Have you ever given a guy blue balls during a tickling session?

[c7_assassin]

There's something not right about going onto a group of peers just to tell us that you denied a man sex. Even if C7 Doesn't mind, that's not cool. If I were in this situation of being denied a request I most certainly would hope that it would be kept between me and the person. I wouldn't be the least bit surprised if c7 is just playing this off like it doesn't matter to hide the fact of how insulted he is.

I appreciate the show of solidarity, bro, but you have it wrong. This was something private between two good friends. She didn't 'deny' me anything, because nothing was asked or expected... And she posted the story here because we shared a laugh and a conversation about it together the next morning.

Sex is a wonderful and natural conclusion to a session, but there might be a thousand reasons why it wouldn't happen. Nothing to get catty about.

And as men we shouldn't really expect a medal just for not turning into pigs because blood flows to our penises, should we? Anyone who doesn't understand that probably isn't ready for actual play.

 

[ChristianeBothe]

you have got the dare and wish you a great fun ahead .. not so good to me as i am unable to get the mentality behind the same act of tickling, people have with joy

 

[TicklingTips]

I don't think I agree that someone should get an orgasm in return for tickling someone. I mean sure, if both are happy, but I wouldn't expect it. However I am a big believer that its only polite to offer the chance to experience something your play partner would love. Eg a ler should offer at the end of a session, is there any way you want me to tickle you that I haven't done yet? Similarly I think its polite for a lee to offer, is there any other way you'd like to tickle me? And unless it offends one of the people involved, I'd kind of expect people to go with it. Eg ok, that's more intense tickling than I'm used to, but I'll go with it for say, ten minutes, because we've had a great session.

 

[suikoden]

This is a turn up for the books. Usually the whole orgasm denial angle in tickling is where the tickler stimulates the ticklee and backs off before they can climax. I guess it can work both ways in this kind of session between friends (is this the tickling equivalent of friends with benefits?)

I'd imagine most women in this situation would feel a little insulted if the guy didn't end up with blue balls and as this is a sexual fetish forum, I'd imagine most of us have some kind of erotic reaction to partaking in, reading about or watching tickling.

I've been wrong before though. 🙂

 

[jetergirl5]

Since most of my tickling sessions are with platonic play partners, Ive definitely know some had Blue balls! Its awkward so I try not to think about it since I'm not sexually attracted to them.

 

[Amnesiac]

"I DIDN'T ASK who gave the order, because it had NOTHING to do with business!"

@C7

 

[C.A.B.]

teekle make feel sexy time yes?









...what an odd thread.

 

[Antarion]

I appreciate the show of solidarity, bro, but you have it wrong. This was something private between two good friends. She didn't 'deny' me anything, because nothing was asked or expected... And she posted the story here because we shared a laugh and a conversation about it together the next morning.

Sex is a wonderful and natural conclusion to a session, but there might be a thousand reasons why it wouldn't happen. Nothing to get catty about.

And as men we shouldn't really expect a medal just for not turning into pigs because blood flows to our penises, should we? Anyone who doesn't understand that probably isn't ready for actual play.

Alright man, but this is a bad trend to follow. If this keeps up, we're going to have people on here gossiping about other members on here. You got some thick skin bro. Would it be me in your position, I would be extremely angry.

 

[rhiannon]

Its awkward so I try not to think about it since I'm not sexually attracted to them.

Why do you play with them that way if you know it's sexual to them and you're not sexually attracted to them? Would be a total no-go for me.

 

[porcelaindoll2]

Why do you play with them that way if you know it's sexual to them and you're not sexually attracted to them? Would be a total no-go for me.

It would be a total no go for me too in private play. I always like to have mutual attraction with my private play partners. The only times I can recall not fucking was if it was my first time playing with someone(My rule use to be no sex the first time, but it got broken a lot 😉) or the other person didn't want it(This rarely happens).

 

[chicago]

For a lot of us tickling is only a turn on in certain circumstances. But we can still have fun playing with friends we've made in the community. Doesn't always have to be sexual. Imagine that!

 

[Antarion]

The only times I can recall not fucking was... ...if the other person didn't want it(This rarely happens).

I guess modesty is dead.

 

[chicago]

If you're gonna have hangups about grown ass people sharing their sexual experiences on a fetish site, you're gonna feel pretty uncomfortable here most of the time.

 

[meangry]

Alright man, but this is a bad trend to follow. If this keeps up, we're going to have people on here gossiping about other members on here. You got some thick skin bro. Would it be me in your position, I would be extremely angry.

Welcome to eight years ago, bro.

The two people here are friends, or else they wouldn't go to a motel for tickling. You know, trust issues.

Prudish behavior on a site that features some of the most base level fodder for people with your fetish, from orgasm tickling, to stories about kidnapping women off the streets to turn into hypersexed tickle slaves, you're going to have a bad time.

Are you worried about a legion of ladies on here that are all secretly writing your name down to put into the blue balls brigade?

