How do you tell if a girl is into tickling?

[tick331]

I have read a lot of topics on this site, and I can see that there are a lot of people like me from an European country who thinks they are alone in the world when it comes to tickling. Well I don´t think we are! I think there are as many ticklees in Europe as it is in USA. The problem I think is that they don´t find the way to sites like this! So how do we find these wonderful ticklish women?
In the office that I work there are the most beautiful women I have ever seen. She looks like a princess from some fairy tale. It´s not very likely that she is a ticklee, but IF she is, and I dont find out about it! What a waste. What can I do without making a fool of myself? I mean, after all, we shall continue to work together. Do you female ticklees have some secret signal to "tell" potential ticklers that you are into tickling?
And while I´m writing, just a curious question to you ticklers: Do you prefer a ticklee that wants to be tickled or a ticklish women who hates it? In your fantasy I mean.
Hope to get some answers! Have a nice day everyone

 

[SyDemon1]

Perhaps

First of all, welcome to the forum!

Well I can't really point out any sure fire way to know if a lady, or guy even, is into tickling. It all depends on the person. If he/she is into tickling and is shy, you might get a vague or or negative reply even if you ask politely and respectfully.

I think the best way is to become close with them and then ask truthfully. You may choose to reveal your own interest in tickling to get encourage them to open up.

Regarding the fantasy, I very very much prefer a ticklee who enjoys it as much as I enjoy being the tickler. The joy must be share for the activity to be enriching and enjoyable, in my opinion.

Oh yeah you might want to look for a wonderful guy known as iluv2tkl, I think he is the one with the answers. 😀

 

[iluv2tkl]

Thanks SyDemon

I have answers that is for sure, maybe not always the best one but answers I always have.

First of all, check out my tickle tips thread, it is called..
(If you love ticklin, you gotta check out this thread)

Any questions you have after reading that I will answer, but it does cover things that you have asked about.

SyDemon is a good buddie of mine and we see eye to eye most of the time. I agree with what he told you.

As far as knowing if a female is ticklish, I wouldn't go around asking and stateing that you are into it.

You see, some women may be into tickling, or may like it and just not know it yet, but being to forward with them could intimidate them and ruin any chance you have to tickle them.

 

[iluv2tkl]

Here is what you do tick33

Find you a very nice girl that would make at least a great friend, and be careful about those supermodel looking ones. If they are in the least bit spoiled, then ods are, tickling them will be no fun.

I believe that every girl can be gently taught to love tickling if you the tickler knows what you are doing.
Get you a good friend and do not try to get in some tickling until you have become pretty close, you do not want to scare them off.

You probably have tons of women around you that would love to be tickled if it was done right to them. So you gotta find out how to do it right. Go to my tips thread and then if you have any questions after that, ask me there.

I am here to help

 

[SyDemon1]

Awesome!

Haha this is great now I too, am enlightened by your advice. Very true. I feel that the spoilt gals may see the tickling not as a show of affection but as a form of discovering their weakness. They'll probably become really annoyed if you tickle them. Blast this comment to bits if you disagree though because I'm stereotyping here.

I believe that every girl can be gently taught to love tickling if you the tickler knows what you are doing.

This is golden. Now that you've mentioned it, I think it's true. If the tickler truthfully shows his aim in tickling, not to bully nor torture, but to indicate affection, I believe a person who may not like being tickled will eventually be converted. This doesn't necessarily mean that she will enjoy being tickled by just anyone, however.

Glad you chose this forum, iluv2tkl. Heh.

 

[iluv2tkl]

You think people will get sick of us SyDemon my buddy?

I totally agreed with everything you said.

I liked your point about the ticklers intentions, very very true.

You may have been stereowhatevering but you are correct.
It is not that a snobby girl wouldn't like to be tickle persey but they will be hard to please. One minute they may lilke it, then the next they do not. You really would not enjoy it because it would be frustrating.

Now if you do not mind stealing one, tying her bch @$$ down and tickling her sensless, only to be caught and put in prison with a big hairy guy named Tiny who does the same to you, then go ahead.

I say, stick with the nice ones.

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[asdfjkl]

Funny comment!...I've met girls like that which are bchy enough that it might seem worth it sometimes! j/k Anyway I know I didn't have anything to do with this conv. but I thought I'd add my opinion. I definitely agree with iluv2tkl about people being able to be converted into liking tickling cuz I hated it myself when I was little. But I now have a girlfriend of 1 1/2 years whom I love getting into tickle fights with (which I usually win of course).

Anyway, the point is I was converted cuz I'm definitely into tickling now so I'm sure there are many who can be as well.

 

[SyDemon1]

You got that right!

Right on studmuffin!

 

[tick331]

Interesting to read all replies. I too believe that a girl can slowly discover that she likes to be tickled if you do it right. But what I would like to find a solution for, is all the women who KNOWS that they are into tickling and would like to meet a tickler, but don´t know how. Somehow I think its easier though for a girl. I mean, if a girl who is into tickling happends to be tickled briefly can easily say: "I actually like beeing tickled" without everyone around finding her to crazy. But if a tickler would say: "I actually like tickling girls" I think people around would think he is a pervert. Do anyone agree or disagree? This is an interesting subject really....

 

[Mousepawz]

LOL well, I don't believe there are any 'secret signals' out there for us females, at least none that I know of.

One thing I know I often do if I am looking for some tickling is I get goofy, and I will instigate things. You know, a little teasing on something, maybe a nudge or two. Things like this. If the guy is into tickling at all, then he will usually start poking and such. Maybe you can take some of this and check. Say if she is a female friend, and you two are goofing on each other, maybe give her a few pokes or such.

Maybe if she stretches and yawns near you, give her a poke or something. You will generally get a reaction, and will find out very quickly if they are into it.

Keep in mind, make sure this is someone you are acquainted with and probably want to be friends with as well. I certianly wouldn't go about doing such to strangers. Good luck!

Pawz

 

[iluv2tkl]

here here

I agree with what paws said, a girl who likes tickling will have signs, it is highly unlikely that she wouldn't.

Now, whether or not you see those signs is a different story. I know that with my girlfriend, now I can see things by her actions that I did not see before. The more you get connected with a person, the better you can read them.

As I have said before, the best tickle partner you will ever have will be your one true love. Finding a good girl that would make a good sole mate is more important than finding one into tickling, if she loves you and you do the right things as a tickler, you will have it made.

Sometimes, the best things a woman enjoys are things she never experienced or heard about.

My girfrreind never saw herself being a very sexual person or enjoying someone touching her in a sexual way.
Of course she would experiment with herself as we all do , but she had a hard time seeing herself let a man do it.

Well, to make a long story short, within a few months I a bringing her to near orgasm an a weekly basis, she only doesn't have one because I stop before she does (we are not married yet but will be soon). Even though she never thought she would, she loves me to touch her down there. She gets so wet that her panties get soaked and even her pants she is wearing.