Help with a new girl!

[hockeygolf13]

I am currently talking to this girl and I told her about the foot thing cause she asked what turned me on and she isn't too thrilled with the thought of me touching her feet. She said in part cause she was ticklish and cause she doesn't think she would like that kind of stuff. What should I do to make her enjoy it or at least for the time being make her believe it is fun and rewarding?

 

[GEORGIATKLER]

You could offer her a foot massage with no tickles to see if she can "enjoy" that. She of course may decline the trial offer. You have been open with her about what you like, she has done the same with you about her dislikes. There is no magic pill to make her like tickling. Respect her wishes and I hope there are more common points of interest between you. Good luck to you both.

 

[rhiannon]

she doesn't think she would like that kind of stuff

Sounds like she hasn't tried it. Ask her if she would be willing to try and see. Maybe she's surprised about how much she likes it.

 

[Speedbump]

Sounds like she hasn't tried it. Ask her if she would be willing to try and see. Maybe she's surprised about how much she likes it.

It's funny, I half expected you to respond with a "she obviously doesn't like it, so don't force it on her" and make the OP out to be a bad guy for trying.

But your actual response is probably the case, yes.

 

[Mane'o]

best to ease into this with her. find out what she thinks is fun and rewarding and indulge her in that to the extent that you can - you may find that what she thinks is fun is a turn-off to you just as she may feel that way about tickling. meet her half-way if you are interested in her. and ask yourself, are you interested in this person or are you interested in tickling a girl. if the latter, then might consider moving on now. if the former, learn about her desires as you share yours.

 

[hockeygolf13]

Thanks guys she said she is willing to try the foot stuff so we will see what happens.

 

[FLBowler]

that's all you can ask for, i dated a girl the same way and she ended up developing a foot fetish after it and loved it so much

 

[Angel_2]

offer to rub her feet but if she doesn't go for it, respect her wishes and let it go

 

[maniactickler]

If she has issues with you tickling her, just use the old tried and true method that never lets you down.......chloroform!

 

[hockeygolf13]

See if she will try it, and does she know you like tickling as well? She already told you she doesnt like being tickled... anyways, you can see if she will try it and if she dont like it you can either accept that (it will NEVER change) or move on.

She does not know about it. It's one of those things for me that I find better off talking about a little later. It is something that I can figure out if she really hates it or doesn't mind it by doing the foot stuff.

 

[jameseclipse]

Hockey I experienced something similar. my girl did not showed her feet in public or to anybody. I had to wait sometime before she felt comfortable showing me, then touching them, and then tickling them. Of course the first thing that attracted me to her was her as a person. I wasn't just trying to get to her feet (I'm not saying you are, don't want anybody hating.) Her feet came second. That's why I sacrificed time and eventually paid off. The key is little by little and do not pressure her. Now she is really confident and shows her feet. I can pretty much do anything with them. She obviously found out her feet turn me on. Believe me if somebody would have said to me in the past, she let me play with her feet, I would tell them they were crazy. Of course there are a lot of details how I got it here, but it paid off

 

[gentlefeather007]

Let us know how it goes and what you did or didn't do so we can learn from your experiences.

Thanks for posting.

 

[roxita]

I think a foot massage is a good start. Make her feel comfortable with her own feet, before you try to do some tickling. 🙂