 

[Antarion]

If you're gonna have hangups about grown ass people sharing their sexual experiences on a fetish site, you're gonna feel pretty uncomfortable here most of the time.

Slow your roll chief, I don't care if people share their experiences, I just don't like the prospect of us being used to demean or embarrass other people.


Do you honestly think if I was a prude about sexual themes I would've ever joined the TMF? Meangry, I just don't like how this thing can go down.

And I will never meet anyone on here IRL. There's something wrong with knowing what turns someone on before you're even friends.


Nevermind guys. I didn't know this is what you all thought.

 

[chicago]

Slow your roll chief, I don't care if people share their experiences, I just don't like the prospect of us being used to demean or embarrass other people.

There's something wrong with knowing what turns someone on before you're even friends.

The original post is clearly written in a light hearted manner and both people are cool with it. So, I don't know where the demeaning and embarrassing part comes in and that last sentence sounds like a hangup to me. It's your choice which is fine, but this site was just a medium that allowed me to make some great friends, many of which I don't have any interest in other than being friends. It's like "Oh yeah, they like tickling and we met on the TMF" but it feels no different than "Oh yeah, they like cooking. We met on a cooking forum." Really isn't that 'wrong.'

 

[suikoden]

^On this one, two of my best friends in the world are people I met on here. Funny thing is we don't even discuss the forum anymore except to reminisce about the good old days 4-5 years ago when the story forum was throwing up gems every week.

 

[rhiannon]

For a lot of us tickling is only a turn on in certain circumstances. But we can still have fun playing with friends we've made in the community. Doesn't always have to be sexual. Imagine that!

Which is fine and dandy if both people don't feel sexually about it. Could really be a problem and totally awkward though if only one person considers it platonic and the other is totally turned on, and that seemed to be the case we were asking about here.

I guess modesty is dead.

You're looking for modesty in a fetish forum!? Come on now.....

 

[chicago]

Which is fine and dandy if both people don't feel sexually about it. Could really be a problem and totally awkward though if only one person considers it platonic and the other is totally turned on, and that seemed to be the case we were asking about here.

I don't see a problem if one person considers it platonic and the other is turned on. People get turned on all the time throughout the day sometimes for no reason, doesn't mean they are owed anything from the object of their arousal. And I would hope upon first playing with someone, the adults would be able to express what they want out of the session and communicate their boundaries to each other so as to avoid any awkwardness. In this case, where the two people are friends and have probably played before, I'd imagine things are not so structured and more spontaneous which could lead to awkwardness, girl falls asleep, dude has raging hard on, but looks like both parties not only survived, but managed to laugh it off and move on.

 

[C.A.B.]

If you're gonna have hangups about grown ass people sharing their sexual experiences on a fetish site, you're gonna feel pretty uncomfortable here most of the time.

Balderdsash. I've been on this fetish site forever and my ass hasn't grown one iota. ...or a modicum, for that matter.

 

[Aimee]

This thread... I really don't like this thread...

There's something not right about going onto a group of peers just to tell us that you denied a man sex. Even if C7 Doesn't mind, that's not cool. If I were in this situation of being denied a request I most certainly would hope that it would be kept between me and the person. I wouldn't be the least bit surprised if c7 is just playing this off like it doesn't matter to hide the fact of how insulted he is.

I don't mind whatever topics we talk about, but this feels like you're using c7 as a scapegoat to brag.

LOL. What? You mean I shouldn't let people on a tickling base site know about my tickling sessions?
Oh. I'm sorry. Maybe I should just post cat pictures and go about my day. GOD FORBID I use a site for tickling to talk about...<gasp> tickling! OH THE HUMANITY OF IT ALL!!!!!!!!!!

Also... uhm. c7 was sitting right next to me when I posted this. Literally. He was right next to me. I even read it to him before I posted it. We laughed. A lot. It's fuckin' hilarious. He's my friend. He's not insulted & if he were? I wouldn't have posted this. (Duh.)

However, should a TMF-type woman/girl request/encourage someone to cater to her specific desire at a pre-arranged and private meetup I think it's extremely unpleasant of her to expect her playmate to "take matters in hand" afterwards while she herself happily basks in the afterglow and falls asleep. She could at least offer a hand (or foot...) of friendship.

Otherwise it's thoughtlessness at best, and at worst an exhibition of extreme selfishness.

I don't agree with this at all. Maybe I'm reading it wrong? (I do that sometimes.)
I mean if you are talking about a general meet up between 2 people for the sole purpose of *just* having a tickling session? Ok. Yeah. I get that. But ... we were going on a trip together. Just so happens we are both tickle freaks. Just so happens tickling happened.

I'm all about talking hard limits & making sure everyone is on the same page.

I don't like being lumped into this expectation that because I am a TMF girl and I have this fetish I should have known better or I should have given him ... uhm ... relief (for lack of a better word.) That's a big stinkin' load of BS & just plain rude to say. I'm not expected to do anything except what I feel comfortable with ... sorry if he got turned on but it's not my obligation as a TMF girl to take care of that with my hand or my fucking foot.

