How can I incorporate tickling into sex?

[montserrat]

Hi guys. Last year I was in a relationship for a few months. I had an issue - I only achieved real arousal if I tickled or played with the feet of my partner.
Doing conventional sexual behaviours such as oral sex or anal sex was next to impossible, as I couldn't stay aroused for long enough to reach orgasm.

It's concerning, because there are so few people exclusively into tickling and feet, and I want to have a proper sexual relationship for my sake as well as my future partner's.

Has anybody had similar experiences and, if so, could they possibly shine some light into this increasingly dark reality of mine?

Many thanks.

 

[duderino84]

Soo why not just occasionally give a tickle to your partner? I mean, why fight it?

I'm not really an "exclusive" tickle fetishist, but I do know that due to the infrequent nature of my getting action, I'm poorly acclimated to receiving touch "down there". I'm too sensitive at some points and not sensitive enough during others. So I supplement some of the action with tickling; I know it gets me hard, and then I'm essentially ready to bat my junk around some more.

Hope some of this helped.

 

[porcelaindoll2]

When I want my boyfriend to be able to pound me and worship my feet at the same time we do the shoulder holder position. He sits upwards on his knees facing me and I lay with my feet on his shoulders. I can easily put my feet near his mouth and he can also usually grab one foot as well. This position is best on the bed and the person on the bottom has to be somewhat flexible. Plus they have to be okay with foot worship. You can tickle her feet in this position as well. The reverse cowgirl is also great for feet tickling.

 

[ArchNemesis]

I'm like this. I realized that I just never developed a desire to please a woman sexually. I just want to torture her and force involuntary laughter out of her. I realize now that all I ever cared about was getting myself off. Then sex is just a "macho" thing in order to feel "normal". Not enough motivation for me. Pay women to let me tickle them, get myself off afterward, and I'm good. I see no need for a "partner", for my purposes at least.

 

[diemdogg]

First and foremost, it helps to have a partner who is into tickling also. Without it, it doesn't work. So here's what I do. Actually I've done it a couple of ways. My favorite is when I pillar her legs across my torso and chest where her feet are on each side of my head. I am inside her and giving it to her good. When I feel she is good and ready and is out of breath after multiple orgasms, this is when you begin to tickle her feet. At the same time, keep giving it to her...it will drive her crazy and bring her to an explosive orgasm. I would recommend nylons and/or baby oil as both increase the sensitivity of her feet. You may even want to grow your nails out slightly longer for good effect. You can also try it doggy style. You are in the rear of her thrusting inside of her and her feet are at your mercy, not to mention her torso. You could also try it while she is laying on her stomach. What I have done in that instance, is drill her from behind, then take your leg underneath hers and make her bend it upward. This puts her foot or feet in the air and you can go to town this way also. You may or may not want to gag her depending on how loud she gets or your preferences. Many ways to do it, these are just a few suggestions.

 

[ticklehound]

First and foremost, it helps to have a partner who is into tickling also. Without it, it doesn't work. .

I agree with this! Your partner doesn't have to totally be into tickling; if she really likes you & understands you, hopefully she will indulge your tickling just because she know how much you like it.

Tickling feet during sex is difficult for me, but the advice above about certain position helps. I do have a question: Do you not get aroused tickling other parts of the body?? For me, I love tickling my girlfriend's underarms, breasts, ribs and belly during sex. Very lightly though, so she responds by sexily swaying her body away from my fingers! Likewise, she really gets me going when she tickles me.

That said, I used to be worried that I could only be aroused by tickling... turns out that wasn't the case. When I first got intimate with my girlfriend, I found out how excited I got just from basic foreplay! That's when I realized that this was someone really special.

 

[diemdogg]

I agree with this! Your partner doesn't have to totally be into tickling; if she really likes you & understands you, hopefully she will indulge your tickling just because she know how much you like it.

Tickling feet during sex is difficult for me, but the advice above about certain position helps. I do have a question: Do you not get aroused tickling other parts of the body?? For me, I love tickling my girlfriend's underarms, breasts, ribs and belly during sex. Very lightly though, so she responds by sexily swaying her body away from my fingers! Likewise, she really gets me going when she tickles me.

That said, I used to be worried that I could only be aroused by tickling... turns out that wasn't the case. When I first got intimate with my girlfriend, I found out how excited I got just from basic foreplay! That's when I realized that this was someone really special.

For me personally, it is the feet that does it for me. UB tickling really doesn't do anything for me. Not knocking it, but for me, it is tickling my lady's sexy nylon feet that really gets me.