How important are looks

[gearloose]

looks

I sometimes wish that looks were not so important for me but I would not have fun tickling a woman that I do not find physically attractive. Although they might be the nicest and most ticklish women I would not like to tickle a woman who is really overweight. I am sure there are others who just like this and could not imagine to tickle a rather slim woman. 🙂
As I said....sometime I wish that it were not so important because this limits a bit the chances to find...
Another thing that is important to me are attractive eyes because I like to look into them while tickling.

Best regards,
Gear

 

[kj_alrenn]

Personally i don't think your partner has to be beautiful or attractive per say. What's important is that YOU are attracted to EACHOTHER.

Attraction comes in three forms: physical, mental, and emotional. ( <-- Beleive it or not, i get that from highschool sex ed.) It's when all three forms are presant that two people can really hit it off. Tickling is no exctption i think. 🙂

 

[mgctouch]

Looks may attract me to a potential tickle partner...

...but looks won't disqualify anybody. As long as my tickle partners are good people who enjoy tickling and being tickled, I am happy!

 

[Sunday_10pm]

For me, I go by the same rules as dating, there's got to be an attraction.

Perfectly put. Attraction is important to me too. It doesn't have to have anything to do with looks - Some people can be sexy whilst not that great looking, and some I find really unattractive despite their good looks.

I see lots of people have already beaten me to it - well put everyone - ed.

 

[chrisheaven]

😀 agree entirely

 

[lite]

girls sound off so far I only here guys thoughts on the issue the question goes both ways

At this year's NEST, I had no shortage of people willing to tickle me. I'm not a model or anything (Go to Venray's site to see pics of me at NEST...and yes, I AM a girl, painted-on mustache and goatee notwithstanding!), but there must be some other redeeming quality that I have that makes people want to tickle me. 🙂

When I am a 'ler, I require three things of a 'lee: 1) ticklishness; 2) a good personality; and 3) good hygiene. Looks don't mean anything if those three things aren't there. 😉

 

[Mimi]

If were just talking fun, playful tickling for the sake of giggling senseless (like what you'd see and experience at a gathering or with a group of your friends hanging out one evening), then looks mean absolutely nothing at all. You do not pick your friends based on how they look. That WOULD be shallow, since attraction plays no role in friendship. You can be totally unattractive, and still have a great giggle, be ticklish as hell, be blessed with a killer personality, and be one of the most fun people imaginable to hang around with. And those qualities alone would render you attractive in a beneath the skin manner.

However, if were talking tickling in an intimate or sexual manner, then I think some form of attraction would be necessary unless you have no ethics what-so-ever. But that does not mean anyone is or should be exluded from the intimate tickling pool. Everyone is beautiful in someones eyes. Look at me. I am the woman ticklemad described in her original post in this thread. Yet I am engaged to a gorgeous fellow ticklephile who considers me to be the most beautiful woman on the planet, and I get tickled senseless every day.

So to answer your question, yes. A big girl can get and have every bit as much tickle-lovin fun as a small girl. They just gotta find the right partner. And believe me, they ARE out there. Lots of em.

Thank God I found me one of em'. 😀

Mimi

 

[hiram]

I suppose you need to discount a little of this because I have been cursed (blessed?) with an intense tickle fetish for as long as I can remember. So...

It seems to me that whenever I have seen a desperately ticklish woman helpless and in the throes of a non-stop tickle attack, well, she is, at that moment, at least tied for the most beautiful woman on earth.

Then...as long as the subject of this thread at least partially meanders down a path that has interested me since high school...and this also must be discounted as such things are always personal preference, absolutely...

If you are a guy who likes to tickle women, and if you haven't tickled a woman of the full figured persuasion, then you've missed out on some of the best fun the tickle world has to offer. I can't imagine anything sexier that a woman of the curve as she gets into her forties or fifties. As I have posted at length on this subject here and on AMT over the last few whiles, I won't repeat it here, although don't promise anything for the future. I do believe that the lasses develop the way they do because over the millennia the lads have preferred it that way, and it's only since about 1920 that the world has been turned on its collective ear so to speak regarding shapely women. So, maybe I'm a dinosaur, but that doesn't alter the fun of tickling a gorgeous woman of the curve.

