How Many Of Your Friends "Know" About Your Fetish(es)

[Mitchell]

Hopefully this thread will be a lot less controversial than my last one, and will generate some interesting discussion.

My question to the forum is: How many of your real life friends know about your tickling.. or foot fetish? Do you discuss it with them, the details, fantasies you have about tickling, etc.. or do you keep it to yourself?

I'm just talking "friends" here. I dont mean romance,, same sex relationships, opposite sex relationships, husband wife, other family, etc, just friends.

For me, only three of my friends in my whole life know/knew about the extent of my fetishes.

My ex best friend knew that I used to think about his sister getting held up by a tickling/toe sucking bandit, and that I belong to tickle and foot forums.

My friend Adam knows that I used to think about his sister getting held up by toe sucking bandits, and that I belong to forums.

My friend Barney has a hot sister. He's told me when he's seen her barefoot a few times, and he knows I belong to the forums, but he doesnt know I've fantasized about her getting it from a tickle bandit, even though I know his fetishes.

So, thats the question. How many of your R/L friends know about your fetishes? Are you comfortable discussing it. Yes, or no, and why?

Mitch

 

[3xPIN]

Yeah, like 3. You know, it just comes up. Not usually something my friends and I talk about.

 

[Leo tickles]

All of them. No shame man, no shame. They get off on tits, I get off on tickling... and?

 

[tickledorange]

A lot. I figure if they tell me about their sex life, why not tell them about mine?

 

[Libertine]

My ex best friend knew that I used to think about his sister getting held up by a tickling/toe sucking bandit, and that I belong to tickle and foot forums.

My friend Adam knows that I used to think about his sister getting held up by toe sucking bandits, and that I belong to forums.

My friend Barney has a hot sister. He's told me when he's seen her barefoot a few times, and he knows I belong to the forums, but he doesnt know I've fantasized about her getting it from a tickle bandit, even though I know his fetishes.

So, thats the question. How many of your R/L friends know about your fetishes? Are you comfortable discussing it. Yes, or no, and why?

Mitch

As a bachelor I discussed my various quirks on a "Need To Know" basis, either with those I hoped or intended to play with, or to widen the scope of activities with a girl with whom I was already cavorting. Similarly if Kittentoes and I romp with someone, the same set of criteria applies.

Perhaps if you hadn't mentioned your odd fantasies about his sister being kidnapped by toe-sucking bandits to him, your ex-best friend would still be your best friend. I suggest you don't mention your fantasies about Barney's 'hot' sister to Barney either, but that's just my opinion. Adam, on the other hand, as he is still speaking to you after your disclosures about HIS sister, seems to be a patient, saintly fellow, and I think you should be as nice to him as possible.

And my own mother died when I was 24, pre-internet, but had this forum been in existence in those days I wouldn't have mentioned it to her as you have mentioned the forum to your own mother. Curiously, I feel that one's family should not be exposed to TMI. My parents didn't discuss their sex lives with me; I didn't discuss mine with them.

 

[Mitchell]

Thanks for the replies, everyone.

Lib, as to what you said..

My friendship with my ex best friend didnt break up because of my thinking about his sister getting held up by tickling bandits. There were other reasons, that arent relevant to this thread.

Yes, Adam is still speaking to me after my disclosures about his sister. I just talked to him tonight.

I've posted about this before, but I'll explain again, about why I mentioned this forum to my mom.

As you know, Libertine, having been a member of this forum for many years, it used to have an old, insecure non password chatroom.

One day,shortly after I joined the forum, i was talking to a girl, and forgot to ask age. All of a sudden, I saw a "17" flash on the screen, and a whole screen came up about my being in trouble with the NJ division of sex crimes, for "soliciting sex info from minors".

I was very new back then. Thinking I had a legal problem, I mentioned the situation to my mom, just for advice. It wasnt until a bit later, when Myriads informed me that the "Cop" I was in trouble with, was a troll who was a fake, that I knew there was nothing wrong.

Had that incident not happened, I would never have mentioned this forum to my mom. No one else in my family knows. Not my father, aunts, etc. No reason for them to.

Mitch

 

[King of tickles]

I've never told my friends I have a fetish. They've seen me tickle plenty of female friends but that's it. I know stuff about their sex life but I feel if I did everytime I tickle a female friend or gf, they'd be thinking that I'm getting off. I tend to look too much into things sometimes but I don't wanna blow this either. Anyone get what I'm trying to say?

 

[Mitchell]

Thanks, King, and yes, I do see what you're trying to say.

If the female friends you have been tickling think you are getting off to tickling them, the friends might very well be like "Dont tickle me/us", which would defeat the purpose.

Mitch

 

[King of tickles]

I don't think they do. I hardly do it.

 

[Rectangle]

None of their business..

 

[Mitchell]

K, I understand that view, Rectangle, and some people do feel that way about fetishes like this.

Mitch

 

[Cellmate]

I haven't told anyone, and I doubt any have figured it out. If they have, well, they haven't said a word to me.

 

[Mitchell]

Thats cool, Cell. I understand why you havent told anyone,

Mitch

 

[rhiannon]

Everybody who I talk to about sex knows. That makes about four girls. We don't go into details though. They don't care about that, and I don't care about the details of their sex-life.

 

[GQguy]

Need to know basis. If my buddy's and I are talking about physical characteristics of women then feet would be brought up by me. I would say though that at 29 we don't talk about the female anatomy in the same way we did when we were 19. Beautiful, gorgeous, cute and amazing body sum it up. We're gentlemen. As for sex, we're grown men that get laid fairly often so going into details is simply a waste of time. "Get laid last night?" "yup...damn Pitt is losing again!" No point in saying "yeah dude It started out with tickling then sex she orgasmed then I tickled her as I orgasmed". Now for the romantic relationships..lol! Alot of girls know. But as long as I treat them with respect
and they have fun and they know I had fun it's all good.

