My new plan?
Hi Ann-
I have to say that it has taken a long time to get Alex "in the ropes" so to speak, and I have yet to get him completely tied up again....but I've had some small succcesses, and I have a new plan as well.
If your plan is to trick him, then you'll just have to live with the fact that he'll probably be really angry and you may never get to do it again...and that's something that no one wants. Basically, you hope that he would embrace being helpless and tickled. Offering to let him have a go at you seems to work best (and I happen to love it anyway, so it's no problem here!), but slowly initiating the idea has been working for me.
You have to understand, I'm starting from the point where Alex didn't even like to hang around barefoot in the apartment...or wear any shoes or tevas without socks. He basically was very uncomfortable to have anyone pay attention to his feet, socks or barefoot. Little by little he's felt better with me rubbing his feet (he gives me foot massages all the time) and what I love is when I can give him a long foot rub...sloooooowly get his socks off...then trace my fingers lightly on his bare soles and watch him smile and giggle as he drifts off to sleep. I love his feet, and others have mentioned here (even some guys) that his feet are attractive so I know it's not just me....when he's been drinking a little, which happens far too infrequently, is my best chance. I just want him to embrace tickling like I do...not just tolerate it from me..but it takes time. Anyway...my new plan...
It's not unusual to find Alex either on the floor, or on the bed reading the paper after work. This is when I LOVE to try and get at his feet because after wearing dress socks all day he'e even MORE sensitive. Well, what I'm going to do is walk by the bed with a full cup of water and some other thing in my other hand, and say something like.. "Oh, honey, hold on to this cup for a sec, I've got to scratch my nose..please...QUICK!" ...or something like that...I want him, just for fun, to cup the water cup between his feet, and once he does, HE'S MINE!
I'll put his laptop or something underneath him...knowing if he jostles the cup he'll spill it all over....then I'm going to lightly drag a feather on his bare feet - the part that remains exposed from gripping the cup! I don't want to be mean, so I still need to work on this idea, but seeing him struggle not to flinch will be so much fun, and I'll try to take some pictures.
-T.
Hi Ann-
I have to say that it has taken a long time to get Alex "in the ropes" so to speak, and I have yet to get him completely tied up again....but I've had some small succcesses, and I have a new plan as well.
If your plan is to trick him, then you'll just have to live with the fact that he'll probably be really angry and you may never get to do it again...and that's something that no one wants. Basically, you hope that he would embrace being helpless and tickled. Offering to let him have a go at you seems to work best (and I happen to love it anyway, so it's no problem here!), but slowly initiating the idea has been working for me.
You have to understand, I'm starting from the point where Alex didn't even like to hang around barefoot in the apartment...or wear any shoes or tevas without socks. He basically was very uncomfortable to have anyone pay attention to his feet, socks or barefoot. Little by little he's felt better with me rubbing his feet (he gives me foot massages all the time) and what I love is when I can give him a long foot rub...sloooooowly get his socks off...then trace my fingers lightly on his bare soles and watch him smile and giggle as he drifts off to sleep. I love his feet, and others have mentioned here (even some guys) that his feet are attractive so I know it's not just me....when he's been drinking a little, which happens far too infrequently, is my best chance. I just want him to embrace tickling like I do...not just tolerate it from me..but it takes time. Anyway...my new plan...
It's not unusual to find Alex either on the floor, or on the bed reading the paper after work. This is when I LOVE to try and get at his feet because after wearing dress socks all day he'e even MORE sensitive. Well, what I'm going to do is walk by the bed with a full cup of water and some other thing in my other hand, and say something like.. "Oh, honey, hold on to this cup for a sec, I've got to scratch my nose..please...QUICK!" ...or something like that...I want him, just for fun, to cup the water cup between his feet, and once he does, HE'S MINE!
I'll put his laptop or something underneath him...knowing if he jostles the cup he'll spill it all over....then I'm going to lightly drag a feather on his bare feet - the part that remains exposed from gripping the cup! I don't want to be mean, so I still need to work on this idea, but seeing him struggle not to flinch will be so much fun, and I'll try to take some pictures.
-T.
