Here goes nothing...

[YouDontKnowMe]

So my boyfriend and I are about to mess around. He is going to tie me up. When I first told him about my tickling idea he said he would remember that next time I was tied up. So tonight might be my first experience with being tied and tickled. We'll see if he actually does it.

Hopefully its fun! =0) I will come back on with details! =)

 

[TicklishLayla]

Yay, details! Good luck, hun, you're mah hero! I don't think I'd have the guts to tell my boyfriend (if I had one) about my tickling fetish...

 

[chrisheaven]

hope you have lots of fun

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

I think this may be the start of a beautiful friendship.

 

[kis123]

Yay, details! Good luck, hun, you're mah hero! I don't think I'd have the guts to tell my boyfriend (if I had one) about my tickling fetish...

I'm with you on this one my "sista'". I am starting to suspect that my fella is starting to figure it out for himself. I have no idea how he could do that!

Oh, have fun with your boyfriend toninght youdon't know me-hat's off for your honesty and I hope it pays off in ticklish spades.

 

[Mimi]

Woo Hoo! Here's hoping he let loose on you with tickling fury!

Mimi 😀

 

[milagros317]

I hope it is a great experience for you, YDKM. 😀

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Good luck with that and I hope you gives you a lot of tickles!

 

[YouDontKnowMe]

Nothing. Just the usual sex...I was going to say something but I chickened out.

 

[Redmage]

Nothing. Just the usual sex...I was going to say something but I chickened out.

Why did you need to say anything, YDKM? I thought from you original post that he'd already decided to tie you, and that he'd said he'd tickle you. Did he forget?

 

[nowayjose]

Yay, details! Good luck, hun, you're mah hero! I don't think I'd have the guts to tell my boyfriend (if I had one) about my tickling fetish...

Why not? There's nothing really to fear.
Personally, I'm for staking out sexual preferences before really starting a relationship, though. 😉

 

[kis123]

Nothing. Just the usual sex...I was going to say something but I chickened out.

If at first you don't succeed......
try, try again
and again and again!

Don't beat yourself up-you'll have plenty of opportunities in the future!

 

[Mimi]

I'm so sorry. It could be that he feels weird or nervous or uncomfortable taking that first big step since he's not into it and may not know how to approach it or really what to do. Try gently encouraging him next time, if you find your own voice and courage. 🙂

Mimi

 

[dtrell]

you: "now that im tied up id like you to tickle me please"

him: "ok"

am i missing something here? seems pretty straightforward to me.

 

[SilverSurfer]

Keep trying! It'll happen when it happens...

Keep trying, girl!

It'll happen when it happens.

 

[YouDontKnowMe]

Okay...

So we went to The Todd and bought the right bondage needed (cuffs). Lets try this again...

Im a pussy so I probably won't say anything if he doesnt do it. I dont think he knows what to do.

 

[Redmage]

Im a pussy so I probably won't say anything if he doesnt do it. I dont think he knows what to do.

Here's a suggestion to get yourself tickled without having to say anything.

Write him a note. Seal it in an envelope, and tape it to the head of the bed with his name on it, and a note saying "Do not open until you get me tied up." Inside, tell him exactly what you hope he'll do to you.

 

[YouDontKnowMe]

Here's a suggestion to get yourself tickled without having to say anything.

Write him a note. Seal it in an envelope, and tape it to the head of the bed with his name on it, and a note saying "Do not open until you get me tied up." Inside, tell him exactly what you hope he'll do to you.

Wow, thats awesome. I never thought of that.

He didnt do it this time AGAIN. But THIS time I actually said something after we were done having sex.

ME: So are we never gonna do my thing
Him: You mean tickling?
Me: Yeah
Him: No we will sometime.

Then he wanted me to do this certain thing that he sees in porn but that I hate doing (giving him head after he has been in me) and I said...

ME: Nope. You don't deserve it.
Him: Why? Because of the tickling?
Me: Yep. You do my thing then I'll do your thing.

We'll see what happens tomorrow night.

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Very well played. Most of us guys lose to the argument of "if you want this then do this."