having any fetish gets creepier as one gets older?

[SadCuzNotTcklsh]

I should have put in "...for men" in the thread title.
Think about it.
The reaction of someone if a 20 year old guy saying they have a tickling fetish -- 'Oh thats cute.'
A guy saying that who is 45 -- 'Ew, gross'.
Of course anything kinky women is almost always seen as "hot".

Just a thought, er my two cents. Whatever.

 

[SoleSearcher]

That's exactly why I hate the word FETISH in general. No matter what it is, the word fetish seems to be a "creepo" label (for guys, at least). I dunno...just what I've always had the impression of?

 

[Lord Doctor]

I wouldn't say that. Apply to 98 year old woman. Still think it's hot?
We're globally rather backwards when it comes to age restrictions outside of the obvious legal ones (which are there to protect the emotionally undeveloped and therefore vunerable - insert deep philosophical and moral reasons, just covering my back here and making myself crystal clear).

We see age as a sort of disease, for the reason that with age, eventually comes death.

However, Hue Heffner (how the hell do you spell that?), although he does not have a fetish that I know of, seems to have caused not so much grief for knocking off 20 year old gals as one might have expected.

Fetishes are always taboo because it's an "alarming" way to light the candle, and is not done by the many, although everyone does something to excess.

 

[BlueSteel]

ok, ANYTHING concerning a 98 year old woman would be alarming. i kindve agree with sad up there about the age thing, but at the same time it depends on who youre talking to. talk to someone open minded about it youll get a good response and vice versa, regardless to ago.

 

[rhiannon]

This doesn't have ANYTHING to do with age. It depends on how the person who has the fetish deals with it. A guy who is charming, attractive, confident and knows how to treat others is never creepy, it doesn't matter how old he is.

If a guy is creepy, he is creepy in every age. Sometimes ESPECIALLY when he's younger and doesn't know how to act best around women.

 

[Sandisk444]

That's exactly why I hate the word FETISH in general. No matter what it is, the word fetish seems to be a "creepo" label (for guys, at least). I dunno...just what I've always had the impression of?

also why it's harder for guys to come out with it than women...

 

[Ticklerbc]

Age does not matter. It is all about attitude. My wife (the ticklish lee) and I get the discounts at McDonalds and the movies. We still love the tickling scene and enjoy others with it. I hope I never lose it. I want to go out with a pretty bare foot in my lap with red painted toes --- just like my lee's. (You can see them on the TMF albums or my profile).
Ticklerbc

 

[Comfort Eagle]

Nobody wants to hear about an old mans sex life. That's why.

 

[TropicThunder]

This doesn't have ANYTHING to do with age. It depends on how the person who has the fetish deals with it. A guy who is charming, attractive, confident and knows how to treat others is never creepy, it doesn't matter how old he is.

If a guy is creepy, he is creepy in every age. Sometimes ESPECIALLY when he's younger and doesn't know how to act best around women.

This says it best.

 

[rhiannon]

Nobody wants to hear about an old mans sex life. That's why.

Old women might!

 

[Comfort Eagle]

Old women might!

Old women want fresh meat.

 

[milagros317]

I don't think it has anything to do with age. An interest (or fetish if you prefer to call it that) can be creepy in a 20-year-old or it can be natural and harmless in an 80-year-old. 😀

 

[kered]

When did 45 get to be old?

 

[rhiannon]

Old women want fresh meat

Not applicable to everybody. 🙂 I didn't even want "fresh meat" when I was all fresh myself! 🙂

When did 45 get to be old?

When you're 20. 😉

 

[Helena]

In spite of what you might have heard, loving tickling does not end when one hits a certain birthday. Sexual desire does not have an expiration date.

 

[unclebill]

In my day, we didn`t have all these fancy schmancy tickling forums. We would wack off to old pin up pictures of Marilyn Monroe and Betty Grable. Afterwords, we would go to the malt shop and drink strawberry milkshakes before returning home to watch The Ed Sullivan Show on our black and white TV. Thats the way it was, and we liked it.

