How have you grown

[hammer157]

Evening all. After being on this site for over 8 years and collecting material on tickling for almost 30 years I began to wonder how my fantasies have changed. Always have had a love for stockings but went from fishnets to thigh-hi's. From black to white nylons. Changed from having a ticklee restrained only spread eagle now to all sorts of positions. I've noticed that recently I've become more favorable to tickling underarms and from spiked heels to mules/slides and a variety of shoes.

My question is how has your taste changed as you have progressed.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

Hmmmm.... I opened the thread expecting the question from the title and found you were asking something else. So, I guess I'll answer both.

How have my tastes changed? I'm more into a more prolonged intense and helpless experience than I was before. I'm also much more comfortable in the lee role than I was when I first got online with all of this.

How have I grown? I've learned a lot about myself and others and have come to be more accepting of other folks' ways of seeing things than I ever thought I could be. I'm also much more accepting of myself and my love of tickling since getting the stick out of my ass and realizing that not everything I was taught is necessarily accurate...or even reasonable in some cases.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I'm still very young and very inexperienced. The more I'm exposed to, tickling and otherwise, the more I find myself getting into or finding interesting. I'm continuing to change all the time.

 

[milagros317]

Over the years I've wanted to be restrained more, made completely helpless, while being tickled. 😀

 

[ArizonaTickler]

Actually, I used to mostly fantasize about being the tickler, and slowly as time has gone on, I've fantasized more and more about being the ticklee.

 

[-Hari-]

Hmm, nothing much has changed as far as my desires, I alwasy wanted the same things.

I guess over time I got alot better at getting what I wanted and meeting lots of new people during my quest, some have become close friends to me, this changed my view a little.

So I suppose you could say that I see things differently now, originaly I wanted to find ticklish girls, Now I seek ticklish friends.

 

[Mostly Harmless]

Physically, I abandoned tummies at all, and opposite - made a little step in the feet.

Generally, I now more in lees violent reactions (instead of tickling itself), therefore changed hard type bondages for light, which allows lees as much freedom as yet I can hold them.
Also, of course, sensual T seized its rightful - due to growing up - major part of it.

 

[ViperGTS]

Physically, I abandoned tummies at all, and opposite - made a little step in the feet.

Generally, I now more in lees violent reactions (instead of tickling itself), therefore changed hard type bondages for light, which allows lees as much freedom as yet I can hold them.
Also, of course, sensual T seized its rightful - due to growing up - major part of it.

This post makes me smile because I think MH is using a translator, and it's not -quite- accurate. However, I get the jist of the post. Thanks for your contribution, Mostly Harmless.

When I was younger, I thought neckties and four-poster beds were the bomb - in the past 8 years I've "grown up" so to speak - from very simple bondage and nothing more than tickling, to my own bondage furniture, suspension techniques, tickle torture, costumes (in my personal life), spanking, D/s, forced orgasms and orgasm denial, and video making.

 

[tickler814]

Had my first tickle experience 34 yrs ago with my then headmistress....who was wearing a suit,blouse,skirt,sheer nylons and open heeled shoes....and since that day its always been nylons and heels......went through the restraining/restrained phase...but recently have found myself going back to the ceo/lady boss/headmistress thing where they are sat at a desk on the phone or in a meeting...and i'm laid under there desks ready for slow sexy shoe removal...and stockinged foot tickling...just as i was all those years ago....so i've gone full circle...which is no bad thing !!!!!!

 

[RosieCreek]

I think the best thing for me is that I have lost the shame I always felt for my desires. The most surprising thing is that I have turned into more of a ler than I ever anticipated.

 

[Libertine]

Eureka!!

When I was younger, I thought neckties and four-poster beds were the bomb - in the past 8 years I've "grown up" so to speak ... costumes (in my personal life...and video making.

Well, that clears up a mystery- I was certain, when I happened to see you guiltily buying that French Maid's uniform, that it looked a bit big for Sapphire.

Kittentoes and I look forward to catching up on all the new developments in your life.

On the usual more serious note, it looks like V. and I will be able to make NEST this year, and we look forward to seeing you two.

 

[Mostly Harmless]

This post makes me smile because I think MH is using a translator, and it's not -quite- accurate. However, I get the jist of the post. Thanks for your contribution, Mostly Harmless.

Thanks for the kind words, Viper.
And no, I'm yet able to make mistakes myself =)

 

[Coup de Grace]

This isn't pertaining to tickling, but I've grown to dislike stockings over the years... unless the flesh is hideously scarred.