How important are looks

[ticklemad]

I sometimes see folks talk about BBW tickling and there have been numerous posts by people over various sites saying they like it yet you rarely see it. Are looks really so important to people when tickling or if you've got a 300lb woman would her size really matter if she was ticklish as hell.

 

[ufodude]

depends if she likes to be tickled. 😉

 

[natural tickler]

Doesn't matter, as long as she's ticklish, that's all that counts. They all make the same faces regardless of looks😀

 

[The Sean Man]

Yeah. When you start tickling a ticklish person, looks go out the window

The Sean Man

 

[steph]

Speaking as more of a lee, here but...

Looks play no part at all. He has to be someone who's fun, who's earned my trust and who'd always "play safe" with me. The rest is irrelevant.

XOXO

 

[tommytikl]

I have tickled just about every sized woman and in the end the ticklishness matter most, actually most of my best ticklees are considered BBW or "big boned"...

 

[kcantankerous]

my 2 cents

I tickle anyone as long as they are female it doesnt make a difference. However, I am inclined to say that I perfer tickling women with an athletic build. But I enjoy tickling any woman as long as shes ticklish. If this dont make since I will clarify if need be.

 

[maniactickler]

i need to feel somewhat of an attraction. by no means do they have to be models. but i have to have a little connection with them physically.

 

[Double T]

Ugly women are a total turn off! If I'm going to engage in any sort of tickling the woman MUST be beautiful!

Now, doesn't that sound stupid?

Actually, the above for me is true, if we're talking about the inside of a person. Their hearts, minds, and (dare I say it?) souls.

True beauty comes from within. Everything else is secondary.

 

[kyle]

For me, I go by the same rules as dating, there's got to be an attraction.

 

[TicklishSinner]

I dont see why looks matter in any case, not just tickling, are people really that damn shallow to say "I will only tickle a model who looks like Paris Hilton?"

 

[steph]

LMAO!

Yeah Little Mama...They're called "People Who Will Never Get a Model Who Looks Like Paris Hilton..." 😛 😛 😛

XOXO

I dont see why looks matter in any case, not just tickling, are people really that damn shallow to say "I will only tickle a model who looks like Paris Hilton?"

 

[fitnesstickle]

Re: LMAO!

Yeah Little Mama...They're called "People Who Will Never Get a Model Who Looks Like Paris Hilton..." 😛 😛 😛

XOXO

How about 'Those who crave a Siren who Looks is Steph'😀

 

[steph]

XOXO

 

[Double T]

I dont see why looks matter in any case, not just tickling, are people really that damn shallow to say "I will only tickle a model who looks like Paris Hilton?"

EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW! Maybe I'm in the minority, but I would't touch Paris Hilton for ANY reason! Ohh! Ohh! Ick! Blargh!

 

[tklr5150]

Everyone seems to be thinking the only two schools of thought on attraction are:

-Looks don't matter at all, the body is simply a vessel, or

-If you do think looks are important, it means you're a superficial ass who's holding out for a supermodel.


I tend to think very few people don't put any importance on physical attraction, and there's nothing wrong with that. It is natural, and it does have to exist. How one defines that attraction differs, but it almost always plays a role in any sort of social-sexual exchange.

For me, that's exactly what tickling is. I couldn't tickle anyone who I didn't consider physically attractive. Now, my definition of physically attractive is pretty broad - it doesn't mean that I'm waiting for the spitting image of Katie Holmes to walk into my life. But I'd be lying if I said I'd tickle (or date or sleep with) a girl I didn't find the least bit cute.

 

[kcantankerous]

I dont give a damn about paris hilton I think shes average myself, too skinny. Anyways I feel if you have good hygene, and are health, and active than its hard to not be attractive in my eyes. Unless of course your personality sucks lol.

 

[Mitchell]

Okay, here's my two cents. For me, looks are secondary. The most important thing for me in regard to a woman are a good heart, good mind, and character. That being said, any woman I date or marry would have to be somewhat physically attractive, because of the idea of being intimate with that individual. She doesnt have to be a beauty contest winner, but it would be necessary for me to be at least somewhat turned on by her.
One final note. Honestly, as much as I like tickling, I would rather have someone who is a 2 or 3 on the tickle scale, who has all the other qualities I'm looking for in a woman, then someone who is a 10 + ticklish who has a horrible personality, or who I just dont get along with. For me, good character and personality is most important, because if you dont have that, what do you do the other 23 + hours of the day when you're not having sex with her or tickling her?

