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how long do you keep someone on your list?

steph

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Your IMs, address books, what have you...I've had the same email addy for years and have literally hundreds of people on my lists, some who I've never even spoken with. Since it's spring and I'm avoiding dealing with the house 😉 what do y'all think is a fair amount of time to keep someone on, you've never, or rarely communicate with?

XOXO
 
If it's not someone you talk to all the time or haven't in sometime I think I'd delete them
:dropatear
 
Well, in my house cleaning I LOVE to throw things away and I'm like that with numbers, addresses etc... I like my life to be uncluttered... I get rid of things often and I rarely regret it.
 
I'm a total packrat~sentimental about everything~I HATE getting rid of stuff. And people too, well, unless they deserve it...

XOXO
 
ticklkitten said:
Well, in my house cleaning I LOVE to throw things away and I'm like that with numbers, addresses etc... I like my life to be uncluttered... I get rid of things often and I rarely regret it.

I'd like to be just like you when I grow up! :rotate: :rotate:

I'm not just the president of the Packrat Club, but I'm also a founding member! :xpulcy: :xpulcy:
 
Hee hee! You cutie kis! :jester:
What do ya think it says about us as people? I mean, what the heck? And why can't we get past this?

XOXO

kis123 said:
I'd like to be just like you when I grow up! :rotate: :rotate:

I'm not just the president of the Packrat Club, but I'm also a founding member! :xpulcy: :xpulcy:
 
My issues are unfortunately genetic! All but one of my sisters is a packrat. My mom was such a horrible packrat, it took over a month to clean her place out after she died. Stuff was everywhere!

I have issues with letting go......I can't help myself!!!! :veryhappy
 
steph said:
... what do y'all think is a fair amount of time to keep someone on, you've never, or rarely communicate with?

XOXO

Somewhere between one and two years, then delete them.
 
I think Sadira and I are the fortunate ones. You will NEVER delete or get rid of us babe :bouncybou :wavingguy
 
For Instant Messaging. If i dont feel like i connect with you in some way (with interests or hobbies) or your just really totally boring when i'm talking to you. Then your BLOCKED and also DELETED off of my buddie list. simple as that :dogpile:

I don't care if your a girl with the best looking boobs in the whole world. If you bore me or i don't connect with you. See ya! :wavingguy
 
It depends....some things I keep forever and other I toss out fairly quickly. I tend to pack rat things a fair bit.
 
Thanks gang, I think Mil's one-two years makes good sense, don't you?
XOXO
 
If I've never talked to them, I would trash it, but otherwise if you remember them and you can think of ANY reason to keep them around, go ahead, you'll never know when you'll need to talk to someone in podunk louisiana 😉 just archive things an get them out of the way though.
 
Well I'm such a neat freak so if I don't talk to them regular or it's not someone I have met in person, I delete them just to keep the list somewhat down. I figure if they want to get in contact, they'll find me somehow.

Sandee
 
Waste 'em

steph said:
Thanks gang, I think Mil's one-two years makes good sense, don't you?
XOXO
If you haven't talked to them in over a year, how good of a friend could they possibly be?
 
All great points. I'd just hate to have them pop on out of the blue to say hi and have to look like a schmuck~"Uh, sorry, do I know you?"

XOXO
 
But the chance of that happening is remote Steph. If they have not spoke to you in over a year they have either moved on with their lives or they will understand that they have not been in touch so you are likely to forget. Yanno what I mean?
 
I hear ya

But don't y'all have those friends who pop in and out of your life from time to time, just to say they were thinking about you, only to disappear again for months after? Course, I'd probably remember their names if they'd been around that long, I'd hope anyway. I'm better at faces than I am with names.

XOXO

ticklingfeet4fu said:
But the chance of that happening is remote Steph. If they have not spoke to you in over a year they have either moved on with their lives or they will understand that they have not been in touch so you are likely to forget. Yanno what I mean?
 
I don't have any friends babe so I don't have to worry about that honey. Besides, I have Sadira and you what more do I need? :rotate:
 
Liar!
Everyone I know who knows you likes you! Silly!
XOXO
 
steph said:
Liar!
Everyone I know who knows you likes you! Silly!
XOXO
Oh I forgot about my son. He likes me a little bit too. 😛 Who do you know that likes me anyway? I want to me them. 😛
 
If you meant MEET them, you already have! :Kiss1:
XOXO
 
ticklingfeet4fu said:
Really? Who babe? I haven't met you yet. 😛

Maybe not in the physical sense but you already know everything that is important.
 
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