Having my feet tickled and worshipped by a guy

[DontAskJusTckle]

I'm sure most would agree that an uninvited dick in the mouth is different from an uninvited tickle from another dude. I sure don't see anybody saying otherwise. What they are saying is that one sexual act between two would-be straight guys is as clear an indicator of bisexuality as the other, whether it's toe-sucking foot worship or cock-sucking oral sex.

Secondly you acknowledge that foot worship and toe sucking between a couple of guys is clearly erotic behavior, yet you poo poo the notion that such behavior is an indication of bisexuality.

Finally, I keep hearing from those of a differing opinion that expressing the foot-worship-is-bisexual opinion here at the TMF is especially inappropriate, as though there's some unwritten code among tickling enthusiasts that supposedly precludes expressing such an opinion.

I really marvel at the expectations of conformity.

 

[stockytickler]

There are a couple levels of discomfort -- the potential for getting turned on by the tickling/toe-sucking/whatever and the concept of acting on that.

Tickling is erotic and pleasureable for those of us with a tickle fetish, but all of us have different components to that experience. It's not just, "Someone tickles me, I get turned on."

A lee can enjoy being tickled and not be attracted to the ler, in which case nothing is going to happen. The ler could in fact be gay, which doesn't affect the lee's attraction one bit, regardless of whether the experience of being tickled turns him on. (He can always deal with that part of the issue when he's alone.)

There's all sorts of ways that having a guy lick, suck and tickle another guy's feet wouldn't, in and of itself, be a turn-on sexually for either the ler or the lee. And if it is, so what? Everyone's so scared of not being "normal," they don't realize it's not exactly a requirement.

You have a good time, he has a good time, awesome. Someone doesn't have a good time, chalk it up to experience and don't do it again! So long as it's all between consenting adults, no one's done anything wrong. All the best 🙂

 

[rhiannon]

This is the type of "special" bisexual I was talking about. It's an opinion not isolated to just rhiannon, or this thread. It pops up a fair bit. Usually from men, though. But to put it bluntly, there is quite a difference between a stranger tickling you, and trying to put his penis in your mouth!

You have it the wrong way around! If he gets turned on by being tickled, having his dick sucked by a guy is on the same sheet of music. Not being forced to suck dick of course, that would be completely different. But we're talking about having something done to someone that does cause sexual pleasure. Why is it different if it's toe or dick sucking? It's an action to cause sexual pleasure.

For me it does matter who my partner is, and if I wanted to do stuff that sexually arouses me with girls and guys, I would consider myself bisexual.

 

[rhiannon]

I'm sure most would agree that an uninvited dick in the mouth is different from an uninvited tickle from another dude. I sure don't see anybody saying otherwise. What they are saying is that one sexual act between two would-be straight guys is as clear an indicator of bisexuality as the other, whether it's toe-sucking foot worship or cock-sucking oral sex.

Secondly you acknowledge that foot worship and toe sucking between a couple of guys is clearly erotic behavior, yet you poo poo the notion that such behavior is an indication of bisexuality.

Finally, I keep hearing from those of a differing opinion that expressing the foot-worship-is-bisexual opinion here at the TMF is especially inappropriate, as though there's some unwritten code among tickling enthusiasts that supposedly precludes expressing such an opinion.

I really marvel at the expectations of conformity.

I don't agree with you very often, but this is exactly what I am trying to say. I should have read before posting again, would have saved me time. 🙂

 

[atitudeadjuster]

There's no need to put yourself in other people's boxes.

Bi, straight, gay, why not drop the labels for a moment and see what happens.

 

[rhiannon]

Bi, straight, gay, why not drop the labels for a moment and see what happens.

Or why being so worried you might not be totally straight? What's the big deal about it?

 

[Phineas]

There's no need to put yourself in other people's boxes.

I can think of a few people's boxes I'd like to put myself into. Heyo!

And on an unrelated note, "Uninvited Dick in the Mouth" is the name of my Queen cover band.

 

[stockytickler]

:applause:

 

[kis123]

I'm getting lost in the arguments here.

So someone wants to experiment tickling with a same sex partner but presently is straight. Am I right so far?

Okay, based if that assumption is correct, what seems to be the problem? Go on and do the damn thing already and find out something new about yourself. Maybe you are straight with a few bi tendencies. Maybe you're straight and just want to know what it's like to be with another man on a certain level. It doesn't mean you're going to want to screw him nor does it mean that you don't. You won't know ANYTHING until you try it out and whatever the outcome is, deal with it and keep it moving.

Maybe you are bi. Maybe you are only bi when it comes to having your feet tickled/worshipped. Maybe, maybe, maybe.....whatever it is, you'll only be able to assess AFTER you're tried it.

Right now it's just a curiosity about tickling experience; if it turns you on, then it's an experience in your sexuality. Whatever it is, it's yours to have and judge, all opinions (including mine) aside.

