How Do I Ask A Girl?

[tkl-pen]

How In The World Do I Ask A Girl In Her Twenties Who I Know If I Can Tickle Her, Especially Her Feet, While Indicating To Her That There Is No Sexual Intent - Any Ideas, Anyone?

 

[Red Jester]

You don't. Thats like asking a girl if you can see her naked without any sexual intent. Unless she likes being tickled I can't imagine a yes.

 

[leeboy]

I think the best approach would be to ask her to tickle YOUR feet ! Bring it up somehow in a conversation, talk about getting massages or something or an incident that happeded (even make one up) then casually mention how you were tickled and found that you actually like having your feet tickled. She's bound to say "really ?" then take it from there. feel her out. Don't come across too eager but see if you can get her to tickle you. Then tell her how good it feels , ask if she's ever had it done to her etc... It's worked for me before !

 

[kirasao]

I Must Agree

Jester and leeboy are right. If you just come out and say it, you risk offending her or even scaring her. Tickling is just one of those fetishes in which, as much as you enjoy it, it pays to be discreet. Get to know her a little bit. If you want to have some time with her to tickle her, you have to get her to trust you first. Good luck and may the force be with you. (No, I'm not a Star Wars fanboy.)

 

[LindyHopper]

I think this is a situation where a more subtle approach would work better than a direct question.

The next time you guys are sitting around relaxing, offer her a foot massage. Or start with the shoulders if that feels more natural, then transition to the feet. Give her a good one - keep at in until she's putty in your hands. And when she's totally relaxed and into you... as *gently* as possible, run a finger up one of her soles. Her response will tell you a lot. If she hates being tickled, even here when you've connected it to a wonderful massage, you might want to find yourself another target. If she giggles and doesn't pull away, or if she does pull away, but gives her foot back to let you keep massaging, then you have your opening. Keep on massaging and tickling, or go for a more intense bout of gentle, fun tickling, depending on her response and your style.

Good luck!

 

[Lionhart]

This is a stretch and you should have great rapport with the girl in order to try. If you bust on her feet, shoes, or legs (ie "your feet look alot like my grandmothers") in a joking and playful manner you tend to get playful jabs to the shoulder which I lead into a wrestling match, and being the cheater that I am the shoes come off and the feet get tickled.. Worst case scenario is that she's not ticklish there, and pins you in your moment of triumph. (hey ya can't win em all) Less awkward questions, and much more fun.. I really need a new hobby.. lol Take care lers&lees..

 

[CaptainQuantum]

How In The World Do I Ask A Girl In Her Twenties Who I Know If I Can Tickle Her, Especially Her Feet, While Indicating To Her That There Is No Sexual Intent - Any Ideas, Anyone?

I'm confused as to what you mean by "no sexual intent". Do you mean that you aren't aroused sexually by tickling but just find it fun? Or do you mean that you aren't using the tickling as a means to maneuver yourself into sex with her?

If it doesn't turn you on sexually but is just fun for you, that really doesn't matter. If she likes to be tickled, or thinks it sounds like fun, she'll let you tickle her feet (assuming she feels comfortable enough with you). She probably will assume that it turns you on sexually if you're asking. And explaining that it doesn't turn you on sexually will just make it more awkward a moment than it already is IMO. But like I said, if she feels comfortable enough with you and thinks it sounds like fun, she'll probably let you.

I actually started a thread similar to this, asking for stories from folks who came out and asked a woman to let them tickle her. Not with bondage or anything, but more spontaneous than that. The only other advice I can offer is 1) say something like "I love your laugh. Are you ticklish? Mind if I tickle you? or 2) when the mood is very light or when she has just said something smartass to you, just start tickling her and gauge her reaction. If she doesn't seem to mind, then ask if she would let you. Even if she does seem to mind, ask anyway. Maybe she ordinarily doesn't like it, but will let you because she likes you. Good luck and let us know how it goes.

 

[Knox The Hatter]

Don't ask. Just do it.

 

[Sunday_10pm]

Yea I'm thinking if you have to ask (let alone ask how to ask), then you shouldn't. If you wanna tickle random girls, learn how to flirt real good 😉

 

[fgt1]

my my

i think too you must try it and the response of the girl will tell you a lot
-she laugh ,and let you pursue (very good situation!)
-she cry stop it now! and leave her feet far of you( the bad situation)
-or you have no reaction ,she 's not sensitive ( not good too)
but you must try nothing to loose!

 

[Butterfly wings]

You can always use the i'm dieing of___________(feel in the name of the Disease or Illness here of your choice) apporch and tell her that you only have so many weeks or months to live because of it. so for your last dieing wish you wish that you could tickle her feet.


Hey it could work!

 

[tkl-pen]

Okay, I did it. The girl's name is Kristen and she is in her early twenties - she works with my handicapped son escorting him to various activities - I went to pick him up at one venue last Monday and as I came up behind her, I put my fingers under her arms (she had a coat on) but she never objected. So, on Thursday I was alone with her for a few minutes, and I asked her right out "Can I tickle you?" She responded with a 'What?" So I asked her again, "Will you allow me to tickle you?" So, I got her sitting on my lap with her back toward me, feet several inches up from the floor, my arms wrapped around her tightly with my fingers at both sides of her. I started to tickle and she fought and kicked but in only a few minutes my lap was wet. That was the first time I ever tried it other than lightly tickling my wife for a few minutes. It was great!

By the way, when I say that sex is not expected or required, that doesn't mean that it doesn't turn me on to tickle a girl like this - it only means that I don't expect it to lead to sex - I think it's probably a lot easier to get a girl to let me tickle her that way. I really want to get at the soles of a young girl's feet but I haven't figured out how to accomplish that yet.