MrChippiesTMF
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Just thought I would share my own experiences from both here and the UK Forum as a little beacon of hope to the thousands of people posting on here looking for a partner in crime.
My first session was way back in the day with someone equally as rubbish at arranging an initial meeting as me. After initially saying hi and clicking on a social level quickly realising we had more in common than just tickling we got to chatting online and by phone for about a month before deciding to meet. On the day we were both ridiculously nervous but she was amazing and actually cuffed herself to the door frame and said to just get on with it before we lost our nerve. 9 hours and a sweaty mess later and the rest is history!
We soon arranged another meet but I was hit by a car on the way there so fate said no apparently. She hooked up with a fellow member and they been together for a good few years now.
A year ish later I met up with another lovely lass from here after initially chatting and finding out we loved close by.
I met another great girl soon after and had the pleasure of afew meet ups and some social stuff outside of sessions too.
My last and latest meeting on here has been with an active member I'm sure you all know well. First session was amazing but sadly due to health reasons and a change in personal circumstances ie I'm now homeless, I had to bail on our planned second meet.
My point is that if you go about it the right way, be respectful and patient rather than creepy and desperate, and above all make sure you get on with the person before meeting then you can make some great and hopefully long lasting connections.
If you're creepy and your initial post or message is along the lines of "hey im a stranger but let's meet up because I'm Horny and want to do stuff to you" then you deserve all the polite rejections and requests to go fornicate yourself with a pointy stick you get.
My first session was way back in the day with someone equally as rubbish at arranging an initial meeting as me. After initially saying hi and clicking on a social level quickly realising we had more in common than just tickling we got to chatting online and by phone for about a month before deciding to meet. On the day we were both ridiculously nervous but she was amazing and actually cuffed herself to the door frame and said to just get on with it before we lost our nerve. 9 hours and a sweaty mess later and the rest is history!
We soon arranged another meet but I was hit by a car on the way there so fate said no apparently. She hooked up with a fellow member and they been together for a good few years now.
A year ish later I met up with another lovely lass from here after initially chatting and finding out we loved close by.
I met another great girl soon after and had the pleasure of afew meet ups and some social stuff outside of sessions too.
My last and latest meeting on here has been with an active member I'm sure you all know well. First session was amazing but sadly due to health reasons and a change in personal circumstances ie I'm now homeless, I had to bail on our planned second meet.
My point is that if you go about it the right way, be respectful and patient rather than creepy and desperate, and above all make sure you get on with the person before meeting then you can make some great and hopefully long lasting connections.
If you're creepy and your initial post or message is along the lines of "hey im a stranger but let's meet up because I'm Horny and want to do stuff to you" then you deserve all the polite rejections and requests to go fornicate yourself with a pointy stick you get.
