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How do you make Fetish Enjoyable to her?!?!

tyler_d

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I had some serious problems recently that backfired with respect to the idea of "having normal intimacy".

I met a girl 8 wks ago who also broke up with me recently.

Toward the end of our hookup she started to express more and more how my attachment to her feet was causing us more and more problems. And basically how I just phrased it in that last sentence was a very nice way of saying this. She had a much more harsh way of telling this to me and others around us.

She was often quoted telling me that "I couldn't f*ck" and telling her friends in front of me on the phone how "I need a foot to get hard". And she said these things in the most humiliating way possible to degrade what I liked, stating it almost objectively on the phone to her friends like "he needs me to step on his dick" or "he wants to lick and smell my feet" and saying it in a way like they should instantly understand her pain and what a sick freak I am.

And often, she personally told me that I was "too complicated". As much of a bitch this girl is, the one thing that was true about her was her blatent honesty factor and how she never hid behind a facad.

Anyway, I caught the brunt of this from her toward the end of our relationship. She's a pretty girl too and here is an image of her rolling her eyes one of the very last times I talked her into giving me a FootJob:


She really hated my perversions often due to the lack of intimacy and focus on pleasuring the male. She also hated the fact that I picked up other women (but it was a taste of her own medicine, that *****) 🙁

Just for background concerning my ability to meet her needs from a normal capacity, here are some facts:
** I gave her multiple orgasms often BTW (vaginal), when we 1st f*cked
** and 5-orgasms in one screw was my record for her.
** Things got worse when i started wanting the feet stuff too much in place of sex.
** She loved my dick though throughout
** and would rarely ever insult the little guy personally (even when taunted to)
** but usually only focused her degredations on my mind complications instead.

None of these problems would've ever happened if there was an easy way to make normal girls enjoy our kinks.

Are there any guys out there who have successful methods of taking a typical gal off the streets and getting her to sexually enjoy our (often one-sided) acts of fetishism? I am pleading to know some of the methods used out there to makes converts of these type of everyday women when it comes to introducing them to fetish.
 
I think you enjoy being percieved as a freak a little too much for me to take you seriously tyler 😛
 
I think you enjoy being percieved as a freak a little too much for me to take you seriously tyler 😛
this is 100% true as are many of my accounts that don't embellish the reality with fake stories of a female being turned on by my self-serving fetish.
 
Say, Tyler...does your fetish-hating ex-GF know that you're posting a pic of her face on a fetish forum?

As for getting a woman to enjoy your fetish, you really can't. If she doesn't have it in her to enjoy it, then there's not much you can do to change that.
 
Say, Tyler...does your fetish-hating ex-GF know that you're posting a pic of her face on a fetish forum?
coincidentally enough, she just called me (minutes ago) and i told her about part of the post.

did not tell her about her face in the post though... just the part about me asking for advice from others who might've dealt with fetish hardships in their own relationships. she seemed sort of disturbed about the idea of me seeking advice from strangers about the intimacy of our relationship, so did something that I found odd for her. she kinda became sympathetic about my fetish and it's feelings of isolation and she told me she could enjoy it more if I was nice to her again.

not sure what that all entails exactly but it does mean it's possible I guess depending on her mood.

anyway, i told her about a lot of the specificity of what I asked in the post, but I did not tell her I posted a visual aid, LOL... mainly for the reason that she was recently threatening me with lawsuits from a bunch of her made up mumbo jumbo about me soliciting her for prostitution on camera and also me kissing her on camera when she is denying me
 
Aaaalll righty then.

Tyler, I think you've got some issues that it would pay you to work through. First among them is a good healthy dose of common sense. If your ex is threatening to sue you for the way you've spread her image around in the past, then maybe posting her face on a fetish forum without her consent wasn't your best move.

That's just me talking, of course.
 
^ agreed, but she has no idea about this forum, nor an internet connection
 
Riight. And naturally she wouldn't borrow a friend's net connection to research this topic that you're so interested in. And you're sure that no one who knows her, or who might meet her in the future, is lurking here.

Tyler, assuming that you aren't just making the whole thing up to get attention, then it seems to me that you're being remarkably dumb, if not unethical. I wish you luck because no matter what the truth of the matter I think you'll need it.
 