Mitch

 

[kcantankerous]

girls sound off so far I only here guys thoughts on the issue the question goes both ways

 

[P50]

The curse of super-good looks.

May I posit an impossible scenario for readers here ?

Suppose you were personally able to somehow get the 3 most physically attractive members of the opposite sex, from the closest 33 high schools, whose birth year is the same as yours, and you had Jim Lang and "The Dating Game" with a full month to ask each and every one of them any and all questions that you wanted, and then you got to date each one of them three times; let's say, a lunch in public, a dinner party, and an evening together with some romantic interplay involved.

I give you my personal promise that you would never get to the 20th [[--babe-or-hunk--]]; you would become so sick of them that you would probably lose interest in sex and the human race.

Not <I>EVERY</I> gorgeous babe and magnetic hunk has a repulsive personality; but my personal observation is that a huge majority of such persons have come to expect (before their 18th birthday) impossible requirements of any human who might be worthy of their time on a date. I have observed that they place every social and/or romantic relationship into their "odds computer" and evaluate every prospsective suitor on a competitive analysis much the same as I personally analyze groceries, new cars, mattresses, software, or real estate transactions; i.e., what will best fit my needs at this particular moment in my life ?

Until you have been used as a social practice dummy by one of these putative "ultra-humans" (what a stupid term) you will never truly grasp any of what I'm saying here.

The result is that I actively and purposely avoid the top X-percent of good-lookers. (X is a small number, not clearly defined in my brain.) If she's a <U><I>Babe Babe <B>BABE !</B> </I> </U> beyond belief, I probably won't have anything to do with her; based (unfairly, I confess, but statistically viable nonetheless) on my observations of others in my history who were similarly "gifted".

 

[shylittleme]

tickling and looks don't really mean all that much to me. sure i'd like a cute girl when tickling her but she does not have to be all super super skinny and have good sexy features all the way around. like a plastic barbie doll from toys r us. thats not the type of person i am! if she is nice and has a fun loving and sweet heart about her then thats what should really matter. But looks and cuteness a still a plus don't get me wrong

 

[leafstk]

EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW! Maybe I'm in the minority, but I would't touch Paris Hilton for ANY reason! Ohh! Ohh! Ick! Blargh!

You nuts man? I'd tickle her senseless if it were possible, lol 😀

But really, no... looks are certainly not everything. Attraction is important, but many things attract me to a girl besides looks. Once you get to know a person and get a sense of their being, that is way more attractive to me, I'm certainly not superficial. And as far as tickling goes, as long as they're ticklish, they're okay with me! 😀

 

[leafstk]

Re: The curse of super-good looks.

That may be true of the club culture, P, but certainly not of all the "babes" out there 🙂 I've been fortunate enough to date some gorgeous women over the years, none of whom fit this description you speak of... but we all know the types you mean, don't get me wrong. Just gotta look in the right places 😉 🙂

May I posit an impossible scenario for readers here ?

Suppose you were personally able to somehow get the 3 most physically attractive members of the opposite sex, from the closest 33 high schools, whose birth year is the same as yours, and you had Jim Lang and "The Dating Game" with a full month to ask each and every one of them any and all questions that you wanted, and then you got to date each one of them three times; let's say, a lunch in public, a dinner party, and an evening together with some romantic interplay involved.

I give you my personal promise that you would never get to the 20th [[--babe-or-hunk--]]; you would become so sick of them that you would probably lose interest in sex and the human race.

Not <I>EVERY</I> gorgeous babe and magnetic hunk has a repulsive personality; but my personal observation is that a huge majority of such persons have come to expect (before their 18th birthday) impossible requirements of any human who might be worthy of their time on a date. I have observed that they place every social and/or romantic relationship into their "odds computer" and evaluate every prospsective suitor on a competitive analysis much the same as I personally analyze groceries, new cars, mattresses, software, or real estate transactions; i.e., what will best fit my needs at this particular moment in my life ?

Until you have been used as a social practice dummy by one of these putative "ultra-humans" (what a stupid term) you will never truly grasp any of what I'm saying here.

The result is that I actively and purposely avoid the top X-percent of good-lookers. (X is a small number, not clearly defined in my brain.) If she's a <U><I>Babe Babe <B>BABE !</B> </I> </U> beyond belief, I probably won't have anything to do with her; based (unfairly, I confess, but statistically viable nonetheless) on my observations of others in my history who were similarly "gifted".

 

[babinsky]

.......The only requirments that I have...She must have skin..
And hair would be nice..

 

[TicklingIsLife]

Yeah. When you start tickling a ticklish person, looks go out the window

The Sean Man

Amen.