I do have one buddy that I get into deep conversations with and we'll talk about things that we like from an abnormal psychology point of view. But that's more intellectual talk.

If I ever told a buddy I wanted to tickle his sister and tie her up I'd better expect a black eye at best.

GQ

GQ

 

[watermellon]

Need to know basis. If my buddy's and I are talking about physical characteristics of women then feet would be brought up by me. I would say though that at 29 we don't talk about the female anatomy in the same way we did when we were 19. Beautiful, gorgeous, cute and amazing body sum it up. We're gentlemen. As for sex, we're grown men that get laid fairly often so going into details is simply a waste of time. "Get laid last night?" "yup...damn Pitt is losing again!" No point in saying "yeah dude It started out with tickling then sex she orgasmed then I tickled her as I orgasmed". Now for the romantic relationships..lol! Alot of girls know. But as long as I treat them with respect
and they have fun and they know I had fun it's all good.

I do have one buddy that I get into deep conversations with and we'll talk about things that we like from an abnormal psychology point of view. But that's more intellectual talk.

If I ever told a buddy I wanted to tickle his sister and tie her up I'd better expect a black eye at best.

GQ

GQ

What this dude said

 

[Tommygun1992]

Hopefully this thread will be a lot less controversial than my last one, and will generate some interesting discussion.

My question to the forum is: How many of your real life friends know about your tickling.. or foot fetish? Do you discuss it with them, the details, fantasies you have about tickling, etc.. or do you keep it to yourself?

I'm just talking "friends" here. I dont mean romance,, same sex relationships, opposite sex relationships, husband wife, other family, etc, just friends.

For me, only three of my friends in my whole life know/knew about the extent of my fetishes.

My ex best friend knew that I used to think about his sister getting held up by a tickling/toe sucking bandit, and that I belong to tickle and foot forums.

My friend Adam knows that I used to think about his sister getting held up by toe sucking bandits, and that I belong to forums.

My friend Barney has a hot sister. He's told me when he's seen her barefoot a few times, and he knows I belong to the forums, but he doesnt know I've fantasized about her getting it from a tickle bandit, even though I know his fetishes.

So, thats the question. How many of your R/L friends know about your fetishes? Are you comfortable discussing it. Yes, or no, and why?

Mitch

Only one of my friends know about my tickling fetish, but if it comes up, I'm pretty open about liking bondage, and I don't exactly have a fetish for feet, but I'm comfortable in saying that they are one of the most attractive aspects of a woman. Depending on who it is, I'd probably be comfortable talking about it if brought up. My only friend that knows is really open and understanding about that sort of thing, and he didn't judge me on it at all. If somebody straight up asks me if I have a tickling fetish, I won't deny it.

 

[King of tickles]

If someone asked me I'd deny it. My friends have said they like three ways, different positions and stuff being licked from their genitals. Sure they tickle their girlfriends. Not alot but that's a part of relationships. Difference is there are people that tickle their friends, family members and significant others without it being sexual or anything.

 

[DanishTickling]

I have not told any of my friends about my tickling fetish and I'm not going to. I have thought about telling them before though, when we have talked about sex. But I came to the conclusion that there will come no good out of it.
People who don't have a serten fetish obviously don't understand the fetish, even if they accept it. So what is the point in telling them?...

The only people I share my fetishes with, is people I want to involve in my fetishes or people who share my fetishes.

 

[King of tickles]

I have not told any of my friends about my tickling fetish and I'm not going to. I have thought about telling them before though, when we have talked about sex. But I came to the conclusion that there will come no good out of it.
People who don't have a fetish obviously don't understand the fetish, even if they accept it. So what is the point in telling them?...

Thye only people I share my fetishes with, is people I want to involve in my fetishes or people who share my fetishes.

Agreed

 

[Emishticklish]

Very few.

 

[FFT32]

I have a very close and dear platonic female friend who knows about my foot/tickle fetishes. We were having a conversation years ago that involved kinks and stuff like that and she just flat out asked me if I liked feet and had a foot fetish. She was and still is a great friend, so I was honest and said yes nice guess. We have discussed the topic many times. And Yes, she has awesome feet and No, I have never tried to touch them. We could easily endure foot play in our relationship and have discussed me giving her massages and tickling her several times, but I will not bring myself to do anything like that just yet.

I really care for and respect this person as a close friend and do not want to chance anything changing.

Peace

 

[peanie wilpnips]

They all know I'm Peanie Wilpnips

 

[Mitchell]

Thanks again for the replies.

GQ, I had to chuckle at your reply, pal. Maybe my friends are too.. laid back,.. but.. they never were like that. They all understood that their sisters were cute/hot, and that their close friend had a desire for them. Nothing wrong with having sexual fantasies about the hot sister of a close friend.

I dont think I told these friends that I belong to this site immediately when I joined, but. the conversation came up eventually. If I ever started dating someone long term on here, that I would have to discuss with the girl, how she wanted it handled, about where we met, as it would affect her too, of course.

Mitch

 

[Mitchell]

King, and green, I definitely understand why you both feel as you do. Also, the friends I have are very old friends. I know these guys a long time. I didnt admit to one friend from college about having a foot fetish, until about six years after I met him.

As for new people, going forward, that.. I would have to see. I'm sure I wouldnt tell them right away, but.,. after a while,. depending on the person, the subject might come up.

Mitch