^ agreed, but she has no idea about this forum, nor an internet connection

dude.

delete the pic now. You're heading for a world of trouble.

We're the number one tickling fetish forum in the world, your name is probably Tyler and you've told her that you've posted here, and she's threatening you with a lawsuit. Given the nature of that photo as well.....delete it dude. Trust me.
 
it's all true (reference the pic) and not a chance of her ever finding this.

she modelled for me on a foot site, not a tickle site. and she is very much a non-computer person. it's just calculated risk and non-paranoia. not too hard to understand. the internet is more vast than you think.

as for the ethicality, well she signed the release 😀 and BTW, her lawsuit threats are baseless so they don't really worry me. that's what I meant when I described her threats as "mumbo jumbo"
 
Now Returning to Planet Earth

it's all true (reference the pic) and not a chance of her ever finding this.

You're wrong, there is a chance. There's always a chance. But, just keep telling yourself what you want to hear and don't pay attention to the possibilities of the real world, and none of us will feel sorry for you if it falls back on you.

Think about this. She only knows about your foot fetish. In this post, you've said the word foot numerous times. If she, or anyone she knows wanted to find anything, they could type in the words "Tyler" and "Foot" into google and I guarantee you this post would be somewhere in the results. And the picture? You didn't upload it through the forum, so, she (or whoever) would be able to see it without having to be a member. And guess what? Even if her claims were baseless before, they wouldn't be now, now would they?

I understand that you're saying that the possibilities are slim, but they aren't zero. You just need to realize that, even with the small odds, you're taking a huge chance.
 
You're wrong, there is a chance. There's always a chance....
...
...even with the small odds, you're taking a huge chance.
like i said, it is calculated risk -- and i have determined it to be negligable, plus i'm not paranoid like a lot of people who look on the internet and say "oooooohhh" and then immediately shit their pants, LOL

i've been around the block buddy and baseless hypotheses don't get me worked up. it's called not believing every theory you hear and not jumping the gun every time you hear fireworks.
 
like i said, it is calculated risk -- and i have determined it to be negligable, plus i'm not paranoid like a lot of people who look on the internet and say "oooooohhh" and then immediately shit their pants, LOL

i've been around the block buddy and baseless hypotheses don't get me worked up. it's called not believing every theory you hear and not jumping the gun every time you hear fireworks.

furthermore, if she did come across this post (or perhaps mention it to a friend who googles you??) and decided to take action, then your complete disregard for the unethical nature of this post would land you in a shitty situation.

It's not a calculated risk. Playing boules whilst the armada is sailing towards you. That is a calculated risk. Asking a girl out on a date when she might say no. That is a calculated risk.

When you have nothing to gain and everything to lose (no matter how slim) then is ceases to be a calculated risk and becomes stupid.

Plus. How would you like to be landed in court ten years from now because somebody found this thread????

Just do the sensible thing and delete it, or i'll get one of the mods to delete it. For your sake, and mine (cos I don't really want to see a picture of your cock)
 
Just do the sensible thing and delete it
then you do the sensible thing and stay on thread topic and answer my question of how to get normal chics to be turned on by your self-serving fetish, LOL

if you don't have an answer due to lack of experience or success then just say so, but no need to divert with all your global warming tactics (ie. hot air plus end of world scenarios) 🙄
 
Egad

:wow:

Umm ... wow. Just wow.

*Activates cloaking device and goes into lurk mode*

~FTKL
 
then you do the sensible thing and stay on thread topic and answer my question of how to get normal chics to be turned on by your self-serving fetish, LOL

if you don't have an answer due to lack of experience or success then just say so, but no need to divert with all your global warming tactics (ie. hot air plus end of world scenarios) 🙄

:illogical

Man, he's just trying to help you out, no need to be rude to the guy.....

As for the girl, I would just move on and maybe you'll find another girl who's more accepting of the fetish; I myself have yet to meet a girl that doesn't think my foot fetish is at least intriguing.
 
It is a very low-level-mind action to post someones picture in a forum if having trouble with that person, no matter what it is about.
If it is true what you said about her, what she sais on the phone and that stuff, she does not like it and she never will. Accept it, there is no choice.

By the way, somewhere was a phrase about foot forum instead of tickle forum. Actually this more and more becomes a foot forum. For which other reasons should we see footjob pictures here and talk about foot fetish problems?
 
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