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Hello and a few questions!

ticklishlucy

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Hi everyone!
My name is Lucy and I am new to this forum. :wavingguy Being open about my interest in tickling is a relatively new thing for me, however I am comfortable my life and who I am in general, so I figure, why be ashamed of it? Haha, but in all honesty, although I have started to let my tickling hang-ups go, the only person I have ever talk about it with is a friend who shares the same interest and often tickles me.
I have some tickling questions to pose to you all in regards to my “situation”:
In general, I would say that I am mostly ticklish under a lighter touch (Anything too rough is more painful than anything else...) but although it might take a minute or so for someone to “ break” me, with a tiny bit of patience, a tickler will have me going crazy in no time.
My problem is... my friend who shares my interest in tickling really doesn’t seem to believe me when I try to explain this fact. This could be partially ( or mostly) my fault because I usually bring it up in the midst of a tickle fight, where he is using somewhat aggressive “wrestling” tactics to pin me , while employing some forceful pinching, grabbing, digging, or otherwise frenzied tickling techniques. During these times I usually laugh a lot, because I am playful and I DO find that kind of interaction pretty fun( but NOT, NOT, NOT ticklish). I also find myself pleading and begging for him to stop , but mostly because I’m in pain( well, I guess more of a playful discomfort rather than legit “pain” and I’m not saying it bothers me that much, BUT.....) When attempting to address this issue, I might say “ hey, you know, I think that if you tried to tickle me softer it might work better” and raise my arms up to encourage him to give it a try, or something of that nature. But because I don’t squirm around like crazy right away or scream with laughter and beg upon contact he thinks I’m just trying to catch some sort of break.
I am hesitant to approach it any other way because I don’t want to hurt his feelings or anything like that. I have tried to improve the situation by wearing more/heavier clothing in order to ease the sensation ...which works to some extent but...I feel it could be so much more satisfying for both of us if I could just find a way to make it clear without making any awkward situations. Any advice on how to bring it up? Are there any other people out there who find that they are really only ticklish under a lighter touch?
PART 2 in this situation is as follows:
My tickler also has a foot fetish. My feet are not incredibly ticklish, but I find that they are more ticklish when they are covered in some way ( socks/nylons etc....) I know he likes tickling my bare feet and I am reluctant to broach the subject with him. I was thinking of just wearing an outfit that I would normally wear nylons with next time we hang out...however....I was wondering if anyone, especially those with a foot fetish, could tell me if they find, or know of people who find “nyloned” feet significantly less attractive than bare ones? OR unattractive?.... I don’t know, I mean, I would imagine that some sheer stockings would not make that much of a difference, but ....well...thought I’d check....

The reason I bring this all up here, rather than speaking to my friend directly, is that , as I mentioned before, being open about my tickling interest is something that is new to me, and I find talking openly about it pretty difficult, even with someone who I know shares the same love for tickling.

SORRY IF THIS POST WAS WAY TO LONG!!!! haha, I am not familiar with protocol.

Thanks in advance for any insight on this situation and I’m glad to be here!!!

-- Lucy :smilestar
 
Hi Lucy,

Welcome to the forum. I'm Mitch. In regard to your questions.

First, I've heard many people on the forum say that they are much more ticklish with a lighter touch. I've read many posts where lees will say that if tickled too hard, the tickling wont be as intense for them.

Second, I am a foot tickler. Foot ticklers on forum have a variety of preferences. Some only enjoy tickling girls in stockings, while others only prefer bare foot tickles. For myself, I most enjoy tickling a girl who is barefoot. I dont find stockings a turn on to tickle a girl in. That being said, I've spoken to girl lees who have told me that, for some reason, being tickled in their stocking feet is much more intense for them, and they enjoy it more, than bare foot tickles. Some girls also find that being tickled in stockings is more tolerable than being tickled barefoot, as far as the sensation. It really depends on the lee.
I hope what I said answered your question at least to a degree. I'm sure you will get a variety of feedback about your situation. If you would like to discuss this further with me, please feel free to private message me at any time, and we can discuss it.

