How can i get my boyfriend more into this??

[TickleVirgin8]

I have had a fetish as long as I can remember, but I am super shy about it. I did admit to my boyfriend about it, and he is really good about incorporating it into our play, and he seems to like it (it helps that I'm a lee). But I'm really shy to ask him to tickle my feet - that has always seemed more embarrassing for me. I've hinted, and I have cute feet, but he hasn't taken the hint. Did anyone else figure out how to get over their embarrassment?

Also looking for some fun toy ideas that he could use on me. I keep considering a pinwheel, but if anyone has a favorite, let me know!
Thanks 🙂

 

[3xPIN]

Try feet in his lap, sole up preferably. Little less subtle than feet just resting waiting for a massage. Sounds obvious.

If you've tried that, try telling him you like to have your feet tickled specifically, but not at this particular moment. Let him know that you will give a signal in the future to prompt him to hold you down and tickle you so it feels more spontaneous. Now this will take some communication and premeditation. So get a plan and your courage up.

For instance, tell him that when you are in the mood to be tickled, you will be wearing a specific pair of socks, or a necklace. And if you specifically want to be tickled on your feet (or anywhere else) you'll be wearing a toe ring. A toe ring is a good indicator as you may not normally wear foot jewelry.

Or verbal indications work as well. Now just saying, "tickle my feet?" That's doable, but boring. So make a code. Like a phrase: "Boy, my feet sure are tired!" Or, "My sides are itchy." Also try to make them phrases you can say in public and don't sound to strange. E.g. "Flan is far too sugary for my taste." "It's awfully warm out for nachos." This way you wont seem like a weirdo and can trigger play in front of friends, family, or even strangers! This will lead to semi-embarrassing moments to get the exhibitionism in you going and build up anticipation for later.

Don't go too overboard! And make sure it is well communicated to avoid confusion.

Hope that helps. Good luck!

Oh, and do report back. 😀😀😀

 

[Mrcool]

you already admitted your fetish too him and he he both understands and is willing to play around with you, the hard parts already done, just have him sit down and talk it out

 

[milagros317]

In the film Bull Durham (1988) the fictional character Annie says, roughly, that "Men will do anything if they think that it's foreplay." I believe that is true.
So all you have to do is make clear to him that it is foreplay for you. 😀

 

[Moss]

If you're a little embarrassed, next time he's tickling you somewhere else, just say, "Try my feet this time!" or something. Then it's more of just an idea to see how ticklish your feet are. Then after that let him know you liked being tickled on your feet, that it was more enjoyable and they're your worst spot or something.

 

[number1234]

or invite a friend to help you start a tickle fight?

 

[BeautifullyBNT]

Wow, what a lucky boyfriend you have! My advice is to not make a big deal out of it. If it's a big deal to you, it will more likely seem a big deal to him. If he knows you think it's hot when your feet are played with, he'll probably be into it. I don't find the back of knees particularly sexy, but my girl recently told me how she likes that spot nibbled on. Guess what? I'm totally into it now because of her reactions. Good luck!

 

[dr_random]

Admitting you have a fetish is maybe the biggest step, and you've already done that. Congrats! I realize you're shy, but you'll really have to be communicative. Trust me, your boyfriend will be more than happy to learn this, because we all want to pleasure our partner better. At least we should be.
Good luck!

 

[TickleVirgin8]

Good advice, thanks! I just casually brought up that I actually don't know how ticklish my feet are while they were resting on his lap and well, you know the rest!

 

[sadi]

Way to go, girrl! You succeeded! Now... let the foot-focussed tickling/torture ensue! 😀