Hiring a pro, good idea?

[tickleguy55]

Hey,

I am contemplating going to a professional dominatrix for a tickle torture session. Has anyone done this before? Is it with the money? Is it legal?

Apologies if this has been addressed in the past!

 

[milagros317]

I have had a lot of good experiences doing this as well as a few bad ones. Some of the good experiences are described in the nonfiction stories in my story archive. For example:

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?30972-The-Provocation-(FF-m)

The legality varies state by state. It is certainly illegal in my home state (New York) if being tickled arouses you sexually. I never worried about that since arresting clients of pro-Dommes has never been a priority of the vice squad here in NYC.

It is legal is some states,

 

[Deleted member 2452]

it depends on where you want to take the session, and the willingness of the domme.
but yeah, i'd do it.

steve

 

[MrTicklefeet]

I've done it. It's great. With Dommes there is no sexual contact, so there shouldn't be legal issues. Then there are some sensual massage therapists that will do it that includes a happy ending if you want to blow your mind afterwards but it could fuck up your sexuality afterwards over time. However, life is short. Laughter is the best medicine, and if you can't get that from your doctor, then by all means hire a pro.
And yes, this has been addressed in the past, but there are forever new people coming in the door here, so it's okay.

 

[MaleTickleeDC]

Then there are some sensual massage therapists that will do it that includes a happy ending if you want to blow your mind afterwards but it could fuck up your sexuality afterwards over time. However, life is short.
And yes, this has been addressed in the past, but there are forever new people coming in the door here, so it's okay.

How would it fuck up your sexuality to engage in tickle play with a hot massage therapist and then have her give you a happy ending? Sounds like paradise to me! 😉

Also, I've often wondered why people go the domme route when, like you said, there are plenty of escorts who will give guys a massage plus happy ending. All you have to do is switch out the massage for tickling. Some escorts might get scared away but most will probably do it for the money.

 

[BellybTickler]

Give it a shot! 😀

 

[MrTicklefeet]

How would it fuck up your sexuality to engage in tickle play with a hot massage therapist and then have her give you a happy ending? Sounds like paradise to me! 😉

Well, after years of this fun, I did end up in a relationship with a very beautiful hot woman, the kind one often dreams about. The sex was fabulous, but after a while the tickling fantasies would start to interfere. She hated any forms of bondage due to the abuse she suffered earlier on in life, but after a while I couldn't perform unless I fantasized about her being tied up and having her feet tickled like crazy. I could never tell her about this, though the fantasies kept getting stronger and stronger. I eventually fucked up the relationship, and have been kicking myself since. No happy ending there.

 

[Libertine]

If you live close to Canada keep in mind that prostitution is legal there, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostitution_in_Canada and anything legal is more affordable than when the girls run the risk of imprisonment, as they do in the USA. Soliciting, (asking on the street) is sensibly against the law, but arranging paid rendez-vous by internet or telephone is OK. There are commercial dungeons in Toronto. http://adult.nowtoronto.com/ and almost every other big Canadian city.

 

[rhiannon]

The sex was fabulous, but after a while the tickling fantasies would start to interfere. She hated any forms of bondage due to the abuse she suffered earlier on in life, but after a while I couldn't perform unless I fantasized about her being tied up and having her feet tickled like crazy.

This could have happened to you without having been to massage parlors with happy endings. 🙂

 

[GQguy]

Would rather spend my cash on dinners and drinks. At least that way it's a potential investment into someone that likes you. Not just doing things you like to take your cash.

GQ

 

[osprey825]

tickleguy55, I have visited professionals for my tickling needs for some time. At present I go to someone in my city who is very good at it. Things have worked out that way with others in the past too. I think it is totally worth the money - for the therapy, and satisfying of your tickling needs. I don't have the time to waste anymore searching futilely for someone who would be like-minded regarding tickling, so the professional tickler alternative is the choice for me. I would suggest checking mistress profiles to make sure they have tickling listed in their realm of services; if the mistress replies affirmative quickly and discusses basic detail with you during the initial contact, that is a good sign that she knows how to tickle. There is nothing illegal about this either. There is no sex involved, it's the providing of services that can't be obtained elsewhere. There will be a protocol if you do visit a mistress, but she will guide you through that. I hope it works out for you.

 

[ticklehound]

I would like to channel the sage advice of one of better thinkers of our time - George Costanza. Pay for sex is like paying to park your car. Why pay for it when, if you really put in the effort, maybe you can get it for free...

That being said, sometimes you get sick of circling the lot and you say, 'fuck it' & put it in the garage.

 

[robmic]

ticklehound said....
"That being said, sometimes you get sick of circling the lot and you say, 'fuck it' & put it in the garage."

That is so true! Of course there's my dilemma.... Sometimes I would find a parking space when I had the money, or else I wanted to just go to the garage, but didn't have the money...... 🙁

 

[JoePTickle]

For me, the answer's yes. However, it is a gamble depending on what you're looking for. I have generally found dommes who advertise tickling to be genuinely interested in it, but have also come across some who aren't, and apparently just list it among their many "willing" fetishes to accept. Ask a few questions ahead of time that will clue you in. For example, "Why do you like tickling?" reveals a lot (and isn't a bad question for self-examination either). Everyone has different tastes. The best ones can sense what you're enjoying the most, where you like to be tickled most, the types of verbal teasing, etc.

I've posted a couple True Stories on my blog about these experiences.

Thanks for asking.

 

[mike273273]

I always do this! Keep in mind where I live (Melbourne, Australia) prostitution is legal,

I get tickled by private escorts, at bondage houses, at brothels, and even at massage parlours. I have noticed bondage mistresses are the most experienced ticklers. Some private escorts are experienced though.

Out of interest I am going to the US, what are the legalties regarding prostitution. ie are massage parlours legal? I am guessing they are but the happy ending is with a vibrartor? I know brothels are illegal except in Nevada. I also know private escorts are legal but for companionship only.

Are bondage houses legal in most states? I am guessing there is no genital tickling? Here I frequently go to bondage houses and get tickled everywhere, included on the genitals. Although I don't go just to get tickled on the genitals, I go for the tickle session. In my first few sessions I wasn't even tickled on the genitals.

 

[jkb]

Anybody able to recommend/warn against certain dommes? I've been curious about NYC's Mistress Octavia Arena for awhile.

 

[FeatherEndeavor]

As far as I know as long as there's no genital contact or exchange of fluids it's not against the law, but I'm not an expert on the subject. And as someone mentioned earlier the laws on these things vary from state to state. So you may want to do some research before you jump into it but of hand I'd say go ahead, do it, have some fun.