is a difficult situation, in fact my girlfriend is truly open with anything i like to do, but i do sense she doesn't seek it out as "WE" on this forum do and often i wonder how it would be if she truly was into it as i am (meaning i don't think she'd enjoy me really going at her as we see in some of the clips on here). Being that she is an outstanding woman that would do anything for me and simply gorgeous i don't see me leaving her to find out. With that said you should NEVER be made to feel weird about your desires and seek happiness in your life.
 
Toptickler said:
That is a difficult situation, in fact my girlfriend is truly open with anything i like to do, but i do sense she doesn't seek it out as "WE" on this forum do and often i wonder how it would be if she truly was into it as i am (meaning i don't think she'd enjoy me really going at her as we see in some of the clips on here). Being that she is an outstanding woman that would do anything for me and simply gorgeous i don't see me leaving her to find out. With that said you should NEVER be made to feel weird about your desires and seek happiness in your life.
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Well, well said.....
 
Relationships aren't just about sex. If the relationship is good outside of the bedroom, if you get along fine there, chances are good you can talk about it and work it out. I would never throw a long-term relationship away for someone I just met just because the sex is good. That can always change!

But if the relationship doesn't work in other aspects as well, it's not worth pursuing it.
 
Nothing I can add that hasn't been said, really. But I will quote a stand-up comedian I once heard way back when.

"Your wedding night is not the time to find out your partner can't get aroused unless you dress like a pirate."

I'll add that if you're expected to never have sex with another person for as long as you both shall live, it's pretty unfair of them to refuse to do what you want/need. On some level, throw out the idea of a fetish and just apply that idea to vanilla sex; we won't die without it, but if your spouse refuses to eff you, ever, it's not hard to argue that that is not a situation anyone should realistically expect to tolerate.

Conversely, it's not fair to impose demands that your partner submit to something they absolutely would never do. For example, I don't care how much you "need" a golden shower or anal, I'm not letting you piddle on me or stuff anything up my rear exhaust. Full stop, end of story.

It could just be the divorce talking, but I truly believe that everyone needs to live for themselves and not rely on others for their own happiness. And if something is a part of you, and you absolutely need it to be fulfilled, then someone else can't hold you back from that. You only get one go-'round.

I second shygirl's thoughts of counseling, TBH. Marriages require work, and I feel you should only call it quits if you've exhausted every other possibility.
 
I think it is important to let the person know all about you before a commitment is made. Some say they marry their best friend...well its time to put that to the test. Some people consider tickling outside the marriage to be cheating. If you are looking for validation of its okay well some will agree, some won't. In the past their have been many TMFers in this situation and did go outside the relationship to fufill their fetish. They have sinced moved on probably realizing it isn't worth it. Some who I know has recently hooked up, even married, a vanilla partner. Not sure how that's going to go. All and all I believe its your decision. Think of it as the opposite end. Your man is into something kinky you may not enjoy so he goes outside to get his fufillment. Are you jealous or accepting?
 
As much of a good idea as it would have been to weigh all of this before going into the marriage, that obviously didn't happen (not in any realistic way), so that advice does you no good.

That said, it seems to me that you have some difficult decisions to make. I really can't add much to what's already been said, except to say that if you are indeed going to leave your husband, do so BEFORE striking a new relationship with someone else. It's a lot cleaner that way.
 
It is sad to deal with those facts...

I have the problem of a long term GF who won't be involved in tickling at all...

I pay models strippers and escorts to play tickle games. I also attend foot fetish events.

I always get feet to tickle there.

It is not the best way but when you have this fetish it has to be fed.

I wish for a GF who will understand my need for tickling. :tickling:

Have not found it yet.

It is a turn-off to have to pay someone to tickle them.

A lot of fun is missed when you are no more than a client.

Maybe one day I will get lucky.

Stranger things have happened.

Dandy Jack!
 
Dandy Jack said:
I have the problem of a long term GF who won't be involved in tickling at all...

I pay models strippers and escorts to play tickle games. I also attend foot fetish events.
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Interesting. So you don't take your own advice about going ahead and tickling someone against their will, why is that then mate?
 
atitudeadjuster said:
Interesting. So you don't take your own advice about going ahead and tickling someone against their will, why is that then mate?
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I just saw your question...Nothing is absolute I have tickled many girls without permission...Many X

Girlfriends too! I always ask if we can tickle but them saying no does not mean I wont grab them and

tickle them. Who can't tickle their GF.

My current GF is selfish and I get sick of her complaints... No tickling at all...is what she wants so fine...

Therefore I pay the girls who don't care about being

tickled as long as they are paid well.

I pay em well! Usually $1000 per session...

I used to spend many hours in Los Angeles at Passive Arts

When my plane landed off to Passive Arts bags and all.

$260.00 per hr 2 girl special was my favorite!

I have not met a GF type who likes to be tickled...

Tickling for me is a fetish that must be fed...

Dandy Jack
 
What the hell does randomly paying for and non con tickling have to do with this? Just curious.
 
There is no great answer What's right is what is right for you only!!!

You may be comfortable in your misery! I do know one thing for sure

the tickling fetish must be fed...:tickling: you must decide how when and where!

To answer your question... Non con tickling has nothing to do with this!!!

So:

Keep living and one day you will snatch the pebble from the master's hand!

:bsflag:It is on that fine day that you will then know the answer! :bsflag:
 
From Taxi Driver: Are you talking to me?

If so send me the script and I will read my lines...

Dandy Jack!
 
The only options aren't just to refrain from tickling and stay in the marriage, or get a divorce. There really is a third option: stay in the marriage and fulfill your sexual needs elsewhere. This is viable for many, many people.

Does the poster have kids? I've heard lots of kids of divorced parents say that they hated the experience and would never want to do that to their children. I've never heard children of intact parents say, "I wish mom and dad got a divorce ... they just weren't sexually compatible! Their happiness is my happiness."

Is divorcing someone because you're not sexually fulfilled less selfish than staying in the mariage to someone who loves you and providing a two-parent home to your kids - at the expense of some side activity no one else needs to know about? Sometimes you have to do what is practical, not what is ideal. If a tree falls in the forest and no one hears, does it make a sound? If someone commits a "transgression" and no one knows about it, is anyone hurt?
 
My update....we are divorcing. It's for the best I guess. There are children in the line of fire, but he contributed to this problem too. Thank you everyone for your opinions and support.
 
I hope you are not divorcing over the other person you met.
 
I'm not a *****.
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Interesting that you would react that way. I never even implied you are, but since you burst out like that I see the possibility you might feel that way about yourself.

Even if I was divorcing for someone else, I think thats private.
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Huh? Wasn't meeting someone who was "the perfect lee" what this thread was all about? It's not that I am just pulling that thought out of my ass. There are a lot of reasons to get a divorce, but personally I don't think someone a person just met and seems to be perfect sexually is one of them.
 
Hey Rhiannon & iloveddub. We must realize that the latter is going through a very bad time. I think she would appreciate some support. I know how one can burst out on small things in such circumstances. We are TMF family lets support anyone and everyone in their time of distress. what do u guys say?
 
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