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How Many Of Your Friends "Know" About Your Fetish(es)

Excluding friends met at gatherings who are TMF members, only two of my friends from real life know about my erotic interests in some detail. One of them has some kinks of his own and the other is (as far as I know) pure vanilla.
 
I've had 2 close friends for 13 and 8 years, those are the two I mentioned before and I still don't feel comfortable with telling them.
 
Thanks, mils. How ditd the one who was vanilla react?

King, I understand why you dont feel comfortable telling them. I'm a believer that every friendship and situation is different. You tell people what you feel comfortable with.

Mitch
 
I have a very close and dear platonic female friend who knows about my foot/tickle fetishes. We were having a conversation years ago that involved kinks and stuff like that and she just flat out asked me if I liked feet and had a foot fetish. She was and still is a great friend, so I was honest and said yes nice guess. We have discussed the topic many times. And Yes, she has awesome feet and No, I have never tried to touch them. We could easily endure foot play in our relationship and have discussed me giving her massages and tickling her several times, but I will not bring myself to do anything like that just yet.

I really care for and respect this person as a close friend and do not want to chance anything changing.

Peace

I have a similar awesome female friend who knows of my interests though doesn't know the extent to which I love tickling. She has pretty feet and is extremely ticklish (and hates it) but will give me a quick playful tickle on occasion. I'm like FFT32 where I don't want to jeopardize a great friendship so I keep my hands to myself.

A couple of other (mainly female) friends know of my foot fetish, mainly because I'm not careful enough, and one outed me in front of a larger group, which was really embarrassing. I still haven't gotten over that one.

Among male friends (non-TMF), no one knows...when I get together with male friends we usually watch a game, talk about golf, catch up on families, etc., but nothing overly personal.
 
all of them know of my tickling fetish pretty much... the foot fetish is more reserved
 
TKL_Rebel

No offense, but that is ass backwards from me lol. I somewhat freely will admit my foot fetish to friends, if the situation comes up, but the tickle fetish stays in the box. Thinking about making it, the foot fetish, an interest on my FB page. It depends on how I feel.

I couldn't imagine telling someone I'd want to tie up and tickle their sister though. Michell your a brave man. Course I'm more into the LIB tickle style than the tie up stuff personally. Not that there's anything wrong with other styles🙂

Much respect for everyone I mentioned and the community at large
K
 
Well, as I posted here a month or two ago, I told my entire Facebook. Basically, though, while I'm open and honest about it, I generally only tell people on a need to know basis. But if it comes up, I won't squirm and hide it like some other folks here.

I think the most interesting 'outing' I had, and I'll be damned if I remember how it happened, was that I told my headhunter. As in, the chick who represents the company that finds me work. We've become pretty close friends since then, and pretty much know all of the intimate details of each other's sex lives by now. She even knows I'd give a random body part to tickle her and sends me pictures of her feet on occasion. Just sent me one of her on the beach from her honeymoon, no less. So, yeah. Good times.
 
K, I understand that view, Rectangle, and some people do feel that way about fetishes like this.

Mitch

It's not just about the fetish..

I've had ex's that liked "makin' love" in the shower, that liked candles lit, that would wear kinky lingere, liked filming it, etc..
..none of which, if it were me, would I go blabbin' about to my grandmother or next door neighbor..

This is a part of my sex life after all, it's not exactly like collecting stamps..
 
I have a theory.

The people most concerned with outing themselves to people are insecure- types looking for validation. Those of us secure in who we are don't feel the need to blab it from the mountaintops.
 
Mostly all of my friends that have known me for about a week know I love
being tied up and tickled ect. 🙂 It also doesnt take them long to figure it out
for themselves even if I dont tell them lol
 
I have a theory.

The people most concerned with outing themselves to people are insecure- types looking for validation. Those of us secure in who we are don't feel the need to blab it from the mountaintops.

That all depends on what you mean. I don't just randomly walk around saying it. I talk about it if sex or something like that comes up.

If you mean the people that have an opening line of "I have a ticklish fetish" upon meeting a stranger, then yeah, that's pretty bad.
 
Now that I think about it - only two friends, both women that I would love to have tickled. And funny, I told them both the same way, within a couple days. We're close, but not such that we exchange bedroom stories.

I was drunk, once late out on a Friday night, the other on a Sunday afternoon watching football. I'm sure in my inebriated state I desperately wanted to tell someone, anyone about my tickle fetish, but still kinda nervous of putting myself out there. So, I overcame any angst by putting it on this girl I'd just started seeing (only 3 dates in)...

I told both of them that this new girl I was dating was "into tickling me." I went to explain how she would tickle me playfully, which led to more questions, and then I went on about how she was into bondage and tickle play. I played the line of a vanilla who got "converted" into liking tickling. Of course, I was pretending to be a lil nervous but open to play.

Their reactions were cool. They thought it unusual, and kinky - but nothing outlandish. Both commented on how ticklish they were & how nervous they would be to let someone tickle them. Great conversation. Since then, the girl became known as "Tickle gal" and I actually did tickle her not too long after.

Its deceptive but it worked for me...
 
Perhaps not even my partner, although he accepted that I do, however, only tickled at certain times...:lovestory
 
That all depends on what you mean. I don't just randomly walk around saying it. I talk about it if sex or something like that comes up.

If you mean the people that have an opening line of "I have a ticklish fetish" upon meeting a stranger, then yeah, that's pretty bad.

I mean the people who obsess over telling their friends about it, agonize about their reactions, then come here for advice. There's only two reasons, I feel, that you should broach the subject with your friends; you want them to join in on the fun, or you desperately need validation. Usually both, because if you didn't need validation you wouldn't be agonizing over how to bring it up to your friends... especially the ones you want to play with. You'd just do it.
 
My BF knows and a couple of male and female friends know as well. An ex probably guessed and a guy I used to work with had the fetish for sure and I think he was trying to find out if I did too.

I am less coy about it than I used to be. There's a quote from Isabel Allende, "Erotic is when you use the feather, perverted is when you use the whole chicken." I like that one a lot. 🙂
 
Over the years I've had several of my female friends suss out that I had a foot fetish (I still don't know how some of them knew, unless I'm not as discreet as I like to think I am), while others have guessed about my tickling fetish. However, this has been to my advantage as I've been able to massage, tickle and toe suck some of them with their consent. I wouldn't recommend shouting it from the rooftops, but it's helped me out here and there.

Cheers, everybody,
SmashTV
 
There's a quote from Isabel Allende, "Erotic is when you use the feather, perverted is when you use the whole chicken." I like that one a lot. 🙂

ahahah nice one! this will end on my facebook!

answering to the thread question, i'm more open about my foot fetish with my friends, but i don't discuss with them about it, except with one of my best friends
 
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