How exactly is "Stop it I'm ticklish!" supposed to discourage tickling?

[PinupLover]

Biological processes are very fascinating. Tickling somebody you're attracted to can be a very intense and very fulfilling turn-on. But what if this person says "Stop it, I'm ticklish"? And I'm not saying you shouldn't respect their wishes... but if I'm tickling a very attractive woman and she tells me that... believe me, that is ONLY going to encourage me! I mean all sorts of emotions burst forth upon hearing that very satisfying bit of news! If a woman tells me she's ticklish between hysterical fits of laughter, not only am I going to be turned on like nobody's business... but I am gonna want to tickle her even more to see exactly how ticklish she is.

Ladies? how about it? Does the same apply to you? If you're tickling your partner and he/she begs you to stop because he's/she's ticklish, are you just going to do it more and get super turned on? Or are you going to stop because... *chuckle* you respect his/her wishes? 😀

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I'm not a ler so I can't answer that part. And I never say, "Stop it, I'm ticklish," so I can't speak directly to that, but I understand the compulsion. You feel like if the other person really knew what you were going through, they would stop. That's why sometimes I find myself saying, "You don't understand!" Because I'm convinced in that moment that if they really understood what was happening to me they wouldnt keep doing it. Same principle applies, I think.

 

[marzbarz]

I wouldn't be able to restrain myself. I toetally agree. xD

 

[Mane'o]

For a ler, the strong urge is to continue tickling, but the prudent thing to do is to ease up. Get to know the person and the desired prolonged tickling may come.

 

[ticklechambers]

hahahaha I would not stop at all! I totally agree here, I'd just make everything worse for them hahaha

 

[Wade]

I confess I've been driven to say things like that -- "Don't, I'm really ticklish," "Stop it that tickles" -- because one's brain doesn't always make the smartest choices in such a moment of urgency. In one's defense, there are people in the world who, hearing that, would compassionately stop tickling -- I just haven't met any of them yet.

 

[milagros317]

"Stop it, I'm so ticklish!" If I were to say that, it would be to provoke the ler and make her keep on tickling me. 😀

 

[Deleted member 2452]

those words are like gas on a fire!

steve

 

[MrTicklefeet]

My favorite line which is very rarely said is "This isn't funny." It's such a contrast.

 

[BXTCKLR]

I feel the same way. If nI am the ler - I would keep tickling to a point (don't want the lee to get upset to the point she won't let me tickle her again). But to me - it's a que to tickle more. And just like Milagros says. If I am the lee, I would say something similar to have the ler continue tickling ! 🙂

 

[Wesker28]

Well why does a person say be careful i'm ticklish, it's their way of saying tickle me... Well in most cases!
I think again in most cases stop it i'm ticklish is another way of saying tickle me in a subtle way, as most people enjoying it know that it will psychologically make people tickle them more.

 

[Wade]

My favorite line which is very rarely said is "This isn't funny." It's such a contrast.

Yes!! I've found myself saying that (through cackling laughter) many times as well -- which of course just helps to make it all even more hilarious to the tickler(s), and guarantees that the experience will be prolonged further.

A related remark is "Not there!" -- the single least helpful thing a ticklish person can say to a committed tickler, and yet my naive animal instincts come out with it nearly every time fingers wander wickedly to a particularly vulnerable spot. Each time, even as I'm blurting it out involuntarily through hiccuping giggles, I know I've only guaranteed that they will devote even more time and attention to just that very spot.

 

[voided9]

My husband and I went out with one of his buddies last night and his friend started poking me in the side, and I couldn't help but say "Ah stop, it tickles!" which obviously got him going more. My husband knows I love it so he told his friend "If you REALLY want her to scream, get her neck!" It was horrible/amazing having two people doing it at once. But yeah...telling someone that you're ticklish isn't going to help you. =P

 

[PinupLover]

My husband and I went out with one of his buddies last night and his friend started poking me in the side, and I couldn't help but say "Ah stop, it tickles!" which obviously got him going more. My husband knows I love it so he told his friend "If you REALLY want her to scream, get her neck!" It was horrible/amazing having two people doing it at once. But yeah...telling someone that you're ticklish isn't going to help you. =P

Those are some very lucky guys. 😉

 

[No_Style]

hrm good question! I wonder why people say that? being ticklish and utterly embarrassed to say the word, i'd never say that 😛

 

[scorpionldr]

Biological processes are very fascinating. Tickling somebody you're attracted to can be a very intense and very fulfilling turn-on. But what if this person says "Stop it, I'm ticklish"? And I'm not saying you shouldn't respect their wishes... but if I'm tickling a very attractive woman and she tells me that... believe me, that is ONLY going to encourage me! I mean all sorts of emotions burst forth upon hearing that very satisfying bit of news! If a woman tells me she's ticklish between hysterical fits of laughter, not only am I going to be turned on like nobody's business... but I am gonna want to tickle her even more to see exactly how ticklish she is.

Ladies? how about it? Does the same apply to you? If you're tickling your partner and he/she begs you to stop because he's/she's ticklish, are you just going to do it more and get super turned on? Or are you going to stop because... *chuckle* you respect his/her wishes? 😀

I don't really have any relationships, but when I dated, I found it to be funny. They'd talk about being "forced" to laugh and this and that. I think it's a control sort of deal. but I lately am tryin g to respect people's wishes as I feel maybe my luck will change.

 

[simon420]

I would say that when my ex girlfriend would tickle me, and she'd stop. She'd say that I wouldn't say stop unless I meant it. But I don't want it to stop. I hope it makes my ler tickle me more.

 

[Merciless1]

Biological processes are very fascinating. Tickling somebody you're attracted to can be a very intense and very fulfilling turn-on. But what if this person says "Stop it, I'm ticklish"? And I'm not saying you shouldn't respect their wishes... but if I'm tickling a very attractive woman and she tells me that... believe me, that is ONLY going to encourage me! I mean all sorts of emotions burst forth upon hearing that very satisfying bit of news! If a woman tells me she's ticklish between hysterical fits of laughter, not only am I going to be turned on like nobody's business... but I am gonna want to tickle her even more to see exactly how ticklish she is.

Ladies? how about it? Does the same apply to you? If you're tickling your partner and he/she begs you to stop because he's/she's ticklish, are you just going to do it more and get super turned on? Or are you going to stop because... *chuckle* you respect his/her wishes? 😀

Simple...It's NOT! The word stop is an automatic response. Merely saying stop means nothing.

 

[MrTicklefeet]

I would say that when my ex girlfriend would tickle me, and she'd stop. She'd say that I wouldn't say stop unless I meant it. But I don't want it to stop. I hope it makes my ler tickle me more.

Then don't say 'stop.' Just say 'yes!'

 

[Scouse]

Not many with this fetish are brave enough to approach a member of the opposite sex, all "Hey I want to tickle you, so I'm going to". Its always "are you ticklish" then a creepy look followed by creepy fingers coming at you as the creepy look gets creepier. A kid in school did this to me once.

I think "stop it, I'm ticklish" is an ever so polite way of saying "I don't want you touching me. Screw you, creepo".

 

[chrisheaven]

That phrase has never made me stop

 

[DontAskJusTckle]

How exactly is "Stop it I'm ticklish!" supposed to discourage tickling?

It's supposed to discourage tickling by communicating to the tickler a demand to cease the current activity (tickling) because said activity carries a negative impact (I'm ticklish).