Have you ever been caught?

[cjjericho84]

Hi all,

I've been playing a risky game by tickling one of my girlfriends friends (see true stories section called Risky tickling in shop).

Was wondering if anybody has been found out or gotten into any trouble with the mrs over 'innocently' tickling someone and if so what was the outcome???

Best regards

CJ

 

[jd58]

No I have not but I stopped that practice because in my heart I felt
like I was cheating even though there was no sex involved.

 

[cjjericho84]

Is it cheating? Does it really count? If you didn't have a fetish would it still be cheating?

 

[Lttg]

It's a good thing the rules of cheating are based on arbitrary guidelines drawn up on a fetish forum and not, for example, based on what your girlfriend would find upsetting if she found out about.

"No but you see babe, it wasn't cheating, we discussed it at length on the forums so you're not allowed to be upset and dump me"

 

[cjjericho84]

Yeah that works for me, gotta have some sort of excitement in our lives!

 

[Lttg]

I'd suggest that the requirement to hurt others emotionally before you can get excitement makes you a sociopath, maybe look into that.

 

[Cave In]

I haven't tickled any other girl since I've been in my current relationship. My girlfriend is aware of my tickle fetish and so I know if she found out about it she would be angry and upset as it would be similar to cheating.

 

[PiedPiper]

When you put 'innocently' in quote marks, you may have tipped your hand.

 

[Blue Soda]

oh boy...here we go

 

[cjjericho84]

Apologies for the use of quote marks on the word innocent, I do believe that people like us with fetishes are capable of tickling innocently.

Which is why I think it isn't cheating

 

[TripleH1]

No fucking, no cheating. Period.

 

[Brock Samson]

No fucking, no cheating. Period.

Yeah.....no. Plenty of women will leave over your 'less-than-fucking' activities with another person. I know I would. It's a respect thing. I mean, making out, fondling, whatever. It's cheating, but it's ok if you don't think so. Just don't get mad when your S/O walks out after finding you tasting some other chick's lip gloss or toe nail polish.

Back on the subject, no I haven't been caught, but only because it's not something I would do. To me, it's a form of cheating. I just wouldn't feel right going anything beyond a quick poke here or there. I mean, if you think that your S/O would be angry in any way, shape, form, or fashion, then it is cheating in their mind, and even if it isn't to you, you should refrain.

 

[cjjericho84]

Ok I'm not talking about full blown tickle sessions, I'm talking about the small tickles here and there or when an opportunity arises.

So are you telling me that you haven't even poked someone in the sides since being married, because you consider it unfaithful?

 

[Brock Samson]

Well, I'm not married so.....there's that. If you had read my post, you'd have noticed the "I just wouldn't feel right going anything beyond a quick poke here or there" part. As long as that is the extent of it, then you're in the safe zone! Just, whatever you do, stay in the safe zone!

 

[robmic]

Simple answer.... if you wouldn't do it in front of your S/O, don't do it at all!

 

[Morning Lorie]

My sweetie is reasonable. I tickle other guys whether he is with me or not and he doesn't get upset.

 

[cjjericho84]

Apologies Poetic, I have indeed misread

 

[ticklehound]

I have never been openly "caught."

I mean, I haven't tickled or been tickled by anyone in the last several months other than my girlfriend.

However, we have made it a routine to play songs on youtube on our phones while we're cuddling in bed. And on a couple occasions, I am pretty sure she caught a glimpse of my youtube opening up with "suggestions" for clips I'd like - "Cute Girl Tickled," "Hot Feet Tickling Fetish," etc.

She's never said anything to call me out on it, but I'd be a fool to think she didn't know...

 

[cjjericho84]

google chrome incognito + silly profile name ie cjjericho and you will never be caught out!