Hopeless

[billiardassassin]

I am sure quite a few people are in this same situation, but I need to vent. I am in a relationship where I get tied down and tickled rarely and she gets it from me even less. There seems to be no other people who will let you tie them up and tickle them because they do not know you and would not allow that to happen (I have inquired with certain people who's business would allow similar ideas and their response is "I can do it to you" which is fine sometimes, but I want to dig into a very responsive body and enjoy the sexy torture!) Watching video's is becoming redundant and my imagination can only take me so far (Although there are many vids and many situations with insanely ticklish, gorgeous women that help with my imagined enjoyement). If anyone has this same problem just let me know so I can realize that I truley am not on a deserted island all by myself.

 

[Phineas]

I am in a relationship...

stopped reading right about here.

You're not happy in your relationship? End it. Know, though, that just by being in one you've already got more going for you than a lot of people who can't even get that far.

 

[GEORGIATKLER]

I could let you tickle my imaginary girlfiend.................

Yeah, my relationship with my inflatable girlfiend really blows, too!! 😉 All I can suggest is to talk it out in a non blaming, no ultimatum fashion. See if she knows how important tickling is to you and make sure you know her most important needs. To quote the great ticklephobe, Ann Landers," Are you better off in or out of the relationship/" I know some other threads have rasised the issue of is tickling/non-tickling a relationship deal breaker. The laughs are not always more tickled pink on the other side.

 

[LD_Tickler]

Sexual frustration? Deserted island?

My friend, the Island of Sexual Frustration has a larger population than the British Isles.

 

[TickVix]

Wow so sorry to hear that, I mean maybe something like that should be addressed with your partner. Like tell them how you feel and see if they are willing to work that out with you. If not then I'd suggest you move on to someone who will work as hard as you to make all of your tickling fantasies come true. Because keeping things interesting is a big part of relationship survival.

 

[playgirl]

first, if you're going to tickle another woman, be upfront with your girlfriend about what you're doing, even if it's completely non-sexual so that their won't be any misunderstanding later. once you and your gf are on the same page, my suggestion would be to get to know other lees in your area through email, IM, munches, coffee, etc. so you can get to know them as people and hopefully they'll then feel comfortable being tickled by you.

 

[TKL_Rebel]

deffinately talk to her about it.... communication is key in a relationship


for all u know, she could have a mad tickle fetish but just be too shy to inform you of it or share it with you....

i unfortunately do not know what it is like to be 'tickle' frustrated cause i have a gf who loves it and many girl mates that do also 😀

 

[Leo tickles]

stopped reading right about here.

You're not happy in your relationship? End it. Know, though, that just by being in one you've already got more going for you than a lot of people who can't even get that far.

Look, somebody did the work for me. Nice.

 

[proud2tickle]

let me ask you this bro, this girlfriend of yours, does she make you happy by just holding her hand. do you get overly excited to just spend five minutes of ur day with her, do you love to listen to her voice when she talks. because if u do love that and more trust me bro tickling seems so little after everything. before you go in search to fill ur lust for tickling make sure your not gonna miss the love of your life

 

[Sandisk444]

let me ask you this bro, this girlfriend of yours, does she make you happy by just holding her hand. do you get overly excited to just spend five minutes of ur day with her, do you love to listen to her voice when she talks. because if u do love that and more trust me bro tickling seems so little after everything. before you go in search to fill ur lust for tickling make sure your not gonna miss the love of your life

this, took the words right out of my mouth

 

[Rustenexcel87]

How long has the relationship been going on for janderson? This is important because relationships are built over time and one of the most important aspects of a relationship is trust. You need to keep in mind that although there is absolutely nothing wrong with having a tickle fetish, many people don't have one like we here do. Most people who say stop when being tickled say so because they want you to stop because they are not liking it. They feel that they are under attack. If this is a long term relationship with a good foundation of trust, you should communicate that this a turn-on for you and it will make you happy. If she still resist, well then at least you tried and you can reevaluate from there. If you need to reevaluate though, then I would take a long hard look at what proud2tickle said and decide on your course of action from there.
Best of luck man.

 

[TangerineTicklee]

stopped reading right about here.

You're not happy in your relationship? End it. Know, though, that just by being in one you've already got more going for you than a lot of people who can't even get that far.

((nods))

 

[eric33]

i have tried in many relationships to express what my desires are ,, and that,s certainly after giving and giving ,..and more giving ..lotsa heartache,..headaches,..now i,m gonna wait to find the girl of my dreams,..a ticklish one that enjoys being tickled that way a two way street is developed ,...and if this person is not found soon,...i,m becoming a priest,..i hate this one way street business.