How do you "let go"?

[MrPersistancy]

So here's my dillemma. I am currently single, but I haven't really had a problem bringing up my liking for tickling with any of my girlfriends, AND I have a bondage set. Pretty good for a college student, eh?

So far, in me experiences being tied up and tickled, I've noticed that I have a really hard time letting go and just letting the feelings overtake me. Perhaps its because the ler isn't pushing me hard enough, but I honestly don't think thats it. My most recent girlfriend loved it once I got her into it, and she loved to get me going, but I never really got to that point that you see in clips, whether faked or not, where the lee can't stop laughing and is sort of fearing it but at the same time wants more.

Anyone know how I could get past this, and really let whats happening take over?

I'll check this out tomorrow, but any help would be great, as this is kind of a big part of my life, I guess.

 

[Musicroxmysox]

Hi,

I'm in college too, and I feel the same way. To me it is very difficult to bring up something like this to someone, even someone I trust. My boyfriend was my best friend for years before we started going out, and while he knows everything about me, and we have been through some rough times, I still don't feel that I can tell him about this aspect of my life.

I'm sure others will suggest this, but why not start slowly. Integrate tickling gradually into what you do with your girlfriend (or whomever.) That's just my suggestion though. Hope it helps and good luck.

-M

 

[giggle-maker]

Ok, we have two VERY seperate questions here. As far as the first:

How do I introduce a potential GF into tickling?

If you're the 'lee' then you will have WAY les trouble with this than vise-versa. Heck, you might even get lucky and find a girl who likes being tickled too!

The second question:

How do I 'let go'?

Having personal experience with my wife tickling me (she's not ticklish, so she's always the ler) my best advise is:

1) Employ bondage that renders you COMPLETLY immoble. This might take some experimentation, but it is a key factor. It will allow you to "ride the sensations".

2) Tel your 'ler' to kill you, no matter what you say or how you beg her to stop. No safeword, no NOTHING! Mabey have her wear headphones with music turned up real loud and you wear a mask so she has no clue how you're reacting. Then she won't have outside influence to make her stop.

3) Set a timer for 30 minutes (or longer) so there will be a stop time, but not too short.




Have fun!

 

[TickledToDeath]

Ok, we have two VERY seperate questions here. As far as the first:

How do I introduce a potential GF into tickling?

If you're the 'lee' then you will have WAY les trouble with this than vise-versa. Heck, you might even get lucky and find a girl who likes being tickled too!

The second question:

How do I 'let go'?

Having personal experience with my wife tickling me (she's not ticklish, so she's always the ler) my best advise is:

1) Employ bondage that renders you COMPLETLY immoble. This might take some experimentation, but it is a key factor. It will allow you to "ride the sensations".

2) Tel your 'ler' to kill you, no matter what you say or how you beg her to stop. No safeword, no NOTHING! Mabey have her wear headphones with music turned up real loud and you wear a mask so she has no clue how you're reacting. Then she won't have outside influence to make her stop.

3) Set a timer for 30 minutes (or longer) so there will be a stop time, but not too short.




Have fun!

What he said! Definitely.
Damn fine advise.

If 30 minutes or no limit right off the bat is appealing enough....
you can always try this:
Have her tickle you non stop for one minute. then break for a few seconds then she starts again non stop for two minutes. stops for a few seconds than starts again for 3 minutes non stop...etc etc on up to as long as it takes or it can go...each time the time increases by 1 minute....and the tickling for that time is non stop no matter what you (the lee) says.....eventually, when the time reaches 20-30 minutes non stop....or more, you will reach the level and goal you desire!

 

[giggle-maker]

What he said! Definitely.
Damn fine advise.

If 30 minutes or no limit right off the bat is appealing enough....
you can always try this:
Have her tickle you non stop for one minute. then break for a few seconds then she starts again non stop for two minutes. stops for a few seconds than starts again for 3 minutes non stop...etc etc on up to as long as it takes or it can go...each time the time increases by 1 minute....and the tickling for that time is non stop no matter what you (the lee) says.....eventually, when the time reaches 20-30 minutes non stop....or more, you will reach the level and goal you desire!

Ohhhh...as you know TTD you and I've been discussing various techniques on this very subject. I'm gonna have to try this one! It sounds...

different...

in a good way...

 

[TickledToDeath]

Ohhhh...as you know TTD you and I've been discussing various techniques on this very subject. I'm gonna have to try this one! It sounds...

different...

in a good way...

Thought you would like that one.

 

[giggle-maker]

I'll let ya know tomorrow!

 

[BorisandNatasha]

I agree. Simply one must tell their ler to tickle and not stop until he or she wants to stop and to keep tickling you no matter how much you beg for it to stop.
There is no way for a ticklee to be taken to a certain level unless one raises the bar high enough or disengages the safety protocols as in no safe word or way for the ticklee to stop the tickling.
Just make sure you have a tickler who knows what the hell they are doing.

Boris

 

[giggle-maker]

Just make sure you have a tickler who knows what the hell they are doing.

Not a truer word spoken!

 

[BorisandNatasha]

Not a truer word spoken!

Then there should be nothing holding you back other than yourself.

Boris

 

[giggle-maker]

Then there should be nothing holding you back other than yourself.

Boris

Oh as for me, my wife is a VERY good 'ler'. As for the originator of this thread, I'm hopeing he will use our advise wisely.

 

[MrPersistancy]

Awesome, thanks for the advice.

I've got then "under the bed restraint kit" (look it up online) and its pretty immobile. Thanks for the various tips, I'm sure they will help out.

Hopefully I'll be able to let you know how it went.

As for everyone else, hope you use the tips as well.