Good Luck, and enjoy the forum.

Mitch
 
Welcome, I hope you enjoy yourself here.

hmmmm I think softer tickling is a better way to go. The rough stuff seems kinda fake to me a lot sometimes.

Some guys find stocking tickling more alluring as it can make the sole more ticklish than normal. I think stocking feet are attractive anyway.
 
Thanks a lot to both of you for your welcomes and insight. It seems like personal preference varies greatly on a case by case basis. I guess i just have to bring it up to my friend and I'm sure we can work out something.

Thanks again!
--Lucy
 
Welcome!

Welcome to the TMF,Lucy! This is a wonderful place that I`m sure you will love!

Do you ever get a chance to tickle him? That is,outside the context of a tickle fight?Perhaps you could suggest he submit to a tickling from you,and you could show him first hand how devastating a light touch can be! I`ll bet he`d get the point then! :firedevil 😛

Good luck!
 
Hi, welcome Lucy.

Why don't you just tell him that he's being a bit too rough sometimes and give him a feather or something similar that CAN'T be used roughly. Find something that REALLY makes you react

As for the nylon'd feet; its a compromise you need. Sometimes wear nylons, and ask for them to be kept on, sometimes he can tickle your bare feet. He might find that he prefers them to be kept on if your reactions are better.

You can always pm me if you want to talk privately or anything.
 
My Advice To You

Lucy,
Welcome to our little space in the world.

Ok, I must ask you a question . . .
Is bondage included at all while you are being tickled?

Being a bare foot tickler, I've encountered quite a few women with your type of situation.

I've tried these things that have worked about 75 - 85% of the time.
1) Have him give you a foot massage for a little while.
2) Use baby oil or lotion on them.
3) Then use baby powder to dry them.
4) Massage again for 1 or 2 minutes.
5) THEN he can gently slide his fingertips up & down your ultra soft soles.

This will wake up the nerve endings.
I've discovered that it can work immediately or after a few moments.
He must be patient.

Have him try this & see if it works.
It might. It might not. But at least you tried.
 
Welcome Lucy and I am New to the Forum too. You have a Nice Discussion going here about tickling nylon feet or tickling bare feet. My theory is to Make the Person being tickled enjoy the tickling.
 
Welcome, Lucy, and happy birthday on Wednesday!

Welcome to the TMF, Lucy. Here's wishing you a :redheart: HAPPY BIRTHDAY :redheart: on Wednesday, March 21st!

As for your questions, it sounds as though your friend and you have a communication problem. Tickling is a form of communication, as is all touching.

Have you shown him this web site? Why not point out your post? Seeing your words in writing may help your message sink in.
 
welcome to the forum..good luck with that question..feel free to pm me anytime...i find that at times, my feet are just as ticklish when covered by something as when they are bare....and never worry about the length of a post...i found it very impressive...enjoy 🙂
 
Welcome to the TMF Lucy. My anniversary is next month. I've met a lot of good people here.... 95% of them are good.

Feel free to pm me anytime you need to talk.
 
THANKS AGIAN EVERYONE FOR THE WARM WELCOMES!

you have all given me some really great suggestions! I'm definatly going to have to utilize them the next time my friend and i see eachother. I have a feeling they will help me get my point across.... well...we'll see....

Thanks Again!
-- Lucy :fish:
 


Welcome to the TMF! It's a pleasure to have you among our ranks!
 
Welcome Lucy,i'm sure you will enjoy the TMF 😀
 
Hey lucy and welcome.

I have a foot fetish too and my personal opinion is that bare feet are best for me but i think you introduce the nylons for him and see if ur feet become more ticklish with them on and if they do then he might take a liking to that.

Or another way of tickling thats more soft, maybe he cld do some lickling or suck ur toes to tickle them or maybe even lightly nibble them that could make it more interesting and it could tickle more.

Hope if been of some help and again welcome hope you have a great time here!
 
Hello Lucy,

Welcome to the TMF, and your first post was fine. Never a problem here with length. I see many members have already gotten to your questions, so I'll simply wish you well here.

Myriads
 
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