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[MissBeeHaven]

I've noticed on this forum a lot of people jumping on others in the threads, I mean people are calling others liars and some are being rude, is it always like this or is it just certain people? I'm not meaning to start anything I am just curious, are there certain cliques that I need to be aware of?

 

[KrazyBoi]

i have been noticing the samething, i am new here and it seems like that the only way people talk to you is if you already know someone from here.

 

[MissBeeHaven]

Well, I suppose we can chat with each other, LOL!

 

[venray]

There are a few bad eggs that bring out the worst in people....It is best to ignore them often and you will find many others who are fun to talk with.....


Ray

 

[featherfingers]

Hey, MissBeeHaven and KrazyBoi... feel free to chat with me. I've been here for about seven months now and when I first joined I wasn't sure what to expect. Then Steph and Tickleshotel came into my life and made TMF fun and exciting for me.

You'll find a few personality conflicts among members, but the moderators and most of us TMF'ers are very good at keeping the peace around here. There are a few here who love to push other's buttons, so just make a mental note of that person's screen name and try to avoid them. I got into it once or twice with someone and a moderator had to put a stop to it. It's best just to ignore the thread and view something else, or make your point in a civilised manner. After a while, you can tell who is cool and who is a troublemaker.

 

[Limeoutsider]

for every 300 good memebers, you get 1 or 2 bad ones
no way to weed out the trolls, unfortunatly

 

[drew70]

Flames are part of any forum. Around here, most flames get censored, so when I happen to catch an exchange, I try and savor the moment.

 

[tickletoy3]

I agree

There are lots of friendly people here and overall this is and can be a fun forum.. but unfortunately there are always one or two that makes you realize why this forum has the 'ignore' function. Have fun, get to know the people, and make your own decisions. This forum offers lots of great tickling material!

 

[Mitchell]

Bee, in a forum as large as this, there are bound to be a few rotten eggs. In my 2 1-2 years here, I have developed a close comraderie with the good people, and learned to ignore the bad. As Lime said, for every 300 good folks, there are bound to be some bad ones. I would say that the amount of troublemakers or jerks I've encountered is maybe 1 or perhaps 2 percent of the forum, if that many.
One way to weed out the jerks if you choose not to see the fighting, is to place whoever you find offensive on ignore. Go into your private messages box, click it on, even if you have no current messages, then click the edit ignore list button, and write the name of whomever you find offensive in those boxes provided. This way, the offenders can never leave you a private message, and you dont have to see their posts. When you click on a thread, whoever you have on your ignore list, it will just say, this person is on your ignore list, and you wont be able to read their posts. This can help you from not having to see offensive posters or such.
I hope this doesnt sound too negative, Iam just trying to help. Let me again stress, as Lime pointed out, that for every 300 good members, you are bound to have one of a couple of bad ones. For the most part, I can say that I have many friends, and like most of the members here. As for the small percentage of offenders, the ignore list works well for that problem.

Mitch

 

[Leo tickles]

Place is full of decent people. Choose who you talk to wisley and no problems will occur.

 

[steph]

spelling error

Didn't you mean to say "tools" darlin'? 😉
MissBee~it happens from time to time. If it bothers you, report to the mods or just ignore them. After awhile you get to know who's a waste of time here~most however are fantastic.
XOXO

for every 300 good memebers, you get 1 or 2 bad ones
no way to weed out the trolls, unfortunatly

 

[TickledToDeath]

I've noticed on this forum a lot of people jumping on others in the threads, I mean people are calling others liars and some are being rude, is it always like this or is it just certain people? I'm not meaning to start anything I am just curious, are there certain cliques that I need to be aware of?

You've heard the tale of RobinHood and his band of merry men, well consider those of whom you spoke, a band of miserable men spreading hate and discontent.
Just a band, whose life is out of tune.

TTD

 

[milagros317]

Don't let the few creeps here bother you, MissBee. Just put them on your ingore list, as Mitchell explained. 😀

 

[MissBeeHaven]

Thank you, I was just wondering mostly if anyone else had noticed it

 

[General Zod]

From what I have seen that type of flaming usually goes on in the politcal forum You'd think we have a bunch of politicians here on the forum😛

 

[ticklkitten]

Hey MissBee! We have SOOO many members here and the diversity in our personalities covers all colors of the spectrum. It causes conflict occasionally and for the most part its reletively intelligent confrontation, and if it gets out of control the mods quickly nip it in the bud. I try to stay out of it but the fiery redhead in my sometimes gets a little heated up! lol! I apologize if I have ever annoyed or offended you, it's not my intention.

Regardless, you seem pretty popular around here and I love ya to death babe! It's great seeing another outgoing lady... us noisy ones have the most fun anyhow!

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

MissBeeHaven there are certain people out here that are problems. I have found that out from Steph and others who I should stay away from. THough I have been here just a month I have made a dozen friends. I know I was one of the culprits you are talking about in regards to calling someone a liar. I do not like anyone being treated like they are a conquest. The thread I called someone a liar on threw names out there like it is okay. I do not view you ladies in a disrespectful manner. I am open sincere and honest. I felt what was said was wrong. I should have ignored it. Considered the source and moved on. I did not. I was WRONG. I have no business to judge anyones doing out here. But know if I had to do it over again MissBeeHaven I would have moved on. For that I now make a public apology to Neutron and to anyone else I offended on the line 24 hours ago. I am sorry. I will try to show some class and behave myself from this point forward. Again I am sorry Neutron and to all my friends I embarrassed with my poor behavior last night. I beg for your forgiveness.

 

[Oddjob0226]

Hey, since we're on the topic of flaming, who else here has problems with Belgiums? And Mormons - don't even get me started there......

 

[Krokus]

emotion of any sort is healthy. nothing bad can come from pure emotion, whether it be violence, debate, or an act of rebellion. in fact, when emotion is censored and such...the participant only becomes angry...because the participant feels misunderstood, ignored, brushed off ect...and wishes to lash out more. However, nearly everyone here is civil, and problems are kept to a minimum.

 

[steph]

I think Krokus is right, REAL people are subject to getting emotional (Thank God, if not, think how dull we'd all be!🙄) And George, you're the classiest act I know, don't sweat it darlin'😉
XOXO

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

No I am NOT Steph.

 

[steph]

Yes, you are! And I WISH you'd quit arguing with me...I'm one of those people, when I'm right, I'm right. When I'm wrong, I say I'm wrong, it's one of those qualities I like about me. 😛
XOXO

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

I appreciate the compliment. That is very sweet. You are wrong but sweet.

 

[steph]

I AM sweet and rarely wrong Get used to it! 😛
XOXO

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

Oh NO Not the wet noodle. 😛