TickleMyFancy
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Hiya
I recently lost one of my favorite playmates. She and I didn't have a safe word (my mistake), and I mistook her "no!"s and "stop!"s to be a part of the fun. I didn't find out until after we were done and I untied her that she was genuenly uncomfortable and kind of freaking out during the process.
We had played before with no problems, but I guess this time I went a little overboard, and now she is totally against the idea of tickling anymore. Sad day.
So my question to you is have you ever found yourself in a similar situation, and how did you handle it? Next time I will absolutely have a safe word (even though it was HER who insisted we didn't) just as a precaution.
Just sucks loosing out on a good tickle buddy because of lack of forethought.
I recently lost one of my favorite playmates. She and I didn't have a safe word (my mistake), and I mistook her "no!"s and "stop!"s to be a part of the fun. I didn't find out until after we were done and I untied her that she was genuenly uncomfortable and kind of freaking out during the process.
We had played before with no problems, but I guess this time I went a little overboard, and now she is totally against the idea of tickling anymore. Sad day.
So my question to you is have you ever found yourself in a similar situation, and how did you handle it? Next time I will absolutely have a safe word (even though it was HER who insisted we didn't) just as a precaution.
Just sucks loosing out on a good tickle buddy because of lack of forethought.