For a lot of us tickling is only a turn on in certain circumstances. But we can still have fun playing with friends we've made in the community. Doesn't always have to be sexual. Imagine that!

If you're gonna have hangups about grown ass people sharing their sexual experiences on a fetish site, you're gonna feel pretty uncomfortable here most of the time.

THIS. A million times.

Which is fine and dandy if both people don't feel sexually about it. Could really be a problem and totally awkward though if only one person considers it platonic and the other is totally turned on, and that seemed to be the case we were asking about here.



You're looking for modesty in a fetish forum!? Come on now.....

No. THIS IS NOT THE CASE WE ARE TALKING ABOUT HERE. At all. Not even... wow. Just not even close. Try again.

This is what happened:
c7 visits Aimee.
c7 and Aimee are friends.
c7 and Aimee go on a vanilla road trip together (as friends).
c7 knows Aimee's past (part of reason he's visiting ... she's been going through a tough time).
c7 and Aimee both have a tickling fetish.
c7 and Aimee play. Multiple times. c7 is respectful. So is Aimee. We laugh about his pain because we (as friends) can do so.
THE END.

This is not a case of c7 having a crush on me & me just wanting to be friends & leading him on with my tickling fetish. Not.Even.Close.

I can't believe how much you guys are reading into this.
I get answering the original question: Have you ever given a guy blue balls during a tickling session? & then expanding on your own experience... but to completely go out of context on a silly post & try to say shit that does not make sense and judging the situation without even ASKING c7 or I (hey...we are both on the forum...we can reply! Can you believe it???) is childish at best. Stop assuming! ASK. Jeesh. Didn't yo mama teach you respect?

 

[chicago]

LOL. What? You mean I shouldn't let people on a tickling base site know about my tickling sessions?
Oh. I'm sorry. Maybe I should just post cat pictures and go about my day. GOD FORBID I use a site for tickling to talk about...<gasp> tickling! OH THE HUMANITY OF IT ALL!!!!!!!!!!

Also... uhm. c7 was sitting right next to me when I posted this. Literally. He was right next to me. I even read it to him before I posted it. We laughed. A lot. It's fuckin' hilarious. He's my friend. He's not insulted & if he were? I wouldn't have posted this. (Duh.)



I don't agree with this at all. Maybe I'm reading it wrong? (I do that sometimes.)
I mean if you are talking about a general meet up between 2 people for the sole purpose of *just* having a tickling session? Ok. Yeah. I get that. But ... we were going on a trip together. Just so happens we are both tickle freaks. Just so happens tickling happened.

I'm all about talking hard limits & making sure everyone is on the same page.

I don't like being lumped into this expectation that because I am a TMF girl and I have this fetish I should have known better or I should have given him ... uhm ... relief (for lack of a better word.) That's a big stinkin' load of BS & just plain rude to say. I'm not expected to do anything except what I feel comfortable with ... sorry if he got turned on but it's not my obligation as a TMF girl to take care of that with my hand or my fucking foot.





THIS. A million times.



No. THIS IS NOT THE CASE WE ARE TALKING ABOUT HERE. At all. Not even... wow. Just not even close. Try again.

This is what happened:
c7 visits Aimee.
c7 and Aimee are friends.
c7 and Aimee go on a vanilla road trip together (as friends).
c7 knows Aimee's past (part of reason he's visiting ... she's been going through a tough time).
c7 and Aimee both have a tickling fetish.
c7 and Aimee play. Multiple times. c7 is respectful. So is Aimee. We laugh about his pain because we (as friends) can do so.
THE END.

This is not a case of c7 having a crush on me & me just wanting to be friends & leading him on with my tickling fetish. Not.Even.Close.

I can't believe how much you guys are reading into this.
I get answering the original question: Have you ever given a guy blue balls during a tickling session? & then expanding on your own experience... but to completely go out of context on a silly post & try to say shit that does not make sense and judging the situation without even ASKING c7 or I (hey...we are both on the forum...we can reply! Can you believe it???) is childish at best. Stop assuming! ASK. Jeesh. Didn't yo mama teach you respect?

Your post turned me on.

When do I get my old-fashioned, TMF Girl?!

 

[jetergirl5]

Why do you play with them that way if you know it's sexual to them and you're not sexually attracted to them? Would be a total no-go for me.

It was consensual between us that there is no sexual play. I am totally fine with having a platonic play session because its all about the tickling. My platonic play partners are ok with it or I guess they wouldnt play with me. 🙂 None of my platonic play partners has ever express any issues with the lack of sexual play during our sessions so I am assuming they are ok with it. 🙂

 

[jetergirl5]

For a lot of us tickling is only a turn on in certain circumstances. But we can still have fun playing with friends we've made in the community. Doesn't always have to be sexual. Imagine that!

Again, you hit the nail on the head, at least for me!!! Thanks Annie!!!

 

[nosforatiop]

Ahhh blue balls, a most unkind mistress. Just gotta look up ol' Rosie when that happens 🙂. Frustrating I know, but better then not having a tickle session at all.