have you ever "scripted" your own tickling?

[TicklingIsLife]

Have you ever told the 'ler(s) where and how to tickle you? Even as detailed as the tickling technique you want them to use on you?

If you knew that your feet were first and then your sides, and so on, would it be the same as if you didn't know what the 'lers were going to do? Would it make it worse that you knew what was next or would you be able to prepare yourself beforehand and so it wouldn't be as bad?

 

[rhiannon]

Uh, hell no! I would never ever do that, would turn me off to no end! Part of the fun in being a lee is to give over control to the ler, and if I told him what to do, I would be the one in control!

Knowing what the ler does doesn't change a thing though. Often enough I get told "How about I go for your feet now" or stuff like that...doesn't make a difference.

 

[TicklingIsLife]

Uh, hell no! I would never ever do that, would turn me off to no end! Part of the fun in being a lee is to give over control to the ler, and if I told him what to do, I would be the one in control!

Knowing what the ler does doesn't change a thing though. Often enough I get told "How about I go for your feet now" or stuff like that...doesn't make a difference.

What if it was a first time 'ler. What if you're tied up and they only tickle you for a couple seconds...they don't get the whole tied up tickling thing.
Some direction might be needed 😛

 

[rhiannon]

That wouldn't happen! 🙂 If I meet with someone for tickling, I make sure the guy knows what the hell he's doing! 🙂

 

[TicklingIsLife]

I actually got the idea for this thread when I began writing a story.

I mean, if you wrote a story or just think of your favorite fantasy scenario with your dream 'ler, and you had the chance for that to come true, would it still be the same even though you know what's going to happen and all?

 

[rhiannon]

Well, I am writing tickling stories, also together with my ler, and parts of it have happened. Still, you never know when comes what...it's not like you really can act that out exactly.

 

[Lord Doctor]

The script would be simple. Start, don't stop!

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

No way. There are so many things that would prevent me from ever doing that.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

I'll let lers know to lighten their touch and stuff like that. But, that's more to avoid the pain of the heavier "digging" touches that don't work on me. I have no problem giving new (to me) lers some hints on what does and doesn't work. But, I do like to be surprised a bit by how and where then get me.

 

[sasaxrah]

Sometimes I'll smile and say "nope!" if my ler is trying a particular area that doesn't work. But no, I don't tend to give instructions.

 

[chicago]

I would never tell my boyfriend where to tickle me, or even to tickle me. The element of surprise is lost, as is the element of submission / dominance if I'm ordering him around. The whole idea seems retarded.

 

[Tiger.Lily]

I had a session with my ex-boyfriend last week and I told him one spot specifically that he didn't know about. But other than that, no.

 

[tickleesub(m)]

Personally, I'm one of those people who likes to talk about the tickling before I get it, so I enjoy sharing secret spots or particular techniques that work best. However, that always happens before the session itself begins.

 

[TempstofLaughtr]

take it as it happens kind of gal.

why is it RANDOM people (i just met) think they can tickle me whenever!?!? ahhhh
...and he got my worst spot

I must have a sign on my forehead that screams "I'M TICKLISH TICKLE ME."?!?
Obviously everyone else sees it but me. HUMF

so what did i do I slapped him. haha (in a non-flirting way)

 

[TicklingIsLife]

Personally, I'm one of those people who likes to talk about the tickling before I get it, so I enjoy sharing secret spots or particular techniques that work best. However, that always happens before the session itself begins.

I'm not asking during the tickling...hopefully you'll be laughing too much to do that

 

[milagros317]

Yes, sometimes I've written a detailed script and given to MZ. She improvises around it anyway, instead of following it exactly. 😀

 

[Onlyfornow]

I'll let lers know to lighten their touch and stuff like that. But, that's more to avoid the pain of the heavier "digging" touches that don't work on me. I have no problem giving new (to me) lers some hints on what does and doesn't work. But, I do like to be surprised a bit by how and where then get me.

This is pretty much me and the way I do it. ^_^

 

[Hiphophooray2]

Have you ever told the 'ler(s) where and how to tickle you? Even as detailed as the tickling technique you want them to use on you?

If you knew that your feet were first and then your sides, and so on, would it be the same as if you didn't know what the 'lers were going to do? Would it make it worse that you knew what was next or would you be able to prepare yourself beforehand and so it wouldn't be as bad?

Hell I've seen videos where this happens all the time