Some day we'll spend some time revisiting discussions on the backs of a woman's knees...

 

[kis123]

However, if were talking tickling in an intimate or sexual manner, then I think some form of attraction would be necessary unless you have no ethics what-so-ever. But that does not mean anyone is or should be exluded from the intimate tickling pool. Everyone is beautiful in someones eyes. Look at me. I am the woman ticklemad described in her original post in this thread. Yet I am engaged to a gorgeous fellow ticklephile who considers me to be the most beautiful woman on the planet, and I get tickled senseless every day.

So to answer your question, yes. A big girl can get and have every bit as much tickle-lovin fun as a small girl. They just gotta find the right partner. And believe me, they ARE out there. Lots of em.

Thank God I found me one of em'. 😀

Mimi

*As kis whistles, cheers, and does her happy dance*
Yeah!
What she said!
And furthermore....Big girls love tickling and lovin' like everyone else. I'm a pretty big chick and have my share of tickle partners. If he has the skills to handle the big girls, he has my vote everytime!

Nothing against small-size lovers, but there are some men (and women) who like their steaks thin, and some like them thick and juicy! Glad for the variety!

 

[Knox The Hatter]

I've made no secret of my attraction to big women...

As far as THIS goes...the only thing that matters to me is if you break out in insane, uncontrollable laughter when I profer fingers and dig in. No squirming, no pained expressions, no yipping like some stupid animal, no forced, annoying half-laughter. I want hearty, beautiful laughter...and I could give two shits for what you look like.
With a couple of exceptions, we have people here in this thread with broad tastes. I have nothing against those couple of exceptions, either, I don't wanna leave the wrong impression. Isn't it interesting, though, how we have these people here, and over in the Images and Clips, we have people drooling over the Paris Hiltons of the world, and would have a frickin' fit if they saw someone there with an abundance of size?

 

[babinsky]

.....Hmmmm...I must be in the minority...My only requirement for a lee:..She must be willing...

 

[TicklingIsLife]

.....Hmmmm...I must be in the minority...My only requirement for a lee:..She must be willing...

That would kinda stink if she's not...🙄

 

[EvlJester]

what are looks? if you really wanna know someone look into their soul and really see how that person looks.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

a(nother) girl's point of view...

Not to repeat what's already been said, but aside from any grotesque disfigurations (is that a word?) like four heads or (God forbid!) no fingers!!! the only thing that matters is that he actually TICKLES as opposed to hurting (isn't that the biggest disappointment?? You think you're about to be tickled, and next thing ya know you're in pain!) and he has good hygeine. I don't really want to be more focused on somebody's unpleasant odor than I am on the tickling. Other than that, looks don't matter to me. Oh, yeah, and he usually has to be a guy, too. I'm not too big on getting tickled by other girls. Just a preference.

 

[tickleshotel]

another female ticklee,ler opinion

I would have to agree that I don't put alot of emphasis
on looks being absolutely important when it comes to receiving,
giving tickles in a playful spontaneous manner,or being at a
gathering and tickling a helpless vulnerable ticklee that I
can sense is squirming in Anticipation to burst out with
hysterical laughter 🙂. I;d rather tickle a guy that has a good personality,is extremely ticklish ,loves to be lovable giving friendly bearhugs all the time(I love that!) than a guy who is so good looking and KNOWS it,has straight white teeth and is only mildly ticklish .
That said,I consider myself a cutie,I am so extremely ticklish that when my hubby caresses the inside of my palms that it tickles LOL,but not nearly as hyper ticklish as my small feet 😛 and armpits . I am a believer that looks are in the eyes of the beholder.

 

[Sunday_10pm]

what are looks? if you really wanna know someone look into their soul and really see how that person looks.

you're one hell of a guy jester

 

[kis123]

what are looks? if you really wanna know someone look into their soul and really see how that person looks.

Hey! You got any brothers? An uncle maybe? Anyone who likes older Black women?😀 They gotta think like you. You're pretty mature for a young guy!

Blue One, looks like you have a keeper!!!!!!!😉