 

[kered]

In my day, we didn`t have all these fancy schmancy tickling forums. We would wack off to old pin up pictures of Marilyn Monroe and Betty Grable. Afterwords, we would go to the malt shop and drink strawberry milkshakes before returning home to watch The Ed Sullivan Show on our black and white TV. Thats the way it was, and we liked it.

Mom would let me go to the Avon Movie Theater by myself with 50 cents. A quarter to get in, the Coke was 15 cents and popcorn was a dime.Two cartoons and a monster movie then the scary walk home in the dark.


I had a blast!

 

[unclebill]

Mom would let me go to the Avon Movie Theater by myself with 50 cents. A quarter to get in, the Coke was 15 cents and popcorn was a dime.Two cartoons and a monster movie then the scary walk home in the dark.


I had a blast!

And you still enjoy tickling young women???

 

[TropicThunder]

When did 45 get to be old?

In my opinion, 45 isn't old these days.

40 = new 20

thus

45 = 25

You've got a ways to go before you're old, but remember YOU'RE ONLY AS OLD AS YOU FEEL.

 

[kered]

And you still enjoy tickling young women???

Oh, here and there. I also took a little nap with my head in the lap of a young lovely Canadian girl. It's ok to be jealous, Uncle Bill.

In my opinion, 45 isn't old these days.

40 = new 20

thus

45 = 25

You've got a ways to go before you're old, but remember YOU'RE ONLY AS OLD AS YOU FEEL.

Exactly.

 

[hiram]

What if the ticke fetish helps keep you young? Like TicklerBC, we're in that 'discount tier.'

I have often wondered if there is anything in the world more fun and interesting and satisfying than getting to know a woman better than she knows herself.

I've been pretty much a monogamous tickler all of my adult life. It says right here being a polygamous tickler could be downright dangerous if your wife is the jealous type and knows you have a tickle fetish. As I still value my life and my salient parts and need to sleep at least a little every day, I think I'll stick to being a monogamous tickler.

The thing of it is is my wife knows about my tickle fetish. She knows a bunch of things about me that are deep down personal and doesn't belittle me because of them or hold them against me. I like to think she would worry or be disappointed if I lost my desire to tickle.

I certainly hope it isn't creepy or she doesn't think it's creepy. In any event, there isn't anything I can do about it except enjoy it. And it helps keep me young. I suppose it boils down to that age old question that has been asked a thousand times on so many of these tickle fora: Would you forgo your tickle fetish if you could. I sure have had fun with mine and don't ever want it to go away.

Since only my wife knows about it, it doesn't create any difficulty and does keep our world filled with laughter.

 

[AmandaBear]

When did 45 get to be old?

Dirk, you are forever young, my man.

 

[mb7700]

I think that the terms "fetish" and "creepy" are both in the eyes of the beholder!

 

[c7_assassin]

Mom would let me go to the Avon Movie Theater by myself with 50 cents. A quarter to get in, the Coke was 15 cents and popcorn was a dime.Two cartoons and a monster movie then the scary walk home in the dark.


I had a blast!

I can't believe you people made it to the moon...

 

[kis123]

Old women want fresh meat.

And who are you speaking for because the last thing this old girl wants is a younger guy.

The youngest guy I dated is four years younger than me; he might as well have been 20 years with his level of maturity. Don't see myself doing that again for a long time.

I've always liked and have gotten along well with older men; my ex husband was 15 years older than me and the gentleman I'm seeing now is 16 years older. Nothing wrong with older women dating younger guys, but I haven't found that connection yet.

Older men with youthful attitudes are hott and I'm definitely interested in hearing about their sex lives especially if they're kinky. Besides, one day you'll get older and I'm sure you're going to want someone interested in hearing and discovering your level of sexual experience.