Hmm. Told person I'm seeing about my interest...

[DownUnder]

marcus, I'm so sorry to hear about her reaction. I do hope that somehow you can come to some compromise with her over this.

As a general statement: Why does it seem that so often, people who have fetishes, are put down, if they happen to mention it to a significant other, who doesnt have the fetish? At the very least, even if the significant other isnt "into the fetish", he or she should realize that the person who does, needs support, and needs to hear something like "Okay, I understand, I'm going to try to accomadate you, but, get me used to it in small doses" Or.. "Dont tickle me every day, but you can do it, several times a week". The exasperated reaction, or weird look, to me, is very closed minded.

Good Luck. Please keep us posted on any further developments.

Mitch

I'm very fortunate that this has not happened to me. Every woman that I have built a significant intimate relationship with have accepted my liking for feet and tickling.

I don't go around telling everyone that I like tickling. Just like I don't tell people what colour my underpants are today. (truth is, I actually don't remember 🙂 )

 

[marcusb]

Thanks for the feedback everybody.

FWIW, I didn't (and don't) refer to this as a fetish regarding my personal interest in it.

We were talking about stuff and it just sort of came up as a part of the conversation. I told her I liked it and all that. You know the rest. Very "vanilla" girl... I should have seen it coming.

She has dropped off the map (this happened 2 days ago).

 

[badreligion]

All she did was comment, "oh, that's why you kept doing that" with a scrunched up face. Maybe she wasn't ready for that info at that point.

She didn't call him a freak, she didn't say he was a pervert, she just left. She's apparently not his type, or he's not hers. Does she have to like what you like in order to be a decent person? Or, because she doesn't act exactly the way YOU think she should, that automatically makes her a bitch?

If she's a bitch for not liking it right off the bat, anyone who cops a 'tude (by the way, the OP seemed to handle it okay) because another person doesn't act like a model from Tickle Abuse is a whiny little f*cking baby.

Well if you read the post you would also understand I said that because after he told her she suddenly had to leave , now if you think she was being truthful then you're an idiot



idiot

 

[Redmage]

Not being able to deal with something doesn't make her a bitch. A bit weak, perhaps, but she was probably as nice about it as she was able to be.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

then you're an idiot



idiot

 

[Wolf]

Wow. I got surved, huh?

Well if you read the post you would also understand I said that because after he told her she suddenly had to leave , now if you think she was being truthful then you're an idiot



idiot

: sigh : All right, all right, you win...I am crushed under the sheer logical weight of such discourse. Let's try this again, shall we?

*Ahem*

Dude shes a total biatch if I had a gurlfriend I wud never put up with that shiat! Kick her to the curb and find anuther one like all the gurls here who want me so baaaad! LOL

Later dude!

Rawk on!

(insert photo of band name)


There, is that better?

 

[badreligion]

No that just makes you sound like a bigger idiot .

 

[badreligion]

 

[Redmage]

I wonder if a smaller idiot eats less than a bigger idiot. Heck, once you realize that idiocy is measured by mass and volume these questions just naturally arise.

 

[Wolf]

S-nap!

No that just makes you sound like a bigger idiot .

Oh, well played, Sir.

I tremble in anticipation of your next salvo, and I applaud the brazen lack of punctuation (who knew there were so many ee cummings fans?), flying in the face of simple, adult communication.

May I suggest "doodyhead", a rousing volley of, "no, you're stupider", or, dare I say, something about one's mother?

We are all on pins and needles.

 

[MasterPaladin]

Don't you think this is getting out of hand name calling is not necessary. No one is anything here he told the truth and had a wish that it would be understood it wasn't the end. I think he did right in telling her her response could have been better but it was not we are all faced with this.

 

[RegisteredUser]

She was... uh... not receptive to the notion of tickling. I had tickled her a few times here and there but nothing much.

When I mentinoed it she commented, "oh, that's why you kept doing that" whith a scrunched up face.

After an awkward moment or so she said she had to leave (had somewhere to go... ya, right).

Bummer man. Will see what tomorrow brings. 🙁

Forget her, man. All those hot lookin' girls you tickle on your website, ever thought about trying to get with any of them, if you haven't already?

 

[Wolf]

Oh, no...

Don't you think this is getting out of hand name calling is not necessary. No one is anything here he told the truth and had a wish that it would be understood it wasn't the end. I think he did right in telling her her response could have been better but it was not we are all faced with this.

I think the OP handled himself like a man. He revealed his interest, it didn't work out as he had hoped, but he didn't label her, or blame her, or malign her, just because she didn't respond how he had hoped. My rancor is directed elsewhere.

 

[MasterPaladin]

I was referring to the Idiot comment. That was not necessary

 

[badreligion]

Oh, well played, Sir.

I tremble in anticipation of your next salvo, and I applaud the brazen lack of punctuation (who knew there were so many ee cummings fans?), flying in the face of simple, adult communication.

May I suggest "doodyhead", a rousing volley of, "no, you're stupider", or, dare I say, something about one's mother?

We are all on pins and needles.

You're married.

 

[Wolf]

Yes, yes, I am...

You're married.

And I sleep with a real, live, woman and everything.

Ya got me.

 

[badreligion]

And I sleep with a real, live, woman and everything.

Ya got me.

Well how nice for you 🙂

 

[Wolf]

It is...

Well how nice for you 🙂

But you wouldn't know about that.

 

[badreligion]

Oh snap son

Ok I think this has gone on long enough. Back to the topic

 

[footetickle]

Oh snap son

Ok I think this has gone on long enough. Back to the topic

Lol. Not sure if you two were serious or not, but i did find that to be quite entertaining!

 

[Wolf]

Simple rule for dealing with me...

Lol. Not sure if you two were serious or not, but i did find that to be quite entertaining!

Half of what I say is to be taken with a grain of salt.

The other half is complete bullshit.

 

[chrisheaven]

Hope it all works out for you -- I am sure it will.

 

[U.N.Owen]

If the girl isn't even openminded enough to try to understand your interests, that's a very bad sign. I don't assume a girl I tell will wind up into it, but I do expect her to hear me out.

Too bad she made things awkward for you. My sympathies.