How long to tickle??

[Ticklishmale]

Here`s a question,

Whats the longest time you have tickled someone for or have been tickled your self??

 

[blktk75]

Hi, I'm a male tickler and ticklee, with a girlfriend who shares my tickling/foot fetish. I can say that in a consensual tickling session, time depends on the ticklee desire; I wouldn't tickle my "victim" more if I see she has had enough. As a ticklee I wouldn't let my tickler to tie me up if she won't stop when I say the safeword. Tickling is a beautiful game to play with partners or friends, but the golden rule is RESPECT. Anyway, this is my thought about it, I hope it will be useful to you. 😉

 

[MistressValerie1]

I agree with Blktk, about safety and respect for one's 'lee. The longest I have ever tickled someone continuously must have been about 10 minutes, and I believe that my best female 'ler had tickled me for about 15 minutes or so on a few occasions. All of this was accomplished without bondage, which I do not practice in real life (but I enjoy writing it into some of my stories ... 😉 ).

Love and laughter,

 

[iluv2tkl]

I agree and have some thoughts to share

Ticklling is beautiful and it is about respect.

I would go into detail here about my thoughts and tips for knowing how long to tickle and what happens if you do not know when to say when, but I have a current thread going about tickling tips and tricks that is quite popular.
Please check out my views there.

It is tip number 19 I believe.

The thread is called...
(If you love ticklin you gotta check out this thread)

My goal is to help us all be better at what we love. please visit and share what you think about the tips.

 

[SyDemon1]

I agree

I am completely for the idea that tickling is about respect. I also give room for my ticklee to stop me if she has too much, that means no restrains on her. It shouldn't be to the point that it becomes a torture for her, unless she actually enjoys being tickled without mercy, then that's a different story, because it's not suffering anymore 😀

When a ticklee is bound and helpless, "With great power comes great responsibilities", the tickler must be responsible for the welfare of the ticklee. If she received beyond what she can endure, I think she would never let you tickle her that way again for a long time.
In other words, do not betray the trust the ticklee has in you as the tickler.

As for your question, I've tickled for about 3 minutes I guess. Most of the time I would stop to check on my ticklee periodically. Need to give her breaks and also to let the ticklish areas recharge! 😀

 

[iluv2tkl]

good stuff

I agree

 

[iluv2tkl]

O HA HA HA

Don't worry squirmer, you didn't worry me. I did wonder why you where saying it just to me and not where everyone can see.

 

[Molson1]

Tickling for me isn't about respect, and I think if most people are honest with themselves, they know it's not for them either. It's about control. Having the ability to make someone laugh when maybe they don't even want to is the greatest rush in the world. I've had my wife tied down and tickled her for about 40 minutes a few times. After that, she's too turned on/exhuasted from laughing to stand it. But it's wonderful for both of us!

 

[iluv2tkl]

ummm

Well, to me it is a respectfull thing. I mean, if someone deep down does not want to be tickled, then they shouldn't be.

My girlfriend will say no or stop sometimes but she really doesn't want me to stop. If I were to stop she would be disappointed.

I kinda don't get what you said. You said it is not about respect but control, and you talked about your wife, but in the story you said that in the end, she is happy. So where were you not being respectful? If her whishes are for you to tickle her like that, then you didn't do anything out of respect for her wishes.

Now of course I like feeling like I am in control when I tickle my girl but even if she is tied up, she is ultimately in control because if she really genuinelly wanted me to stop, the I would.

Are you telling me that if your wife cried for you to please stop, and she really ment it, that you would keep on going being the control freak you are?

I doubt you would.
Tickling is different from most other things when it comes to repect and control. The tickler may seem in control, especially in a bondage situation, but ultimately the ticklee's wishes are manifested, just as your wife likes what you did to her.

Unless you are one of those turds who usually end up in prison for liking control a little too much, you are never completely in control and you will always show some respect to your ticklee's whishes

 

[iluv2tkl]

furthermore

I was being honest with myself.