How do you mentally prepare yourself for a session?

[♡AimLEE♡]

I have a session coming up this Thursday and I'm pretty much freaking myself out.
I've met this guy before-I've even played with him before...but never privately.
For the past couple of months I've only been into public sessions, don't ask me why because I have no idea.
Maybe it's because I'm an attention *****...who knows!

It's not that he's a scary guy or anything...it's just more or less me over-analyzing things (which I have a tendency to do...a lot.)
And it's not only tickling we are going to be doing...rope work as well, and I LOOOOOOOOOOVE rope, but I've seen some of his other models and they are....better rope models than me. There I said it.

So what do you do to make yourself more relaxed and ready to play?

 

[Speedbump]

As soon as you get there, let out a huge fart. The awkwardness will completely take over and the nervousness will leave. 😀 Also, you're a pretty girl, so you don't have to worry about thinking models are better or some crap. I don't think it's gonna really matter to the dude.

 

[thetmfobserver]

First of all, relax, you're most likely going to have an amazing time on Thursday.

As for me, when I have an event coming up that I am nervous about, whether fetish or not, I try not to think about it too much. I've been in countless situations where I'm so obsessed with thinking about something, that I wind up ruining it before it starts.

When the thought crosses your mind, imagine the best possible scenario. Allow yourself to smile and enjoy the moment, and then try to move on to something else, before the worries have time to creep into your subconscious.

On Thursday, I recommend making yourself as busy as possible. I usually make myself a list of chores or errands that need to be run, which will put me where I need to be a few minutes early, but that's it. The busier you are, the less you'll fret.

 

[CrystalLight]

Forget everything. Because once I'm immersed in the scene, all I can do is focus on my partner. It's all I want to do.

You're not going to stop worrying. I just gotta feeling.

But it's fine.. keep doing it.

Why?

Because once you do experience the scene -- you'll enjoy it ten trillion times more due to realizing all the worrying was for naught.

 

[FLBowler]

As soon as you get there, let out a huge fart. The awkwardness will completely take over and the nervousness will leave. 😀 Also, you're a pretty girl, so you don't have to worry about thinking models are better or some crap. I don't think it's gonna really matter to the dude.

lol classy, are you the ler or lee?

 

[nmqrs]

Overthinking is going to happen, but the best thing to do is to avoid letting that stop you from going into this anyway. The point of the matter is that you're doing something that you enjoy with someone who enjoys the same thing, which means that ultimately, you're both going to walk away happy.

Also, this:

Also, you're a pretty girl, so you don't have to worry about thinking models are better or some crap. I don't think it's gonna really matter to the dude.

 

[chicago]

I don't get as nervous anymore cuz I only let the bubs tickle me these days and we've gotten pretty comfortable with each other over the past year. Sometimes, I'll get butterflies in my stomach if I'm feeling really tickly, but rather than try to ignore my nerves, I always focus on them in hopes it'll make it feel more intense. I'm weird I guess lol

 

[milagros317]

So what do you do to make yourself more relaxed and ready to play?

I take a long, hot bath and relax, thinking that it will be a fine session and a lot of fun.

 

[TickleMyFancy]

I just remember how fucking fun tickling is, and I'm all ready 🙂

 

[notthere22]

tori you are great

 

[giggle-maker]

I just remember how fucking fun tickling is, and I'm all ready 🙂

Doesn't count...you're a ler 🙂

 

[BMoreTklr]

Great question......interested to hear the responses from the lee's of the forum.

 

[xX Yuna Xx]

I sometimes feel the same way. I get nervous and start to think its not the
right time or something lol But like TickleMyFancy said.. just try to think of
how fun and amazing tickling and rope are! 😀

 

[sasaxrah]

I think of new and exciting insults I can hurl in moments of utter frustration. 🙂

If you're worried about something, just distract yourself. Go for a run, get lost on youtube, call a friend. In my experience, fixating about something you're freaking out about is really annoying and it's best to avoid it as best you can.

 

[Ishaanshah]

well i just mentally relax my self before the session starts and as i already known to my partner i have no hesitation .....

 

[LindyHopper]

I don't jump into getting tied up and tickled right away. Dinner, conversation, cuddling, and wrestling around help me connect with the person before I turn myself over to him.