And I'm not sure where the mindset of foot worshipping and toe sucking goes to erotic/sexual. Not everyone is turned on by this act; to be exact, the only thing it does for me is tickle....no turn on at all! Now a certain touch to my feet will send me there, but the licking and sucking thing...not so much. In other words, what turns on one might not do a thing for the other.

Just sayin'..........

 

[TMJ Productions]

Well said Kis! It's all about exploration and discovery!

 

[arcstudent]

I'm a straight guy but when it comes to tickling, I'd rather have a guy that's a decorated tickle veteran over a girl who doesn't know what she is doing.

 

[arcstudent]

^lolz

 

[maniactickler]

Or why being so worried you might not be totally straight? What's the big deal about it?

Exactly! embrace your bi sexuality!

 

[luvgr8bigfeet]

if you're digging the idea of him sucking your toes, that definitely crosses the line over into homo-erotic behavior. He might as well be sucking your tongue or your dick at that point.

Not necessarily. Some guys just have the inner urges to dominate over another male, or be dominated by another male. Like an alpha male/sub male, but many times in a "power" way, not a "sexual" way.

Tickling is erotic and pleasureable for those of us with a tickle fetish, but all of us have different components to that experience. It's not just, "Someone tickles me, I get turned on."

A lee can enjoy being tickled and not be attracted to the ler, in which case nothing is going to happen. The ler could in fact be gay, which doesn't affect the lee's attraction one bit, regardless of whether the experience of being tickled turns him on. (He can always deal with that part of the issue when he's alone.)

There's all sorts of ways that having a guy lick, suck and tickle another guy's feet wouldn't, in and of itself, be a turn-on sexually for either the ler or the lee. And if it is, so what? Everyone's so scared of not being "normal," they don't realize it's not exactly a requirement.

Exactly.

And I'm not sure where the mindset of foot worshipping and toe sucking goes to erotic/sexual. Not everyone is turned on by this act; to be exact, the only thing it does for me is tickle....no turn on at all! Now a certain touch to my feet will send me there, but the licking and sucking thing...not so much. In other words, what turns on one might not do a thing for the other.

Again, exactly.

 

[kis123]

Well said Kis! It's all about exploration and discovery!

Thanks! This old hen has a bit of life experience that I hope to share and let the youngins glean from.

This post caught my eye........

Not necessarily. Some guys just have the inner urges to dominate over another male, or be dominated by another male. Like an alpha male/sub male, but many times in a "power" way, not a "sexual" way.

Hadn't thought of it in such a way but it makes sense........

This one came from my conservative friend maniactickler..

Exactly! embrace your bi sexuality!

He might be onto something...

At the end of the day, as I said before, just do the damned thing already and if you want to tell us how it went....great. But you won't know until you give it a try.........right??

 

[atitudeadjuster]

I think he already did:

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?228958-First-experience-being-tickled-by-a-guy

Looks like he enjoyed it too!

 

[kis123]

I think he already did:

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?228958-First-experience-being-tickled-by-a-guy

Looks like he enjoyed it too!

Looks like it is what it is.....

I hope he had a really good time.......

 

[kis123]

I think he might be still embarrassed that he had a good time with another man.....

He needs to get over that and move on.....

 

[luvgr8bigfeet]

I think he might be still embarrassed that he had a good time with another man.....

He needs to get over that and move on.....

It's all because of the idiotic isolated attitudes about "masculinity" that our society has for some reason cultivated all these decades...*sigh*...

 

[voided9]

It's all because of the idiotic isolated attitudes about "masculinity" that our society has for some reason cultivated all these decades...*sigh*...

Pretty much. People should just do what makes them happy - who cares if you're bi? Why does your sexuality need a label? It's just another thing to worry about...doesn't need to be.

 

[luvgr8bigfeet]

Pretty much. People should just do what makes them happy - who cares if you're bi? Why does your sexuality need a label? It's just another thing to worry about...doesn't need to be.

Exactly. We need to free ourselves of that stupid mold of "western male machismo". The internet is at least helping str8 guys explore things more they may not have dared to before. Among the internet feet community, more and more men are "coming out of the shoebox" who consider themselves str8, but they "toe"tally love other men's feet (pardon the pun, lol). Some gay feet guys argue then that they can't be "str8", but label-fighting aside, just enjoy; if you get horny over women and only wanna have sex with women, but find yourself for whatever reason attracted to other guys' feet, just enjoy the variety within yourself.

 

[kis123]

It's all because of the idiotic isolated attitudes about "masculinity" that our society has for some reason cultivated all these decades...*sigh*...

Well from my generation and backwards, all the attitudes about sexuality went one way in the public and another way in the private. We weren't really allowed to be free and some of us never really explored or embraced our sexuality until much older.

One thing I really like about the younger set is that they know who they are sexually and they know what they like because they weren't afraid to try new experiences. I think that's awesome and I'm glad they're just diving in and going for it.

Now I'm not into too many fetishes but as long as they don't harm or injure self or others, it ain't none of anyone's business what turns someone on.....